Marriage & Divorce - 20 December 2007

i have been married for 6 years but i have been seeing an ex boyfriend and i really like him and want to leave him . should i leave my husband for him?

2007-12-20 06:22:16 · 23 answers · asked by SEXYCHICK2008 3

I have to say reading the responses that DonJ gives is so kind. He never says anything that will hurt your feelings. I want to cry when he says that he can't wait to hold his wife tonight at 6. He's a wonderful man don't you agree.

2007-12-20 06:21:55 · 18 answers · asked by Debbie 3

and you were granted to have one thing (anything at all) for christmas ... what would it be? Anything at all!!!!

2007-12-20 06:17:19 · 49 answers · asked by memyslf&I 3

like actually having sex or anything physical? On your wife. thank you.

2007-12-20 06:17:07 · 12 answers · asked by mommy to be of 3 3

Its a long story so ill give the gist of it. Girl friend moved out two weeks later shes pregant. I left her another woman and she got pissed of and know will not talk to me at all. I have know idea what is goig on with my child and am trying to smooth things over to no avail. We were living toghter for 4 years and she cant even tell whats going on with our child or answer the phone. ive gone to her work called texted and had mutual friends call to no prvail. what the heck can i do to show her my heart is with her and our child.Its been two weeks and still nothing. what do i do?

2007-12-20 06:16:40 · 4 answers · asked by Christopher P 1

Husband of 12 years works 9-5; plays EQ2 from 6pm to midnight. Playing games on-off for years...some years he stopped completely and began going out & hanging out with guys from work. Going out stopped and EQ2 resurfaced to a 40 plus hour addiction. Eats at the PC. We go to bed together. For the past two weeks, he & I have gone out on dates Saturdays - it actually feels good to spend an evening with him and have his 100% attention. But come Monday, he's back at the PC....what else could I do?

2007-12-20 06:14:44 · 23 answers · asked by DG 1

...because you KNOW he's not gonna hit you? In other words, do you use that as leeway to do whatever it takes to win the argument?

2007-12-20 06:12:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

why does my husband think because he works he doesnt have to do anything with the baby?

2007-12-20 06:12:15 · 37 answers · asked by cindy_luyster 1

2007-12-20 06:10:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf has young kids and told me today that he has bought his ex a gift "from the kids" i cant handle this.... its killing me and hurting me too much b/c he doesnt realize he is giving her reasons to believe they will get back together how do i deal with this now?

2007-12-20 06:09:14 · 28 answers · asked by beautiful stranger 3

Would like to be with a man that is totally secure in himself, confident, intelligent and nice. He can go blow for blow with any woman, however he wants a woman to be dominant over him in their relationship. In his everyday life he is in charge and he wants his wife to take charge of him. Make him submissive. Make him perform oral for her whenever she wants and for as long as she wants. He gets intercourse once a month for a predetermined time limit.(if he behaves). She also is allowed to tease him and make him beg for intercourse. This is what he likes. He is not weak just likes a woman to take charge. Any woman like this type of man. Serious only pls

2007-12-20 06:02:48 · 9 answers · asked by MJ 2

about rings and & what him & his buddies are getting their girls for x-mas, are these signs that he's going to propose? He's been talking about marriage for the past few months. I haven't brought the topic up because it scares me, but he's always joking about what we'll have at our wedding, how big the ring is going to be and it feels like he's feeling me out to see what I feel about it. I don't really react to his jokes very much, I respond but kind of to the point where he would keep dropping more hints because he wasn't satisfied with the deadend answer. If a man wanted to propose, are these the types of things they would say before popping the big question? Also, are they more likely to do it around x-mas?

2007-12-20 06:01:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was engaged to this man who I thought was a wonderful man. Until I went to the doctors and we found out that I would never have kids. So he decided that he couldn't get married due to this so we parted ways and about 2 years later I met my now husband of 6 years who loved me despite of this and guess what out of the blue one day I thought I had the flu and the doctor said that my dream had come true. We were expecting and through a long and ruff road ahead of us we had a baby girl. I recently saw my ex and he asked who's baby was I holding and I replied this is my daughter. It seemed like his heart dropped and he said take care of her. What do you think he felt?

2007-12-20 05:56:42 · 15 answers · asked by Debbie 3

A couple of weeks ago, I found out my husband was cheating by way of seeing them have sex. I left the house with my 5 yr old son before he got home from work. He was totally ok with this and we are getting a divorce. I just found out that my husband had been cheating on me for 2 YEARS! And his “girl friend” just had their baby. I just had OUR baby on Dec 15th, AFTER I found out that he was cheating. What should I DO??? I am now the single mom of an infant and 5 year old. And his wife just had a healthy little boy name Terrell Owen, making it horrible, our kids have the SAME Last name!! Terrell Owen Rossman and Landon Joel Rossman, Mikaeyla Jade Rossman. Their baby took my husbands last name.

WHAT SHOULD I DO???

* I didn't even know she was pregnant!!!!*

2007-12-20 05:47:05 · 73 answers · asked by Mommy of Landon and Kaeyla 2

2007-12-20 05:44:46 · 17 answers · asked by klorraine25 2

when you get an engagment ring, and its time for the wedding, do you buy new rings or use the engagement rings?

2007-12-20 05:43:42 · 10 answers · asked by kim12482000 1

okay today I just went to the craft store to buy my girl friend a gift and these 2 guys working on a light, were totally starring at me I felt so uncomfurtable.....cause hello I'm married, but In a way i felt attractive. do you women ever feel good when you get a stare once in awhile, cause now your older and you don't get that as much. Don't get my wrong my hubby is so sweet and is always complementing me. but wow it made my day. (kind of like that one episode in "King Of Queens" when Carrie was deppresed that she does not get gocked at anymore, so Doug payed these construction workers to holler at her. It made her feel attractive....I love that show.)

2007-12-20 05:42:50 · 25 answers · asked by Stephanie 2

My boyfriend mentioned to me that when we get married he didn't expect me to take his last name because he felt that we were a modern couple and didn't need to follow those traditions of taking a last name. So I told him to take my last name--which he didn't like (so much for being modern!)

I just wanted people opinions and thoughts on taking your husbands last name (do you not care, are you for it, etc).

Thanks!

2007-12-20 05:42:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't ask for anything. All I ask is, IF my wife doesn't want to give me freedom to play around, that my wife keep me company and show me a little TLC while I satisfy myself watching porn once per week. Hell, if she did it once every couple of weeks or even once a month, that would satisfy me that she has any interest at all in pleasing me. As far as taking over the chores I have been doing for the past several years while she's been drunk or ripped or out of her head, I didn't ask her to do them. I am making her an offer; it's easy, it should be fun, and wouldn't even be necessary if she was even interested in sex.

2007-12-20 05:38:06 · 11 answers · asked by lillegman46 1

My husband and I have separated and he is living with his mistress he has had for awhile. Everyone is stressed and our daughter is experiencing the worst of it. I don't want her to be around the other woman, the other woman doesn't know how to act around our daughter, and my husband is uncomfortable with all of it. What can we do to make this easy for everyone? We are planning on getting a divorce soon, but I just want some advice. I'm stressed out and am afraid that it's affect her well being.

2007-12-20 05:37:14 · 6 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

friends w/benefits? I've known this guy a couple months now. When we first started talking he said he wanted to be friends w/benefits. Now, I know the "true" meaning of that means no emotional attachment. But we talk everyday, he says he has feelings for me(which I thought was a no-no in these sort of things)& tells me he misses me & can't wait to see me & wants to spend more time w/me. He has also said before though, that he isn't looking for a serious relationship. So if he doesn't want to be serious right now & it seems that the rules of fwb have been broken what are we now? I know whatever our relationship is it doesn't have to be labeled as far as I'm concerned..I'm just wondering. I haven't been divorced real long & I'm back to being single, so just curious.

2007-12-20 05:36:50 · 5 answers · asked by thisgirl 1

no serious answers please.

2007-12-20 05:35:46 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do married men cheat?

I mean what's the problem @ home?

2007-12-20 05:34:30 · 27 answers · asked by twdy412 2

2007-12-20 05:30:53 · 9 answers · asked by Big Daddy Cool 3

Just curious. I'm only 24, but sometimes think I'll never marry because I just meet all the wrong guys. So where did you meet your spouse, and how long have you been married? Also, how long did you date before marrying?

2007-12-20 05:29:24 · 22 answers · asked by Who's That Girl? 6

2007-12-20 05:28:53 · 12 answers · asked by sillydilly66 1

I am only in the mood when he is not home and I really want sex with him but when the time is right he is finally home, I have 10 other things on my mind and sex is the last thing I want to do and I have no interest anymore/

2007-12-20 05:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by J & R Sequin 3

i was updating my eHarmony profile and was looking at profiles. well lo and behold...THERE WAS MY CHEATING LOW LIFE HUSBAND!! he actually has a profile on there! i am so upset...what nerve of him. i thought of making a fake profile and answering his and then bust him! what should i do????

2007-12-20 05:24:49 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-20 05:16:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Fiance' is a good man & I love him. He was married for 20 years & had 4 children with his ex wife. He was a Jehovah Witness & raised his kids in that religion. He has since left that religion because of the fanatical views they have. When he left the religion he also left his wife because she was "brainwashing" the kids into thinking their Dad was a terrible person because he was no longer in "the truth". Right before I started dating him, my fiance' lived in an old rusted out trailer by himself, got addicted to porn, was up in the Karaoke Bars every single night, his kids did not want to see him because "Mom says Dad is bad". He started talking to women online & trying to "hookup" with Women for sex (but says he never went through with it). Then he met me at a Karaoke Party. He has since stopped watching the porn. He only goes to the bar twice a week (usually with me). And 2 of his kids are talking to him again. Is my fiance' okay? Or should I be concerned & rethink marrying him?

2007-12-20 05:14:51 · 12 answers · asked by VintagePort 1