We've been together for over a year,
2007-04-15 18:51:31 · 13 answers · asked by reina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She has stood be my side even after a seious motorcycle acident,im not even bringing in any income. Shes taking care of me financially and emotionally.I know she loves me.
2007-04-15 19:09:53 · update #1
Shes 27,Im 45
2007-04-15 19:41:19 · update #2
HAS SHE BEEN UNFAITHFUL BEFORE ..DO YOU LOVE HER AND DOES SHE LOVE YOU? ARE YOU BOTH IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER AND DO YOU KNOW THE WORD TRUST .ALL OF THESE HAVE TO BE ANSWERED BEFORE YOU CAN GET AN ANSWER MAYBE ITS JUST A JOB ALSO WAS SHE A DANCER WHEN YOU MET HER .WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO STOP TRUSTING HER NOW
2007-04-15 19:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by john j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is 29 and I am 49.... and married eight years.... can't say she's a good dancer. We never argue and are perfect together.
You didn't say what kind of dancer she was.... I'll assume erotic.... if she is strong in her convictions then shewill be faithful. Certainly there are plenty of men around those type of girls.... but a lot of those girls are smart and strictly after the money. Of course you would have to not be jealous of her profession.
One of my best friends years ago got engaged to a woman in a band. She was extremely sexy and the lead singer. On the stage she would certainly be very provocative and lead the guys on in the audience. My buddy never had a problem with this. Then they got married. He almost immediately want her to quit the band. That argument went on and on for couple of years until they got divorced. Never expect people to change just got to get married.
She stood beside you when you're down. And that is commendable... hopefully you'll be able to get back up and help our... congratulations on your wedding.
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2007-04-16 02:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by AdviceManHere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you even ask her to marry you if you didn't think she would be faith full in the first place? Before taking such a big step in your life you should have ask the important questions. remember that you are not the one only one that's in the relationship, so if you are having doubts, now would be a perfect time to tell her. Just because you guys been together for a whole year doesn't mean it's time to jump the broom, and why is it now your having a problem with her career choice? should have been something that was talked about long time ago?
2007-04-16 02:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by jeanflynda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it always the younger ones are unfaithful? Why did you get engaged to her if you're not sure she'd be faithful? Matters of the heart has no guarantees, same as life. You just have to trust her or nothing at all. Has she ever given you any cause to think that she might apart from being a dancer? If you play your part well, she'd have no cause to ever be unfaithful to you.
2007-04-16 02:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by azuredryad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, everytime I've been betrayed, it's been by a younger woman.
So therefore, all younger women must be cheaters?
The above is sarcasm.
Frankly, how can we know or accurately judge your bride to be? We can't.
If she has a history of being unfaithful before, it's likely she will do it again. Only you know this, not us in the Y! Answers peanut gallery.
2007-04-16 02:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be lucky now. Watch out for the future. You will be old and she will still be young!!
Are you absolutely sure that she is not in for the money? Plenty of young girls do that. They love to take old men for a ride, then drop them when they are no longer useful.
2007-04-16 01:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just remember this...........She dances an entire shift for a bunch of men that come in to the establishment to get aroused and horny! Night after night she is watching them submit to her. Will she always be in the mood for sex with you when she gets home........probably not! How will you feel about that? The dancers are paid extra money to enter into private rooms for special one on one dances. Will you always be comfortable with her grinding on a strange mans lap while he ejaculates in his pants? I consider that men in a ...committed relationship are cheating when they go that far because he is interacting with her on a sexual level. ..... I consider that being one step down from prostitution. Maybe you don't see it that way and that is your right. Personally I often wonder how these women can have a normal sexual relationship with real intimacy involved on any level? What they do quite often though is look for older secure men to rescue them when they have had enough of it. I would be very care full with her where my feelings were concerned they are good actresses and know exactly how to get what they want from men. You are old enough to be her father is she looking for you to fill that image. As men age biological processes do take it's couse...... will you always be able to take care of her sexual needs years from now? I realize there is viagra......but you are almost two decades away from her time era. Things could come up in the relationship you are not caring about at this time......possibly music, frienships and other forms of differences. If her dancing at a latter date bothers you will she give it up? Do you see your children in her eyes? Would you want your daughters to entertain men like their mother. Is she worthy enough for you to be proud of around your family. Could she be faithfull to you if you have to question it then you have the answer. Most of these women have alot of baggage. Maybe she does maybe she doesn't? I am not insecure with myself when it comes to women exposing them selves for money . I just believe as a woman we are better than that.........I don't like how they make some men think and allow them selves and men they go on display for that what they do is innocent. They share them selves intimately with hundreds of men. What is left emotionally and physically for the man who wants to be special in her life?
2007-04-16 04:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have doubts about her faithfulness. Why marry only to be constantly on your toes worrying about whether she will be faithful? It is agonising and will cause you plenty of miseries in future. Is this the kind of life you want to choose for yourself?
2007-04-16 01:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sara D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's a stripper?
she'll be faithful to to your face, as long as you're supplying the money, gifts, clothes, vacations
2007-04-16 01:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She loves you, yet she dances for other men.
2007-04-16 03:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by JQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋