She is so unreasonable, I just put on my white gloves and ran them on the top of the door and they showed some dust on the fingertips, I casually mentioned that perhaps she could prioritise cleaning over cooking ( as she admits that if it cannot be deep fried its not worth cooking ) but would she listen no! I need a way of apologising that will not comprimise my ethics, basically I am not sorry, if she spent less time watching 60 minute makeover and took out a duster more than 4 times a week I would be much happier
2007-12-20 10:14:04 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do it your bloody self!!! no wonder she's pissed, I'd shove that whit glove where the sun don't shine!!
2007-12-20 10:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
If I were your wife..(which I am glad that I am not), the only cleaning I would be doing is MOPPING THE FLOOR WITH YOUR A*S!!!!
you are the one being unreasonable. There are a lot of men who would be blissfully happy to have a wife that dusts 4 times a month, let alone 4 times a week.
By "casually mentioned", you mean that you made a complete a*s of yourself, right?
2007-12-20 13:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You are one of those guys. Your poor wife. If my husband did that to me, I would have his bag packs & out the door in 5 minutes flat. Why in the world would she need to dust 4 times a week anyway????? I dust once, maybe twice a week & that is plenty. & sometimes my husband dusts if I ask him to. I stay at home with my son & don't mind doing the cleaning. First of all if she is working, you need to be doing just as much housework as she does. If she stays at home, it would be nice for the house to be relatively clean, but you are looking for a full time, live-in maid. Not a wife.
2007-12-20 11:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by love my baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you pick up the extra dusting the other 3 days...women need a break 2...And put on white gloves...I don't blame her for being a little hot under the collar...maybe if you spent more time helping her instead of complaining...she would be a bit more happier....better go buy her some flowers and show her you do appreciate all the other wonderful things she does for you...unless you have a comfy couch...good luck
2007-12-20 10:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by ~Jenny~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats not very loving.... my husband doesnt do much in the house but he certainly doesnt have the cheek to criticize what i do accomplish. Praise wouldnt go amiss for dusting 4 times a week. and we are both wondering..... What is a fella doing with white gloves? surely that part was a joke??
2007-12-21 09:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have white gloves on hand to check your wife's cleaning habits? Unbelievable.....
Clean it yourself....and if I were your wife you'd be doing your own cooking and washing too.....maybe then you will be a little more appreciative of the things that do get done around the place!
Have a little more respect - and pull your own weight around the house, the days of androdgeny are over!!
2007-12-20 10:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 00:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See? This is why I refuse to ever get married. It's assholes like you that make the world a crappy place.
If I were her, I would've left your *** a long, long time ago. If you have problem with the place being dusty, than do it your own god damn self! Man if I were her I would've degraded you in the most possible way. I would take out my knife, cut off your balls and make you eat them.
Good Night Jerk!
~blondie~
2007-12-20 10:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by blonddiva999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wife has stormed upstairs and is no doubt crying and your first thought is to come on here?
She is probably not dusting as you have consumed all of her confidence, and motivation in your criticisms of her.
But deep down you know that, or you would not be desperately trying to find an answer on here. You know you're being unreasonable. stop now before she files divorce.
2007-12-20 10:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by shaunie 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
LOOK LADIES, calm down! I do think the white glove is a bit extreme to put it nicely.
If she does hang out all day and watch TV I agree that's a problem. If the agreement is she stays home and takes care of business, then she needs to do that.
My husband doesn't go to work for 8 hours to watch sports! LOL no, you have a job SO does she!
I think women are lacking the values women once had. If you are lucky enough to stay home, the house better be clean, food cooked, AND the man be "taken care of!"
I used to have his change of clothes laid out and house shoes near for after work.
2007-12-20 10:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
take the white glove off and grab a dust rag, If you double check her like that, you won't have to casually mention it to her. I would love to see her go behind you and mention how well the oil was changed or the yard work was done...... or maybe even your performance in the sack? Good luck
2007-12-20 10:22:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋