Family & Relationships - 15 April 2007

i am in a down low relationship with a close friend of mine. one day we kissed. the next day he sent me a text message saying okay yesterday i kissed you so today why dont you role me up. what does role me up mean?????

2007-04-15 14:34:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 14:34:49 · 4 answers · asked by zeroed_out2800 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy online forever ago (like 5-6 years ago) and he was married with two kids. One time during our 5-6 years of knowing him, he siad he was stupid for waiting around to meet me but then about 2-3 months later he came back stating he missed me, blah blah blah...Now he's unhappily married and I've always told him from day one, until he does something about his marriage him and I weren't going to meet or anything else and so far it's been that way. I don't regret it at all becaue I don't want to be a homewrecker but I don't know if this guy is being honest or not. He's a little over 10 years older then me (I know older men want younger women but I'm a whale and he knows this and he still wants me). What do I do ?? Do I continue to talk to him until he does something with his wife or realize he's not going to do anything with his marriage and move on ??

2007-04-15 14:29:07 · 8 answers · asked by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 in Friends

ok so i always get cat-called from guys cars and when im walking ...soo how come i dont have a bf if obviously these guys are trying to get my attention...why dont i have one ..whats up with that

2007-04-15 14:27:54 · 12 answers · asked by lilianna_babe17 1 in Singles & Dating

i kNow i sHould fOrget him.. because.. he doesn't loVe me anymoRe.. but hOw cAn i mOve fOrward when my hEart doesn't want to?? my past stiLL haunts me.. :'(

2007-04-15 14:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by fowtanesca_14 1 in Singles & Dating

I am really depressed. I am so lonely. I want to make more friends but my self esteem is very low. I want to start making good friends. I feel like I will never make friends. If anyone can be my friend, I will be so happy.

2007-04-15 14:24:32 · 6 answers · asked by AquaBlue 1 in Singles & Dating

I am really depressed. I am so lonely. I want to make more friends but my self esteem is very low. I want to start making good friends. I feel like I will never make friends. If anyone can be my friend, I will be so happy.

2007-04-15 14:24:25 · 4 answers · asked by AquaBlue 1 in Friends

I am really depressed. I am so lonely. I want to make more friends but my self esteem is very low. I want to start making good friends. I feel like I will never make friends. If anyone can be my friend, I will be so happy.

2007-04-15 14:24:17 · 2 answers · asked by AquaBlue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am really depressed. I am so lonely. I want to make more friends but my self esteem is very low. I want to start making good friends. I feel like I will never make friends. If anyone can be my friend, I will be so happy.

2007-04-15 14:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by AquaBlue 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 14:22:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any tips?

2007-04-15 14:17:57 · 11 answers · asked by Bryan S 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm getting married this fall, but unlike my friends who are getting married soon too, i'm not really excited about it like them? my friends send all these group emails to me saying how excited they are, how they're doing all the shopping and cake-picking, and stuff. but i don't feel that way. when people ask me if i'm excited about getting married, i have to say no cuz i'm not? is that normal?

2007-04-15 14:16:58 · 12 answers · asked by frazzlesnap 2 in Weddings

shes not a slut at all and she feels really bad:(

2007-04-15 14:11:15 · 1 answers · asked by .michellee. 2 in Singles & Dating

About a year ago I met this guy online on vidilife.com. I was a single lady with no kids at 26yrs old. I dated around for three years until I met this guy.This guy from Chicago left me a very touching comment on the photo I posted on my profile. I thought wow what a charming man. We talked on IM along with a webcam and we clicked right away. Two weeks after getting to know each other he wanted to meet me. He went ahead and purchased a plane ticket to meet me here in Ohio. When we saw each other I thought we can be more than friends. He told me he had no kids and he has been single for a long time. He is ready to settle b/c he is 30yrs old and wants a family. If we love each other and everything was real with him, what could go wrong. I wanted to have a baby so I got pregnant two months after we met. The same day my baby was born we got married. Then I just found out he was still married but separated with five children. He said he was afraid to tell me because he didn't want to lose me

2007-04-15 14:08:52 · 6 answers · asked by ariesmegs 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I used to NEVER turn him down even when I wasn't in the mood but I started to resent sex and never enjoyed it. Now I try to mostly have it when I want it to. We are now having sex 3 times a week as opposed to 5 times a week. I know he would like to have it more, but it stresses me out and causes me to not enjoy it if I feel like I HAVE to have sex. Am I wrong? Is 3 times a week enough?

2007-04-15 14:07:58 · 37 answers · asked by stripedbook 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What is everyone's opinion about reading your children's journals/diarys. I am pretty torn about this.
I am a step mother to 3 children. We have always gotten along, but latley, the older girls have just pulled a complete 180%, and I know that some is normal for a teenager, but they have become so disrespectful to me. Today, I found 13 year old's diary. I read it, desperate to find out what has been going on with her and it had a lot of mean things to say about me, but also about her father, and mother, and other step parent, all her siblings..ect...so I didn't feel as badly about that...
But, here is the tricky part: What do you do when you come across something in a child's journal, that you need to question? She has a major crush her step-father's brother. He is 13 years older then her, and she doesn't see that as a big deal because her dad is 10 years older than me. AND...he lives with them at her other house. I think we need to confront her about it, but I don't know how?

2007-04-15 14:07:21 · 16 answers · asked by sincerelysarah117 3 in Family

go running. She is always on my case about the little sh*t, like keeping my room spotless and doing chores without her asking. I'm a good kid and don't ever break the law and gets really good grades. It has bothered me since i was little, how do I talk to her about it, or should I even say anything? What can I do to help her? I have no idea what to do to get it to stop bothering me, please help.

2007-04-15 14:06:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

lol recently ive been out and about, this doesnt always happen but if im walkin down the street or something there is sometimes groups of girls (im on my own) and they'll say like "nice top", "nice hat" or something along them lines as they walk by me. As theres more of them they feel more brave to speak.

Now is this a way of sayin that they like me or they takin the cheese outta what i wear lol?

ps:
lol on worst occasions theres even been men sayin "hi sexy" or just wooing at me and im like wtf.. im not gay or anything and i dont dress 'that way' either..

2007-04-15 14:05:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-15 13:54:49 · 30 answers · asked by airbear_6493 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. I'm 22 years old and still live at my parents house because I'm going to school. They are trying to control all aspects of my life, telling me what I can and can't do, putting an 11 o'clock curfew on me, and making me ask permission to do things. If I tell them I wont be home not to worry they will be ok with it at first then call my cell 50 times untill I get so upset I come home. Basically I have to cater to their needs. This moring they told me I was kicked out and so I went to my aunts house. They called there to apologize and wanted me to come home. Any suggestions on how to handle this? I really don't want to be on bad terms with my parents but if need be I do have a place to live.

2007-04-15 13:53:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She spends the night with him what would that say? What would you do? Please help this is a crisis for me.

2007-04-15 13:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by teddybear 1 in Friends

2007-04-15 13:43:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What are some things that guests enjoy most at weddings? When you go to a wedding what makes it memorable for you, what do you enjoy most? Any advice is appreciated. Thank you.

2007-04-15 13:43:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So my Q does the size of a girl make any difference whatsoever considering a guy's penis size. I.e. if a small guy is with a very small woman will it feel normal? Would a larger guy with a larger woman feel normal? Is there any type of variance in women's sizes as far as what they can handle?
Just something I've always wondered, especially when see humongous guys with petite women.

2007-04-15 13:42:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, here goes. I have a very good friend, I met him at work some 4 months ago. we atarted seeing each other a lot, going out, visiting etc, he had a girlfriend, but the relationship was clearly breaking up. they finally did break up this week, on Friday we went out with his friends, ended up kissing and went back to his place... and over the weekend, we have "met" like this twice more. the thing is, he keeps saying that he is still confused and doesn't know what to do, or doesn't want to get involved so soon... stuff like that. but also, he keeps kissing and hugging me, even when he is not in bed with me, saying he loves me, I am his great friend etc. I really don't know what to think. we have always talked so much and enjoyed spending time together, in these past months, it would be terrible to loose that, but know, I think we are on a whole new level. i do care about him a lot, and I am sure he cares about me, but this situation is so confusing, I don't know what's happening????

2007-04-15 13:42:25 · 23 answers · asked by mimma 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you undermine her authority with the children? Tell how great other women look to you? Disregard her opinion? What is your forte?

2007-04-15 13:37:50 · 13 answers · asked by so tired 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 16 years old and I started dating a guy that I dated before. He treated me well than and he does now. I left him before because I did not want a relationship. My parents really like him. I am mad at him because he told me that he has slept with two girls. Do I have the right to be mad at him and be in a fight with him? I will say this...he knows that I am not ready for a sexual relationship. He has never pressured me and I beleive he never. I am just very mad at him for being with two girls after I left him.

2007-04-15 13:37:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are going to have many out of town guests come in for our wedding, so we are making "wedding welcome bags" , please give us any ideas or suggestions you have for what we could put in the bags. Preferably inexpensive items, we are on a budget with these bags. Also, I am very crafty if you have any creative ideas as well.

2007-04-15 13:36:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

OK this is what happened. This was two months ago. Feb 15. OK so theres this retarded girl that everyone hates. And she won second place in the spelling bee last year. This was my first year and I decided to join the spelling bee. I'm twelve ok? Ok one of the rules at the bee were that if you lose a word and another person from the same grade loses your word you are both back in. Ok? So before the Feb 14. I entered and we did a trial in the classroom. I beat the smartest girl in the class so everyone was suprised that I could still stand with the retard. Ok Feb 15. I lost on the word parfait. I don't study and yet I am a good speller. But how was I supposed to know the t was silent??? UGH!!!! %$#! Ok...BUT THE TEACHER GAVE ME THAT WORD JUST SO THAT STUPID TEACHER'S PET COULD WIN!!! I STILL CAN'T GET OVER IT! But you what's worse??? MY GRANDMA DIED THE DAY BEFORE!!! FEB 14! RRRRR! WHAT DO I DO NOW? EVERYONE AT SCHOOL HATES ME AND MAKES FUN OF ME! ... wait..

2007-04-15 13:34:14 · 5 answers · asked by Purple Frog 1 in Friends

When I was going through a nasty custody battle with my child's father ... my sister wrote against me while she was on heroin. My sister had been living in another state for several years and came back to haunt us with a heroin addiction, she baby sat my child and used heroin whilst she was in my home, she ate all the food from our cupboards, and I came home screaming at her. Her writing me off in court against my child, she stated "I had anger issues" - what mother wouldn't be screaming about having someone using heroin looking after their child ... !

2007-04-15 13:33:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family