okay so i had been talking to this guy for about 6 months or so and we were really really close we shared alot of things about our family i even opened up to him ( in which i don't really do alot )
and we are kindof far away right now so we can only talk on the phone.
he told me when i moved back we could establish something and that i really meant something to him and he would never forget me.
well all of the sudden he just stops calling me. and then he will call me about 2 weeks later all perky asking me "did you miss me" and i'm just like yep. and his phone always dies when he calls me like 2 minutes into the convo.
anyone know whats up is it another girl?
and the next time he calls should i just be like hey i'm busy i'll call you back later
or should i just go along with it and not stoop down to this level and not play his mind games.
i'm so confused what should i do?
thank you.
2007-04-15 19:17:03 · 9 answers · asked by venusian ℓove ♡ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships are hard enough without games. Let this guy go. He is probably just keeping you on the hook just in case.
Find a nice guy that can make you happy now. This situation is too unsure. You could wait for him, and he decide never to see you when he gets here. Move on and enjoy your life. You deserve better. Good Luck!!
2007-04-15 19:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i experienced the same type of guy before. Actually he likes u but it's not the right time for him to promise u anything. This could be due to his current status - without a career. My case is a bit sour as when the guy got back i already married as I was having the same feeling like hanging in between. As a result i went with a more matured guy. Anyway, after several yrs when we met back, he's still single and from the conversation, only found out the real reason. Hence, my advice is do ask him why he treated you in this manner?
2007-04-16 02:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by ML 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say u shud not do nething new as a reaction of what he does...but if he's so close to u then u can tell him wats goin on in ur mind...dat 'd be better...coz many a times the lack of communication becomes the cause of higher friction in ne relationship...
to avoid this situation talk 2 him about dis...dont let ne misunderstanding crrep in...
2007-04-16 02:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Rahul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all a game, rid yourself of all the confusion and find someone closer and more mature. This man is obviously not on your level, and you deserve better. Just take this as a loss and move on.
2007-04-16 02:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by Alana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who plays hard to get is a man who is hard to keep.Think and do whatever the decision turn out to be!Never cling on someone when he is never there!
2007-04-16 02:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all lets hope he replaces that battery and soon----he may have had 'a diversion' for the two-weeks --- i recommend you just let that one go and make it a new beginning------if he gives you ant further reason to believe he is a player------then dump him------thats my two-cents anyway.---Good-Luck!
2007-04-16 02:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't have time to talk to him and drop him like a hot rock!!
2007-04-16 02:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him on why it happens and ask what the **** is going on? be blunt and find out what the deal is
2007-04-16 02:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by kruiz1100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM
2007-04-16 02:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by 1Tourniquet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋