ok theres this girl in school that i like but im really shy on asking her out...everytime i see her either on school or at the store she makes eye contact with me...my question is that what does it mean when she makes eye contact with me what does it mean? please no stupid answers like for example:cuze your ugly...best answer gets 10 extra points...please help!!
2007-04-15 16:11:29 · 12 answers · asked by JD 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok my man, first be calm, take a deep breath, you mustn't show anxiety, say something to her and start teasing her.
She thinks she's really important, so you must prove the opposite, to you she's just a girl who is a little nice.
This is what you have to put in your head to be able to talk to her in an easy confident way.
Pretend you're an actor and she sees you as a God. As a man.
Ok that's the first step, now start flirting with her, what do you. you go to her and you make quick comedy not directly to her but make sure she's paying attention to what you say.
Speak firmly and in a secure and confident way. Even if what you're saying is completely dumb.
When you believe you are cool other people will feel that energy in your face and your emotions. That's what you transmit to others.
So just stay cool, step by step you go to her and talk, always mainteining your tall high posture.
Remember to always be at a higher level than her.
Be really sarcastic with her like a play along and show interest in getting to know her.
Let her know that she deserves you.
A pick up line to ask for her e-mail or telephone number could be.
Hey, I have this friend who would really like you. How about you give me your email and I'll tell him to write you back.
My friend is really (describe in a modest way your personality features) cool.
Good luck buddy, it worked for me with an soap actress I met. It will work on any girl no matter how nice she is
2007-04-15 16:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel Rodd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her, she is not worth worrying over. If she is going to act like that then she is not good enough for you, go find someone better. Sorry you got jumped, she sounds like a bi***. I would find a group of your friends (girl) and have them have a little talk with her, that is if you want to stoop to her level. Just forget about the broad, she needs to get a life. Like I have told many people on here, it is not the look of a guy or a girl it is what is inside that counts, she must have been very shallow to pass you by, don't let this keep your down, you are better then that. Hope I could help.
2016-04-01 03:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule #1, Learn it well. You can never read a chick by a glance, they are just simply way to complicated for that. Don't even try. So on to the next part....
Way back in the day I gave some similar advice to a friend of mine that was extremely shy and pretty much in the same situation you are. 4 words. Ready?.....
"Balls To The Wall!"
Thats it man. Suck it up and just do it, ask her out or ask her to go do something. Anything. You have absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain so just do it. Yeah it may sound hoaky but when I gave that advice to my friend he ended up dating the girl for over 5 years. Best of luck!
_Josh
2007-04-15 16:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Joshua Seevers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact is good, but as a whole it doesn't mean jack. Do you get any other indications of interest? Does she smile when she sees you? Does she bump into you? Does she push through a crowd to say hi? Does she touch your arm or anything? Does she do anything to indicate that she's interested at all?
If this isn't enough, write to me privately and I'll give you more.
2007-04-15 16:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was soooo long ago, BUT.......
I still remember when I saw the guy I liked.
I was too shy to speak, too scared to go up to him.
So....I made eye contact. Not just a quicky either....a long, lingering eye contact. One that let him know without words what I was thinking, and gave him the power to come to me and get to know me better.
It has NEVER failed yet.
I'm 38 years old, and I can get ANYTHING I want with a long, lingering sensuous stare deep into the soul.
I suggest that you start taking her hints before she starts eyeing someone else.
She wants you to get a clue...and be the man here!
2007-04-15 16:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by FrEaKoNaLeAsH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she makes eye contact with you because she sees you looking at her and she knows you are watching and thinking about her. She probably would like it if you talked to her instead of looking at her because it may be making her uncomfortable. I am sure if she didn't like you, she wouldn't look nicely at you, she would avoid you. I believe she is waiting for you to talk to her. Just do it...it will be better after you do.
2007-04-15 16:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Wanda K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you perhaps she is shy and is hoping you will come over and talk to her, if you shy try just walking over to her maybe come up with a cute line like "can i borrow your pen" when she give you one tell her your "the second most famous pen thief ever heard of me?" We like a guy who is clever and it could break the ice. Good luck.
2007-04-15 16:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by lovesunflowers78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She makes eye contact with you because she is confident. Maybe she wants to talk to you too. Good luck!
2007-04-15 16:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by bails 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she might like you and be a little shy also. You should make a move on her. She isnt going to wait 4ever. Trust me i know.
2007-04-15 16:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes someone looks at you cuz they think why you're lookin at them. she probably has some interest in you. why don't you just try to get to know her first and get comfortable around her and make sure she's the one before you ask her to actually be your girlfriend.
2007-04-15 16:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by 嗨! 안녕! =) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋