I do not understand my husband. He never feels tired of having sex. I really hate that one for him. Every single day for as long as we are together, we will do it even four times a day.
When I get tired and say I had enough, he will just pull me on to bed and start carressing me. Pls, I don't like that. What can I do to Stop him doing that? When I resist , He will just take off my clothes at his own accord. He has so many scratces on hi face but never give up. Even if I try to Avoid And go and sllep with the kids in the other room , after I fell asleep He will come and carry me back to the room. I will wake up only to find myself in his arms. Will he ever stop that? I do not know how ?Any advice?
2007-12-20 09:17:12 · 13 answers · asked by Emily J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only advice i have is just pray he doesn't take you anally while you're a sleep when that happens it's time for desperate measures.. Merry Xmas
2007-12-20 09:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has an addiction which is very real and very hard for people to deal with!!! It's either that or he really does get off knowing that it is forced on you.
You need to tell him that he has to stop this or you will leave. Mama your needs and wants are as important as his and he does not show any concern for yours. You need to decide if this is the man you want for the rest of your life ... and if he is maybe you can get him into some sort of therapy.
You may have to find yourself making a difficult decision ... and soon!
2007-12-20 17:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Stephmeister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is really forcing himself on you it is rape, if you tell him no it is rape. It doesnt matter if he is your husband or not, he has no right to force himself on you and you need to let him know that you will not stand for it, and follow through. Call the police if he does it, file reports. He has absolutely no right to force a sexual act on you.
2007-12-20 17:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Cebsme 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Buy a chastity belt and hide the key. No means no!
2007-12-20 17:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Titus12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it is OK with you if he finds other ways of satisfying his desires.
Marriage after all is about keeping each other happy. If you can not fulfill your duties set him free.
2007-12-20 17:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by bhaiyagi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats kinda creepy .... on the bright side at least he wants you instead of going out looking for something elsewhere
2007-12-20 17:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Neil 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow , I really feel sorry for you. this must be terrible to go thru.
tell him what he is doing is not right an it is called rape in so many words. good luck hun
2007-12-20 17:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by Gayisha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get over yourself, a few days ago, he wasn't showing any affection and now you say he won't leave you alone! make up your mind and when you do, THEN you can ask a question.
2007-12-20 17:34:30 · answer #8 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is this the same man that you say shows no love or affection for you?
2007-12-20 17:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
divorce him and lock him up for rape.......why be so stupid to allow this your kids probably hear you too all the time so start thinking of the kids.......
2007-12-20 17:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋