I've asked a lot of questions about this one guy over and over and over. Each time a new problem comes up that im feeling worried about. This time it is worse. This hit me hard and i've had problems.
I like this guy named Frankie but Frankie doesnt like me he says [i dont have the right personality, im not attractive by his standards, not smart enough, and too young] heres the problem he likes a girl named Mickey. My cousin and friend. She is my age, she gets worse grades than me, and Frankie and i seem to 'click' more than thy do.
Worse part is she likes him too. She has a history of dating guys that are my firends and dumping them. After she dumps them she expects me not to talk to them, which i wont do.
Now frankie came over yesterday and mickey and him arent going out yet. We were sitting on the couch and before i knew it we kissed. Kind of jooking around and such it happened a few more times that night.
2007-04-15 12:14:33 · 8 answers · asked by drummergrrl2004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He insists that he doesnt like me more than a friend and now that he kissed me i like him more than ever!!!
since i found out he likes her ive been comparing myself to her beyond reason and without realizing it.. i tihnk im changing myself. Im becoming more like her. More sexually slirtacious and acting more a little more stupid. I dont know what to do i havent slept and i cant eat. Im scared and i just really feel like frankie is the best thing thats ever happened to me. I would do anything to be with him no matter what. I just want to forget him but i dont tihnk i can. Ive never felt love before but if i ever do i tihnk it would feel like this and please dont tell me im too young to know what l;ove his because im not.
2007-04-15 12:17:10 · update #1
The only thing wrong here is the fact that you allowed yourself fall in love with a guy... not realising that it is the guy that should fall in love with you... You are only meant to submit to a guy that loves you after you have somewhat tested his professed love to a point that you are convinced that he would treat you right... you know respect you and all that you require to keep you happy.
Listen... no doubt... love is pain but really it is not healthy for you to subject yourself to this type of pain because if he does not love you there is nothing you can do to change his mind...
I understand that you like this guy and that if you ever fall in love, the feeling you have now is what you will have... but listen to yourself... you will have to agree with me that you are not doing yourself any good if you allow this experience lead to an heart break... really it is not worth it.
My advice to you is re-evaluate this guy and you will see that if he could ever love you like you love him he would have already started showing some signs that he feels your pain... also even if he eventually starts giving you some positive response, immediatelly he comes accross his dream girl, he will dump you... Now that is a point you do not want to get to before you start working on yourself to forget him... forget him and generally stay away from guys until you have yourself back... because, really, I think you've lost yourself.
Somebody loves you, when he reveals himself, test him constructively, and convince yourself that he deserves your submission... Babe... I love you... but not like this... no... not the way you are right now... I love you... as your real self...
2007-04-15 12:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by agboola f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you have a messed up friend... Don't let your friend ALWAYS tell you what to do, it is your life.. It seems you both look like you like each other but frankie says your not smart enough? I think you should get someone else and a new friend because why would a real trustworthy friend do that??
Your falling in love with the bad guy and you will end up getting hurt in the future. You should think first before you act.. because seriously this is all just a silly game right now.
2007-04-15 12:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse you don't think your to young but what do you have to compare it to,so you see you don't really no what love is or
what love feels like.Don't you think that someone who has lived longer and who has been in more relationships would no just a little more then you do. You sound pretty smart so use your head you no how you are acting is wrong.This feeling will pass i no you think you will never get over him.You
want him so bad that you will do just about anything to be with him,just the touch of him makes you go crazy,am I right so far.
How do you think I no how you feel toward him we all been where you are we all fell in love like that at your age.You will look back on this one day like I am now and give the same
advise as I'm giving you now. Remember love grows it doesn't' start out as love.
2007-04-15 12:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry to take heed to approximately your undertaking... i comprehend it is going to be very difficult. the only element you're able to do now's circulate on and make certain you and your son have a happy existence by fact which you deserve one... As for the jerk that left you... Hit him up for some baby help. He has a duty to help shelter your son... There are courses obtainable to help unmarried mothers get on their feet and be triumphant... circulate to college and get your self an unbelievable occupation which will supply properly for you and your son... you will hit upon a powerful guy sooner or later, it ought to take a mutually as, yet he's obtainable. Spend time with your friends and family contributors and concentration on making your existence a happy one. i comprehend each and every thing sucks on the instant, in spite of the undeniable fact that it is going to pass. i'm hoping I helped... solid luck, i comprehend it is going to all artwork out for you
2016-12-29 14:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a toughie. It's great to like a guy, but if he tells you all the negative things about you, is it worth it? It's great that you to had a positive connection that one night, but look at the history behind you two. Just stay true to yourself and eat!!!
2007-04-15 12:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,your not to young to know what love is,but i think you should really forget about him.it seems to me that he doesn't like you but he wants to be sexually active with you.i think you should try to get a grip on yourself because this guy isn't right for you.he's making matters worse for you.the more you get close to him,the more you want him.stay away from him and try to forget that he even exists in this world.try,and maybe you'll make it.Good Luck!!
2007-04-15 12:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from Frankie. He isn't making you happy, he's making you miserable. Find someone worth while.
2007-04-15 12:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by griffinthecat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from Frankie, he is just playing with you.
2007-04-15 12:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋