How do you know what your suppose to do in life?

Question

I am just so very confused on what I want to do in life and I feel like I'm running out of time to have a family if thats what I am suppose to do. I'm 28 and some days I just feel like running and not turning back but I also don't want to leave my Sister since we've became very close.

I hate feeling stuck!

Answer 1

You are not stuck! And PS, putting your sister first is something to be proud of. Most people abandon others too easily.

You are BORED!

Do everyday; stretching and aerobic exercises. This will get your metabolism UP. So you will feel better. The Step works wonders.

Now write down on two sheets of paper;
WHAT I WANT TO DO WITH MY LIFE
WHAT I DO NOT! WANT TO DO WITH MY LIFE

Start researching different jobs, etc. that describe what you want to do with your life.

Next, most people live about to 85 years of age. That means you have 57 more YEARS ahead of you to figure out what you want to do with your life. Trust me, you will figure out something.

Use those new dating services that you see on tv all the time.
There are a LOT of guys looking for companionship. Another place to find guys is a local gym. NOT BARS!!

No children? Go to you state adoption agency. You can adopt with almost NO cash. NOT PRIVATE ADOPTIONS.
We adopted our son thru the state. 15 now, wonderful son.

I use to think about running all the time. Now my wife, our son, my wife's sister and her two children get together every weekend for the movies, go on vacations together 3-4 times a year and laugh and love all the time. If I ran, what would my wife and her sister do?

Your sister needs you! There is a child out there looking for a mother that needs you. And there is a man out there looking for a wife that needs you. And you WILL find the perfect job.

OK?

Answer 2

I'm at the same place you are right now. I would love to have a family, but I am not sure I can ever find someone to have a family with. I am just feel so empty and lonely inside right now.

I have also had a lot of bad experiences and family problems, and I'm not sure people will accept me for who I am. I would like to change a lot of the things in my life, but have no idea how.

if you would like to talk, you can email me at [e-mail]

Answer 3

You have to take risks, you just have to take that pathway and just go through it. Yes you may have to leave your family and friends, but its only for a little while, until you got a firm hold of your life. Don't wait until you are 40 to find out what to do with your life. Do it now.

Answer 4

Its not important what you do, its what you think about what you do that matters.......We become what we think about......What are you stuck in??.......... Lighten up and relax, enjoy yourself, life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what your going to get..........Do what you love and enjoy the most.......... 28yrs young live in the present, don't agonize over the future......... Live , Love, Laugh, Work and be happy for tomorrow you may die...... Learn to live life one day at a time and celebrate today..........Be patient and kind to yourself........Do not be hasty..........

Answer 5

Get a career! Find that special someone. Fall in love. Get married and get your own house when you are ready for it. Then a family can come after that. Sweet dreams! =<)