She spends the night with him what would that say? What would you do? Please help this is a crisis for me.
2007-04-15 13:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by teddybear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She got together with some guy.after three weeks of dating (during the first weeks she got her first kiss from him) that friday she gose over too his house and SPENDS THE NIGHT.IN THE SAME BEDROOM. This is a problem because she is my best friend and has been for an number of years and i don" want to lose her as a friend over a dam boyfriend!!!!!!!!
2007-04-15 13:59:06 · update #1
first off i am a girl and my bf is a girl. she is the one with the boyfriend i have never had a relationship with him before. so what should i do? when she went over to his house did thay have .......sex????
2007-04-15 14:07:18 · update #2
personally i feel that what ever you best frined does is her business, unless she really needs help you shouldnt really worry about it.
2007-04-15 13:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by charllie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you involved? If this is the case it is a love triangle, your best friend is his past, and you are the present, now you should talk to your bf, who among the two of you does he really loves? maybe you are just his scapegoat, if it happen to me, i might ignore all his phonecall, and started moving on, because this is a very complicated thing, a waste of time and energy, because this man still loves his ex, and he doesn't has the quilt that his sleeping with her might cause his present gf heart pain, he doesn't care who he hurts, just to have sex...can you still trust him if he says he loves you?.....ladies, be smart!
2007-04-15 21:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by emma l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wud ask her how it went if she told u that is. i dont understand how this is a crisis 4 u. im sure if she wants to sleep wid sum1 then its up 2 her. u shudnt be worried insted of fretting over wot they did turn it into a funny conversation as friends do as i sed b4 ask her how it went. and if she is willing to tell u all then she will. im sure u both cud have a laf and a giggle over this.
2007-04-19 06:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't wanna lose mine too. Stick with her. ASk her if he's the choice of her life. If he is then tell her that you're happy for her. You know that she has to have a man of her life. But still, if he's the one then u don't have to b worry about losing her. She's not going to forget u n she'll need u later on. But if u know that he's not, u better take ur moves. don't ask wat to do, think wat to do..k
they might had some..
or they might just chat..
2007-04-15 21:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by middle of mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just obeying her natural instincts. Go forth and multiply.
2007-04-15 21:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Narky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask her what happend and if its something bad...that you cant handle then i wouldnt be freinds with her anymore.
2007-04-15 20:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care if she goes and sleeps with him? were you sleeping with him or planning to? why is this a crisis for you?
2007-04-15 20:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, I'm very confused with your question. make it a little clearer
2007-04-15 20:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by funky_flowers24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what you feelif this is real friend she/he will listen.
2007-04-15 20:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y don't u just ask her what happ its willlbe easyer in i t
2007-04-16 12:44:03 · answer #10 · answered by amy_baby123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋