This question is for the white guys?

Question

What would be your reaction if a black woman came up to you in a bar and offered to buy you a drink in hopes of getting to know you better? I am a black woman very much interested in dating white guys and was told by a white guy that this was a good thing to try. I then realized that he does not speak for every white man out there. So if you are the type that is intrested in dating black women share your thoughts with me. If not then this is not the question for you to answer. Also I would like to know how you think you would approach a black woman you were intrested in. And the type. I want to know a lot don't I?............lol

Just to let you guys know. I am truly intrested in white men this is not some fetish or phase nor am I upset to see white women with black men. I just want what I want and right now I want to date a white guy.

Answer 1

It sure would be nice if color was not an issue, wouldn't it? I think that is going to depend on each person and I suppose you will know when you approach that person. To some, it may not matter, to others it might be a "fetish". And perhaps to some...they may not dig at all. I imagine you will get the idea even before you approach him in the first place. I would approach a black woman like I was approaching any woman I suppose. If she just saw me as the "white guy working it"...then I guess I would not be approaching very long. I think the most unfortunate thing about black and white dating today is the acceptance that our parents/grandparents will have for it because those generations are still pretty old school. But do what you feel is right, and date someone you want to date because of wh they are...not what color or race. By the way, I am available Saturday! :)

Answer 2

Well, I don't drink but assuming I did this would seem to be a reasonable approach. It's a common tactic people use and it's likely to get results.

As for how I would do the approaching, I'd probably try the same thing. Unless, for whatever reason, I didn't think it would work on the particular woman (e.g. she's ignored every other guy that's tried it). If that's the case I would do my best to come up with something else that might work.

Honestly, no matter the person's skin color, I would assume there'd be no difference in how you would go about showing your interest in them.

Good luck!

Answer 3

First off, I'm married. But when I was single I found myself attracted to women of all creeds and nationalities. (If they breathed...)

It goes without saying that a guy would be thrilled if he were approached at a bar. Whether it would move on to a nice conversation and even a date would depend if the guy were attracted to you. And most people are attracted to what is familiar to them. That said...

If you're picking up a white guy in a big sprawling metropolitan area, then you'll have a good chance of it winding up into a date. Picking up a white guy in Peoria, IL might be more of a challenge.

In any event, I've always found bars to be the worst places to pick up someone. Going to events, joining clubs, taking classes, etc. makes it easier to find someone you have something in common with. And a good chance for getting a date and not just a morning hangover.

Good luck.

Answer 4

I know u said this question is for white guys but I am a black woman who has been approached by white guys. There's no certain type of way they approach black woman and there is no certain type of way to approach them. They are human beings approach them like u would a human being or how u would approach a black male or a male of any race. That's how they approach me, like a human being and a woman they find attractive just like they would with their own race or any other race.

Answer 5

Hey, I love all women. If you are attractive, I would not have a problem hanging out with a black woman. It's all about prejudice, some people hate for no reason and I feel sorry for them. There are MANY beautiful black ladies and I try to love them all!!

Answer 6

I personally think it would be great if a black woman approached me and offered to buy me a drink and in return if i saw her giving me a smile or checking me out i would also approach and offer to buy her i drink. i have dated black women in the past and find them very attractive especially when they have a sweet booty. hope you try your approach you have nothing to lose and alot to gain

Answer 7

Different men have different preferences. Black, white, asian, blonde, brunette, green eyes, blue eyes. Its all about what he likes. I think that if any woman offered to buy me a drink I would be flattered and I would talk to her though no matter what she looked like. Even if I didn't prefer her before, talking to her may change my mind...

Answer 8

well, what i can say is that Black women are hot! got to love em. actually, that's all i date. I've tried other races in the past years, and feel that the black women is more sturdy and knows what they want. allot of people believe that they are just "ghetto" but that's not true. the ones I've dated are very sweet and determined...actually, maybe too sweet!

Answer 9

Try interracial dating websites. I would be careful about approaching men in bars. Maybe you could try to meet men at school (a university), an integrated church or the job.

Answer 10

I'd be fine with a black woman coming up to me and if I were going to approach a black woman I wouldn't change anything. To be honest with you the color of your skin isnt going to affect the way I act.