Marriage & Divorce - 20 December 2007

I am single with a 3 year old and he stays with me 1 or sometimes 2 day(s) a week and when its time to take hem to he’s moms it hurts me from the inside because he tells me “don’t go daddy please stay with me” and it makes me depress and even as an adult man I feel like crying.

2007-12-20 12:06:27 · 20 answers · asked by Dan 4

I AM JUST ABOUT RIGHT NOW FURIOUS!
about 2 years ago My mom married this guy, I am really not fond of this guy at all. But anyways I have never been close with him, he's just some guy around the house kind of. But Guess what I just found out.................................................................................................................. MY MOM IS PREGANANT! Why would she do this to me! She knows I am still trying to adjust to this life, And that I need to be able to talk to her! I have always been an only child, and I really don't want a sibling! I mean she didn't even ask me! I had no Idea until 2 hours ago! I can't believe this! I need advice help!

2007-12-20 12:05:16 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for only 1 year but ever since we got engaged and my wife had that rock on her finger she has been completely uninterested in sex. When I say uninterested I mean we go months without it.

I have talked to her and she says she just doesnt have a sex drive.

Is it within my bounds to get sex elsewhere if she doesnt know the person and won't ever find out? Im not sure that she would even care though as long as I am meeting her othere needs as a husband

2007-12-20 12:05:07 · 27 answers · asked by AJ A 1

now & he has never had a strong sex drive. It is beginning to drive me nuts. I would settle for once or twice a week. I have mentioned it to him, but he thinks I just have too high of a sex drive & he doesn't seem to be willing to seek help for us. What gives?

2007-12-20 11:46:54 · 37 answers · asked by love my baby 2

she got married .i was paying her 550 a month as alimony .actually it was like marrital debt but stated as alimony in divorce paper.she is lying about her wages too..she isnot working and have excuse to look after frandfather.but i pay for day care in child support..i have been so much suffered by her..i was back in child support but i already paid .and paid even her lawyer.now i think time to change giving her money..i hardly could have good food.if i can change it then where should i file it in tennesse or georgia. since she moved to GA.my child support system is changed to GA.but what about alimony.if i need to stop paying her where should i file it..i dont even have money to pay for lawyer.is it possible to do it by myself if so please tell me how.
thanks

2007-12-20 11:37:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known my first love since 1985, i had just graduated from 8 grade, We didn't start dating until 1987, I went on his junior and senior prom, We were madly in loe then and we still love each other today. Although, He is married, we still have a close bond, I still get butterflies when I see him. Why is this after all these years?

2007-12-20 11:33:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not a sex addict..so take note of that.
My problem is frustrating. I got married to the girl I love about 9 months ago. We have been apart ever since our honeymoon 9 months ago. This is because of certain financial issues and family obligations that have to be prioritized first. Once those things & responsibilities are finished, then she can leave her country and we can finally start our lives together. I'm basically working for my whole family and even some relatives. I have alot on my shoulders. I have a 2nd job just to be able to support my own very little necessities. I miss her. And that certain part of a marriage is missing, I can't touch her, hold her, or even sometimes look at her. Only through messenger can I see her and talk with her. Its killing me, I havent been satisfying my desires for a very long time....and I know some of you will say that I can satisfy myself....trust me I have....but its coming to a point where I almost hate it.

2007-12-20 11:31:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the old testament is speaks of wives. a man who takes on wives. So should it be allowed to have a marriage with many wives since in the bible it says wives? And since the 1st and 14 amendment is a protection for us to have these rights?

2007-12-20 11:31:04 · 12 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4

We have 1 child in the picture.

2007-12-20 11:27:36 · 31 answers · asked by love my baby 2

My wife is in consoling for sleeping pill addiction. She is seeing a great consular but they seam to be pining a lot of the problems on me. She has been clean for about two month but I did find pills on her floor a moth a go but she told me she was just throwing them out. She has had her addiction for about 12 years we are married just over a year now. As she work threw her problems with her consular she is finding that I am to controlling and need to let her live her own life more. She had defaulted on all her student loans auto loans and hospital bill went to collection. She also blew are saving during our first year of marriage. I watch her money all the time to make shore she is not blowing it and is paying her bills last month she just did not pay any and when I found out I got on her. Now hear is my question what is the process for a recovering addicts. I feel like I am the bad guy for making her accountable! Every time she build a relationship with a Medical professional it always turns to me being controlling and just need to back of this pore little girl. She has lied to me so many times I can’t even guess what she is telling them for stories. Is this an endless battle? Just a note I live my life as simply as possible I am by no means controlling

2007-12-20 11:24:48 · 5 answers · asked by irishfirefighter762 1

If my husband and I have joint custody of our minor child will he still have to pay child support?

2007-12-20 11:23:44 · 8 answers · asked by rusefox 3

i need a pro-bono lawyer quickely who would be willing to assist me in doing my own uncontested divorce. i have my own paperwork and can do my own foot work. i can't even afford the filing fee. help

2007-12-20 11:23:32 · 5 answers · asked by white_winged_dove21 1

If you're with a guy who is a great father, treats you will, and works hard to provide for you and your children, would you leave him if he cheated on you?

(I'm asking this for a friend)

2007-12-20 11:21:02 · 29 answers · asked by ~♥Angel Of Music♥~ 5

My husband and I have been together about 4 years. We have a beautiful daughter who will turn 3 in March. My husband and I have had our share of problems. He is always accusing me of sleeping with other men, etc. I found out that right after I gave birth to my daughter (he became missing for 4+ days) that he was out sleeping with a girl when he claimed he was with some gay friends of his. He has moved to Alabama and I am suppose to move within a week. Things were delayed by him messing with a girl he met there, who was well aware of the situation. I confronted her and she acted innocent. I told her he is legally married so you can call him your boyfriend or whatever, but he isn't any of that. We exchanged some words and he was sticking up for her. Yesterday, he called me and wants his family back,but began questioning everything you can imagine. Is this relationship worth trying to mend? Why do some girls think taking a married man is something to be proud of are they naive

2007-12-20 11:10:01 · 20 answers · asked by Melinda and Morgan 1

and is also seeing someone else

2007-12-20 11:06:27 · 14 answers · asked by Ken 1

My wife and I have been separated for 3 months and about a couple of weeks ago we started going to marriage counseling. In the first session, she told me and the therapist that she's only here to help me and that she still wants a divorce. That she doesn't want to take the RISK of returning back to me. Now that we are on our 4th session, it seems like MC has been useful. She seems to be more into the therapy sessions and has not bought up the divorce. We even scheduled future therapy appointments together. I am still a little bit confused of her intentions and how much longer are we going to go to MC until I know whether to move on or reconcile. I don't want false hope but the therapist said that she's confused. I dont want us to go to counseling for the next 3 -6 months and at the end, we still going to divorce The MC wants me to be patience. We have been together for 8yrs and married for 1 year. No infidelity, physical abuse, or drug use. Just BAD communication between us.

2007-12-20 11:01:01 · 4 answers · asked by DMa 1

My husband and I are in the middle of a divorce. Im wanting full parenting time with my children as I have been the primary parent through their years. His laywer has threatened me with bringing up stuff from the past. When I was 18, I was going through a lot and went into the hospital for depression. He has said that he would take this to the judge. My question is:

Can he get that information without my permission and is it admissable in court? This happend way before got married and I am now 34, with a great job and am attending school full time.

2007-12-20 10:53:10 · 8 answers · asked by Erin 2

Well, he's 24 and she's 23. I can not think of anything to give them.....If you have answers please let me know!! Thanks!!!

2007-12-20 10:52:19 · 3 answers · asked by Victoria R 2

My friends ex-wife is making accusations that my 1 month old baby boy is his . They just got divorced about 2 months ago and she saw us at a movie theatre together so she assumed that my baby was his! (shes paranoid) They never had kids together and their marriage lasted 6 months. I guess she is jealous of how he was carrying my baby and playing with him, so now her lawyer, (who is a friend of ours) told us that she wants to bring ME and my baby in for a DNA test to be done on my little baby boy to find out if her ex husband is really the father of MY baby. Can she really do that? I mean her lawyer said that he was not going to go through with it since it's ridiculous and all! But this girl is psycho and she can persue this matter. Can she really call me into court? Wouldnt she need proof? I dont want anyone doing a DNA test on MY baby!

2007-12-20 10:50:17 · 5 answers · asked by Is that your final answer? 3

We've been divorced for 2 yrs now. I live about 5 hrs away. He only pays $200 a month for child support and thinks this is too much acutally he feels he dosen't need to pay ANY! I love my daughter and wishes things were different. I can't change him but I want to change this situation. He never calls her. I make the effort to have him in her life. I really think he can't move on and uses our daughter out of angry towards me. I need legal advice or help to move on. I'm afraid of him because he's tried to take her away from. Two separate times where I was suppose to pick her up and he didn't want to give her back to me. I had to call the cops. I read my daughter books at night, ballet and swimming lessons. I try my best to a good mom and even though her dad is the best I try to make an effort but in the end results he just gets mads and its a bad cycle . I need it to stop. Helpful advice. Legal advice. Please! thank you

2007-12-20 10:42:18 · 6 answers · asked by Roxanne T 1

my ex called me today.she knows I want to try again,but when she was talking about her life,she told me she wasnt happy. she has a boyfriend,and has gone as far as telling me she loves him.I know its not a money problem,cause I've always helped her out.She's told me she cant hurt the person she's with now to try with me again also.But I just dont understand why she would tell me she's not happy.I've told her I'm not happy either,but she never said to come home.What does she mean?!!!

2007-12-20 10:34:41 · 15 answers · asked by flipper 2

She is so unreasonable, I just put on my white gloves and ran them on the top of the door and they showed some dust on the fingertips, I casually mentioned that perhaps she could prioritise cleaning over cooking ( as she admits that if it cannot be deep fried its not worth cooking ) but would she listen no! I need a way of apologising that will not comprimise my ethics, basically I am not sorry, if she spent less time watching 60 minute makeover and took out a duster more than 4 times a week I would be much happier

2007-12-20 10:14:04 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats the right way to write it??
gramatically?

2007-12-20 10:05:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Basically this man would have two (2) wives ! And when he goes to bed at night he will have one wife on each side ! And when he engages in sex, he'll experience sex on a whole new level ! Imagine the possibilities with two women in his life !


No I don't plan on doing that, however that thought came to mind today, and was just wondering If this would be feasible ? Would it be possible ?


Regards

Jordan

2007-12-20 09:59:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just out of curiousity. Like, I know when I get married I will feel happy with whoever I have, but there are so many people in the world...so should there be that someone who is SO perfect? But I'm not married so I wouldn't know what it feels like to be in love like that or whatever. So yeah, answer. But just for the record, I'm really bored and I'm just being curious about what some people will say!

2007-12-20 09:58:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently going through divorce in the UK and I was informed that my wife has been married in the country of her origin at the time of marrying me. I managed to get evidence from her country which to my shock showed she married at age of 12. At her country this is a valid marriage. I now want to apply for nullity on grounds of bigamy, but her lawyer claims under age marriage is not recognised by UK law and hence I have no case of bigamy. Does anyone know if someone marries in another country under the law of that country (even if under age) is it recognised by british law?

2007-12-20 09:43:52 · 4 answers · asked by kamran s 2

I think this is a way of him trying to control what I do. I make my own money and I never spend money that we dont have.

2007-12-20 09:43:15 · 23 answers · asked by lishia 1

2007-12-20 09:37:04 · 24 answers · asked by stokes3146 2

I do not understand my husband. He never feels tired of having sex. I really hate that one for him. Every single day for as long as we are together, we will do it even four times a day.

When I get tired and say I had enough, he will just pull me on to bed and start carressing me. Pls, I don't like that. What can I do to Stop him doing that? When I resist , He will just take off my clothes at his own accord. He has so many scratces on hi face but never give up. Even if I try to Avoid And go and sllep with the kids in the other room , after I fell asleep He will come and carry me back to the room. I will wake up only to find myself in his arms. Will he ever stop that? I do not know how ?Any advice?

2007-12-20 09:17:12 · 13 answers · asked by Emily J 1

If your abusive ex was suddenly two-inches tall and running across your floor; What would you say and do?

2007-12-20 09:16:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous