My friend just got home and told me that she just had sex with this dude...she doesnt know what to do and feels like a piece of sh*t Tell me some things to say that will make her feel better.
2007-04-15 15:44:20 · 1 answers · asked by !London Force! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure what kind/ depth of relationship you have with your friend, but the best thing you can do for her is be honest. If she is worried about pregnancy or a transmitted disease, be there as a friend and go with her to get the tests. Not knowing the relationship she had with the guy (boyfriend, good friend, one-night stand), I'd wonder and ask why she feels so bad about sleeping with him. Start there - if she feels bad because she thought it was too soon talk with her about what to say to the guy to slow down their relationship/ try something different in the bedroom or if she felt a little dirty for doing it - talk with her about how she should still be proud of herself and her body and although she made the chioce to do this now - make a change for the future. Remind her that her friends will still be there for her, if they are true friends and that her parents may understand and should/will be forgiving because she will always be their daughter (if she is worried about them). Good luck and tell your friend to keep her chin up.
2007-04-16 08:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by bonsai67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋