What should I write in a letter to my ex-girlfriend?

Question

The school year is drawing near.

I currently go to college in California, but I have to go home to Arkansas next month for the summer.

My ex-girlfriend and I went out for 2 years and 15 days before we broke up this past September. She lives about 30 minutes from my school in California.

I have to go home to Arkansas on May 19th. I want to write her a letter to tell her how I feel, but I don't even know where to start.

I want her back so bad. I love her so much.

It's been 7 months without her, and I've had the chance to move on plenty of times, but the truth is that I don't want to move on. I only want her.

We broke up in September, and the last time we ever talked was in November. Her dad called me about a week and a half ago to "see how I was doing," I left him a message saying how I was doing but no call back from him, yet.

The last thing she ever said to me was, "We will get back together, but not for a long time."

What should I write in my letter?

Answer 1

well dude.. i found u again..

in your previous question i assumed that you are willing to reestablish relationship with her and move on further

of course there were some problems between u may be one of u or most probably both

think about those intimate moments which still makes your heart feel that you can ignore the world only for her...
...think about your first meeting, the time you were introduced and by the passage of time how did you grow closer
... you are grateful to her for her love and care that she gave you and no other person will ever become equivalen to her
... SURRENDER your soul
... REMEMBER love and relationships are available but true love is impossibe to gain once it is mised
... do not forget to thank her for everything she did she could did and did not do
.... she is always free to choose what to do with life, but you will always stay for her and do anything for her whatever that is
... admit your mistakes, apologise everyway you can for every mishaps you made
... you will never forget her and always remember that things you learnt from her

and above all, dont be disappointed... because if your love is true and she really loved you, she will never be able neithet to ignore nor to forget... if you really love her, she is made only for you and will be for you forever ...even if you return to arakansas, she will remain yours and will be yours

ok, wish you peace and success. goodbye

Answer 2

You should tell her that you want to see or communicate with her on a regular to semi-regular basis. Maybe take it slow. Don't seem too eager because it may scare her away. Also let her know what you're up to in life and what you've learned about yourself in your time away from her. Tell her the reasons why you might be a stronger person this time around.

Just try not to sound too desperate. All this talk of "take me back" and "I'm nothing without you" is kind of creepy. I've learned that women want a sensitive man but not a groveling one.

Answer 3

Here. This is what you should write.

"Dear (insert ex's name here),
I'm so sorry that we never got together. I just wanna say that I miss you, and that I can never be without you. Ever since we broke up, my life has been miserable. I can't stand it! Every night, I lay awake with one person in my head. I think about all the things I regret now. I know you may hate me, but I just want to say that If I don't hear from you before I leave, you may forget me. I won't forget you. You'll always be in my heart. Please take me back.
Love,
(your name here) "

Simple, right?

Answer 4

Was thinking about you....hoped that we could get together while i am there...missed those intense conversations we used to have
Don't say too much in the letter. Wait to do the important talking in person. That way you can see if her reactions are sincere.

Answer 5

First thing you should do is find out if she is ready to resume comunications with you. Then start off slowly. Ask her to lunch, ect... Don't try to push her or rush her woo her with your charm and let her fall in love with you again.

Answer 6

ok so like im in 8th grade but the same thing happend to me and she said we will go back out but not yet and my bff told me to just act like i don't care because they hate it when you presher them in to it so i hope it helps and tell me what happends @ [e-mail]

Answer 7

Just tell her exactly how you feel uncensored. If it was meant to be it would happen.

Answer 8

everything u said above, and an apology would be a bonus ...