now what to do?

Question

Married for now 10 years, relationship with wife good, and after many years, from no where, i reconnect with my HS sweet heart. Now what to do?

Answer 1

Relationship with wife good< You are kidding right it's men like you that make us hate you.I hope your wife finds out and cuts your balls off it what you deserve.

Answer 2

Well do you love your wife? Now a decade or more has past since your HS sweet heart. Think before you leap on this because the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
Ask yourself why you didn't marry your HS sweetheart. There had to be a reason, don't throw your marriage away for a BOOTIE CALL.

Answer 3

If you truly love your wife stop talking to your highschool sweetheart you are a married man you have been in a relationship for 10 years with your wife and I'm sure your wife has seen you through many years of good and bad times are you willing to let your wife go for someone you knew many many years ago ? Its not worth it its just exciting for the moment because its someone new do right by your wife and stop this immediately -best wishes to you and your wife !

Answer 4

You are playing with "fire"..Why spoil a good relationship with your wife just because of HS Sweet heart. Any HS sweet heart after many years... by now will no longer be sweet anymore... It is sweet when it is fresh there and then. (many many years ago ) Now your mind set is different or maybe you think the same..however her mind set is different..why take the chance of ruining a good marriage and start from square one again.

I would recommend that you STOP this thinking of yours and let go HS sweet heart... It is HISTORY..ket it stays there.. and buried with it...

take care..

Answer 5

You need a reality check. I don't know what you mean by reconnect but you better decide if this old sweet heart is worth losing you wife over. If you have children then you really need to get your act together and stop being selfish

Answer 6

It sounds like you have a good marriage so why would you want to destroy it for what may only be an infactuation with a girl you went with in High school? Why hurt a woman that has devoted ten good years to you? Think about why you and your high school sweet heart split apart back then. Also think about the fact that you are two different people then you were back then and it may be hard to recapture what you felt for each other then. Personally I think you will only end up regretting it if you destroy a good marriage for someone from the past.

Answer 7

I'm not trying to judge, but any person that encourages or temps you (a married man) to leave your wife or to cheat on your wife is not worth hooking up with. If she has no respect for your marriage, what would she think of your relationship with her if you left your wife to be with her? She would not respect that relationship as much either. Stay at a safe distance from her, especially if she shows romantic interests. Be a real man.

Answer 8

Hello!! Don't screw up a sure thing (your marriage)!! You're not planning on meeting your HS sweetheart "for old time's sake," are you?

Wait for the HS reunion and visit with her there, with a CROWD of people (including your sweet wife). Or, make plans for her and her spouse/significant other to go out to dinner with you and your wife. Who knows, maybe your wife and she will hit it off and become friends as they would have one thing in common--YOU!!

Answer 9

Tell your HS sweetheart goodbye and honor your marriage vows. YOU have already made a commitment to your wife. There is a reason you and HS sweetheart broke up.

Answer 10

I wasn't going to address this, but just remember The grass always seems a little greener on the other side! If you do anything that could harm your marriage ,You will never forgive your self! What was in the past.needs to stay in the past!