alright so i'm in highschool and most of the guys there are jerks.
there is this one guy however who is completly different, he's smart, funny, adorable, & nice but he's really shy.
not in the sense where he doesn't talk, which we do everyday, but like when it comes to girls.
unlike most guys he isn't full of himself and doesn't like to show off but i think he's really scared of girls. i tried to give him a hug once and he kinda just did like a reach tap thing. He and i laugh togther alot and like alot of the same things but he seems really i don't know skiddish i guess.He's like this around all my friends (who all kinda like him too)
and i was wondering what's up with this guy and why he might be so shy.
i don't think he is gay, he's just really shy or maybe not even interested? help me figure this out please.
2007-04-15 17:36:58 · 10 answers · asked by thatonegirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you know the answer. This guy is just a little shy and unsure of himself. I definitely think he is interested but doesn't know how to express that interest or fears rejection if he did express that interest. Next time you see him, give him a hug. Maybe hold his hand a little bit. Do a few little things. Don't be afraid to make the first move, there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-04-15 17:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But he didn't reject your hug right? Then he is interested but still too early to tell if he's in boy-girl relationship but he is definitely a friend now.
Well, usually there are 2 types of shy guys, one is who are really really shy the other is quiet guys. I think the guy you mention is a quiet type who talks to friend and you mention that he is smart too so this type of guy usually have confident in them just that they did'nt show off as they normally think that not necessary to show others what they have.
Be friends with him first and see where can you proceed from here...both of you still in high school, there are still lots of guys you will meet...=)
2007-04-15 17:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by Yuu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy doesn't necessarily mean nice or not jerk or a bf material. Trust me there are shy jerks out there. Well he doesn't sound shy to me - he talks to you, and he didn't run away when you hugged him. He is just normal. If he's not grabbing you like real jerks would it doesn't make him shy. Just don't rush things. Sometimes they need a little more time to grow up than us girls.
2007-04-15 17:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just shy. I doubt he's gay, gay guys are usually the first to offer a hug.
However, I did have a friend in highschool (I graduated last year) who was just like that, he wouldn't hug his female friends because he was really religious. He didn't believe in dating unless you were ready for marriage, so to him girls were JUST friends nothing more.
I also have guy friends right now who say they like a girl but they don't want to ask her out...Guys are big babies, they are scared of us, they don't want to be rejected. as much as they think they are tuff, they aren't. when they(meaning my guy friends) are arround me its fine but when it comes to girls they like as more than a friend they get nervous. they dont want to look stupid so they dont ask a girl out I asked "whats the worst that can happen??She says no??"
lol he said "YES!!" lol like I said he's a baby.....Just be the brave one..I've asked a guy out- we liked each other but he was too shy to ask me so I asked him and well, It worked!!
I hope I helped.
2007-04-15 17:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by luv4horses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know if he has a gf (out of school)?
if not, and if hes not gay, i guess hes just shy
instead of going straight to hugs, try holding hands first
after all, you dont need to be someones gf to be holding their hand
after a while do the same thing with the hugging thing
do it enough times to make him really comfortable to do such things with you
and i guess pray that hes not or doesnt become gay lol
2007-04-15 17:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds shy. how cute.. maybe u should try talking to him alone and take things REALLY SLOW u dont want to scare him off. give him a lot of room and be very considerate of his shyness . maybe u can be the special girl to win his heart!
2007-04-15 17:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not shy, he's smart.
I think once men finally realize that women can't be figured out they have a reason to be scared.
2007-04-15 17:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by coffeemate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a lot like that guy. Hes shy probably. He needs to know a girl likes him before he will let them know. So let him know...
2007-04-15 17:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by Dan7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-15 17:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by MW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋