Ok. I'm 22 years old and still live at my parents house because I'm going to school. They are trying to control all aspects of my life, telling me what I can and can't do, putting an 11 o'clock curfew on me, and making me ask permission to do things. If I tell them I wont be home not to worry they will be ok with it at first then call my cell 50 times untill I get so upset I come home. Basically I have to cater to their needs. This moring they told me I was kicked out and so I went to my aunts house. They called there to apologize and wanted me to come home. Any suggestions on how to handle this? I really don't want to be on bad terms with my parents but if need be I do have a place to live.
2007-04-15 13:53:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When I'm with my friends on the weekends we are usally at a friends apartment. So I'm not running the streets and they know that. It's not like I don't tell them were I'm going. I will tell them "hey I'm at so in so's house don't worry about me as I'm going to stay the night." I just don't think I should have to ask.
2007-04-16 01:45:19 · update #1
1) your 22 years old your an adult
2) yes you are liveing in there house
3) do you pay rent, do you work
4) you need to show them that they can trust you and that you have got to show them that you are a responcible 22 year old and then they might give you some slack
5) your 22 they cant tell you how you sould run your life they souldnt have to give you a curfew or tell you what you can and cant do if they trust you.... it looks like they dont trust you that why they have all these rules.
6) you sould talk to your parents about how you feel and comramise with them
5) write down what you things like, what time that you will be home, were you are going and so one. parents are still protective of there children there is nothing wrong with that......you will understand when you have a family of your own and you do the sam thing as your parents did to you with your own child.
im 24 and have a child i also live with my parents.....i pay rent, i dont work or go to school.... i still ask if i can go places so they know were i am, they dont tell me what i sould and cant do, i show them that im responsible by me looking after myself and paying my rent and how i can take care of myself just because i live in there house dosent me i cant look after myself and my child.
2007-04-15 14:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 14:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see i hate to say this but you are a girl. and most parents cant think of their little girl running the streets all night.. i am 39 years old and i have to say i agree with them. nothing good ever happens after midnight. however, you have the right to a life. so i believe with a little talk you could get your curfew to midnight. then 1 then 2. just be punctual. when you say midnight. i know it is hard but be there. it will really prove something to your parents. this advice is coming from a 39 year old single guy. i would appreciate it if your my friend.
2007-04-15 14:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by Dirk C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my daughters moved in with us after college. I only had one rule:
Put the name and phone number of the person(s) you are going to be with, and the name of the club/restaraunt... in a sealed envelope on the kitchen counter.
That way I could sleep at night, and if she wasn't home when I woke, I would open the envelope and start looking for her.
It allowed her to have her privacy and it allowed me to have a good night's sleep not worrying where she was or who she was with.
2007-04-15 14:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by Elt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are under their roof so you need to abide by their rules.While you are living under their roof then draw up a contract that you can all live with.At the same time you if you dont like living there with the constraints then as you are22 shift out.
2007-04-15 13:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋