I was just wondering because I know it would make me jealous if my boyfriends exs were supper hott or good in bed. Cause I don't want to be second best doesn't anyone feel the same?
2007-04-15 16:54:51 · 7 answers · asked by i ♥ Food 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't beat yourself up. If she were that great, she wouldn't be an "ex" would she? Being hot looking or good in bed isn't the entire package. Even the most puerile guy will want good conversation, someone to make him laugh or laugh at his jokes, share experiences with (past and present) someone who appreciates his interests. Being good in bed isn't the end-all for a relationship. Look at all the actresses and models who were once considered gorgeous. Some still are because of good genes or a good plastic surgeon on permanent retainer. Others look like hags. It's called the aging process and we'll all go thru it.
Seems like if your boyfriend is with you, then the "ex" is now second-best. Don't let your jealousy show--it'll drive a guy away faster than almost anything else.
2007-04-15 17:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by goldie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1
2016-05-08 04:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jerome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't matter to me what my lover's ex looked like or how she was in bed. My lover is with me for me. I'm what he's into now. There's no comparison. It's along the same lines as me not comparing my current lover to any of my exes. Why should I? They're completely different people. I'm with my current lover for a reason. There's no need to worry about score keeping.
2007-04-15 17:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's no longer authentic. i'm particular some ex-fans proceed to be as acquaintances. Do you recommend divorced human beings or now no longer courting? i think its purely somewhat awkward to be putting out with an ex-bf/gf or ex-husband/spouse by fact which you will in simple terms start to think of relating to the way you used to this element or be married. in the top you're able to be able to argue with the guy conversing relating to the source of ways you broke up and stuff and then yelling on the different guy or woman. properly I on no account truly liked YOU the two! OR something. Idk any authentic existence ex-fans that are nonetheless acquaintances yet i'm particular i'm particular some anybody is like that.
2016-12-29 15:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by tray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep I'd be too. But I wouldn't know if they were good in bed, cause he'd know better than to tell me that crap!!! Some times people get tired of dating the same type and start looking beyond the outside. So that should make you feel good, that he saw something more than just looks in you. And here's another thought, maybe your just as super hot or even more in his eyes. Something had to attract him to you.
2007-04-15 17:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by yani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course no 1 wants to feel 2nd best... best hes not with them anymore hes with you
2007-04-15 16:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by SD girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was second best.. it sucked really hard... be afraid.. be very, very, aftraid...
2007-04-15 17:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by LION 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋