lol recently ive been out and about, this doesnt always happen but if im walkin down the street or something there is sometimes groups of girls (im on my own) and they'll say like "nice top", "nice hat" or something along them lines as they walk by me. As theres more of them they feel more brave to speak.
Now is this a way of sayin that they like me or they takin the cheese outta what i wear lol?
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lol on worst occasions theres even been men sayin "hi sexy" or just wooing at me and im like wtf.. im not gay or anything and i dont dress 'that way' either..
2007-04-15 14:05:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should ask your friends whether you are thought to be gay.
2007-04-15 22:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by margaret w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the way you describe it, sounds like you may be wearing some really cool stuff that it makes people just have to say something about it and they can't help themselves. Even the guys!! Gals won't say stuff unless they are in a group for fear of being rejected by you so you might just be a "hottie". Are you considered an especially attractive person? Most modest people are and that's the reason they can't understand or feel uncomfortable with the compliments. Hope this helped.
2007-04-23 13:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by B2thaD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be cruel or discouraging but some men have effeminate ways about them. They may not be gay, but they might look slightly girly, have delicate bone structure to their face. Dark eye brows, long dark eye lashes and rosey cheeks might make a young man look like he's wearing make up. Some men may even move slightly effeminate. I've always thought Asian young men look a bit girly to be honest, I would of course never tell them that. I don't think there's anything physically wrong with men like this and they are totally heterosexual but can be mistaken for being gay sadly enough.
2007-04-23 12:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by purplepeace59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a handsome boy. It seems the girls like you. When I was younger and with a group of friends, we used to do that ONLY to a cute guy. We never bothered if the guy was ugly. As for the men saying "hi sexy" I can't imagine what that is all about? UGH.
2007-04-23 12:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Susie L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about this but I think they're taking the piss. If 1 girl was to go by and say this stuff then I'd say she wants you but when girls are in a group we tend to get bitchy and do things like that. Next time it happens turn round and say something similar back. That will catch them off guard and embarrass them.
2007-04-21 05:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um- its a hard one as people can be sarcastic - they could fancy you and like your own sense of style though - more to the point are you happy with what youre wearing - they are pretty immature if they are being sarcastic - i like looking at people who look different to me re clothes as i think its nice to have your own sense of style - and the men who are whistling maybe they are gay - my hubbys been chatted up by men and he def doesnt loook gay - but then how do you determine whether someone look s gay or not ?? if you walked down the road swinging your hips saying hi darlins! then i guess yes haha - just take it as a compliment or jealously whatever makes you feel good !
2007-04-19 21:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Swan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if you aren't wearing very nice clothes then it may be to take the mick, whereas if what your wearing is fine the girls may be subtly flirting.
I know this for a fact, because when me and my friends are out and we see someone we think is alright, we tend to shout 'Nice top' etc.
As for the men, if your sure your not gay, they're probably taking the mick.
2007-04-16 01:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think either you're extremely attractive or something wierd is going on! I think the next time something like that happens you should ask them why they just said that or if they really like your outfit or r just messing with you!! And if you're with a friend and that happens ask if they know whats going on and that could help too!
2007-04-23 13:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by Gracie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its' just like you said they see a fine guy and since it's more of them they tend to get bold and holla at you! they could really be into your clothes or your look and what not. the fact that they with their girls gives them courage. and i have had a few females tell me i look cute. i take it as a compliment, say thanks and move on. take it as that!!! some guys are going to find you attractive but your not gay LOL. . . .till you act on it!!! me on the other hand, i can compliment a guy with or with out my girls!!!
2007-04-23 11:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by Cutie Pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still happens to me down the street
their just taking the mick
i quite like the attention all the girls give me
2007-04-21 04:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by I'm Just Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They have abit too much alcohol and are being brave as well as trying to look 'funny' in front of their mates.
2007-04-23 01:40:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋