Do I just like the chase?

Question

I keep finding myself chasing after guys...and then once I get them...I'm no longer interested. I've tried over and over...to stay interested..and keep liking them once the chase is over. But I can't. Does this happen to anyone else?? I would think it's normal....but it's happened with every single I've liked.....and thats alot of guys. How do I stop being like this?? Thanks in advance you guys=]

By the wayy, I'm 15.

Also, I don't just stop liking guys once the chase is over, because I find the chase so fun. I genuinely can not like them anymore once I know they like me=/ And I don'tt know why.

Answer 1

Totally normal. My guess is that you are around 17 years old. I was completely the same. I'd chase them and then be like, "I'm over you" - next! This can be damaging cos you can end up with a reputation (like I did). However, just jave fun whilst you are young (like you are!) be safe and it's all good. I'm 24 now and trust me your ways will change. You start to want more and that's the time you will meet the man of your dreams (like I have) and want to be with him forever!

Answer 2

Get over yourself!

You are not the greatest gift to men. There is always someone better than you. Your actions show that you are trying to prove to yourself that you can "get the guy". You have no interest above yourself.

Start dating the guys that approach you. Start talking to those that you wouldn't normally approach. Then, you might see that love is not a game of conquering! Right now...you just seem like a beatch. Perhaps some time spent with a "nerd" or "unattractive" (by your standards) person might do you some good!

I have spent my life never even thinking about my appearance...at least, in guy terms. I only realized at age 30 that I was apparently "hot" according to guys. But even now, I don't see that. There is a lot to be said for modesty.

I married someone that I found attractive based upon his desire to meet me. He made the move....he continued the pursuit....and he made me feel good. He is not the epitomy of handsomeness, nor intelligence....but he loves me and treats me and our kids great. So, get over yourself and look further into people.

All that will come of that is a name...."slut". It is the worst thing that can happen to someone your age. It doesn't mean you have done anything...but it follows for people that behave like you. What do you care about boys now for???? You are 15....study, do your sports and stuff...worry about that later.

Answer 3

Totally normal miss 15. Over and Over these girlies on this question line think so dramatically about puppy love, does having fun ring a bell, please leave serious relationship dynamics to your mid twenties after job training, college and a good job=that girl you will become will know what to do! Don't get on the sex wagon either, or the drugs. Develop a hobby like running, biking, painting. This way you will have more in common with new dates you meet. Remember to keep friends with guys too that way your not so shallow!

Answer 4

I am going to say stop chasing the guys and let the guys chase you. Your bored with them because you have already proving to yourself that you can have what you want. So try sitting back and let someone chase you for a change. See how you feel then.

Answer 5

Well I feel sorry for all those guys then. You are just playing games, just like a man. Be careful cause what goes around come around and when you find someone you truely love, he might do the same to you one day if not sooner and then you will know how it feels.

Answer 6

You just like the chase. You will stop it when you find the right one.

Answer 7

If you're in your 20s, you neet to pick a guy who matches you.

If you're a teen, then just take a breather!