Marriage & Divorce - 20 December 2007

What if you kept getting put into that direction because it's your true purpose in life? People keep looking at you like your selfish and unthoughtful because others depend on you... even though it is totally clear to you what you must do.

2007-12-20 16:18:20 · 23 answers · asked by Xanadu 5

2007-12-20 15:53:59 · 15 answers · asked by eddiez 1

I am 19 and spend most of my time in my room alone. When I call so called friends they either "have something to do" or just dont want to do anything. I have never had luck with girls they dont want anything to do with me for some reason. Never kissed or touched a girl. I am nice and respectful. I am in good shape. I am pretty smart except in math. I am good looking I would say, keep up my appearance. I just don't get why no one wants to hang out with me????????

Might it be that people are afraid of me. I am a beast in the boxing ring and cant be stopped, but outside the ring I am really nice????

2007-12-20 15:51:45 · 14 answers · asked by I like to drink 1

me and my fiance have been together for about 3 years I have 2 kids from another man but my fiiance is the one that supports them. he was unable to claim them on his taxes the past 2 years. how can he claim them since he is the one supporting them. people told us he cant claim them unless we were married is this correct? How can he claim them this year?

2007-12-20 14:50:57 · 12 answers · asked by CC 3

I explained my situation before. I had a girlfriend that lied and cheated all along, and finally broke up with me
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Atz.vzzPCKESKjWbqHj3UGTty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071213085531AAf0vhh
Now she's calling me again, saying we should meet sometimes as friends (for sex probably) What do I do?

2007-12-20 14:50:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband don't want me to wrap the gifts after I bought them, and he doesn't remember any dates, he said just give all the children 20 dollars instead of presents for Christmas, what are men thinking sometimes??

2007-12-20 14:46:25 · 14 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5

I have two kids by my ex. When we seperated, he was fully aware that I had absolutely NO source of income, aside from a little child support I received for one of my oldest sons from a previous relationship.
Yes he was a great dad, and he would give me money here and there when he had it, but I needed money every single month, and because our kids were young, I could not work, and he would not keep them when he wasn't working. I had no babysitter or daycare available to me....so I filed for child support . but he still didn't pay consistantly, however he did pay sometimes when he could. there were alot times I got no child support from him ! and eventually I had to file criminal non support charges...
so now he has a felony on his record and is mad at me, and says he will now have a harder time finding a job... I do feel bad about this, but when I filed the charges I felt deperate, because I had no money, and no child care. but I didn't want to ruin his life either...
Was I wrong ?

2007-12-20 14:45:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think after 5 or 6 years the law recognizes it as something.i'm not really sure.

2007-12-20 14:42:02 · 15 answers · asked by mssmith 1

2007-12-20 14:41:43 · 13 answers · asked by Bo B 2

It seems the ones who are quick to divorce may have married for convienence... like pressure from mom and the girlfreinds....

the ones that are more willing to forgive are the ones who truly love thier spouse... if they can overcome thier problem, it would make their marraige that much stronger. What do you think?

2007-12-20 14:41:37 · 28 answers · asked by Latin G 5

I have a 8 years marriage to a man that never remembers any dates, like holidays, my birthday, our son't birthday. For example, I have to buy all the gift this holiday, including his coworkers( he work in a small company) and needless to say I never get anything on my birthday, because all he does is hand over some money after I reminded him, how can I make him remember?

2007-12-20 14:39:24 · 25 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5

ok, If you get married at age 25... and you can expect to live till about 85 years old.... hummm.. lets see that means you will see each other everyday for the next 60 YEARS!!!! OMG... is that right???? and in all this time, you women really think that you will be the only girl your man will ever encounter??????????

LMAO... yeah,,, O K

2007-12-20 14:27:06 · 11 answers · asked by Latin G 5

She is all about ok lets do this and get it over with.
She will not do anything new.
I have tried talking to her about it and she just get this look on her face like what the hell.
I just have been thinking about find somone on the side that is fun and not so blah..

I know I know dont do that I am just saying I am at that point..

Please help

Thanks

2007-12-20 14:20:20 · 34 answers · asked by bmwguy1488 2

I have been bestfriends with this guy for over ten years. We briefly dated when I graduated college but ending up breaking up because he lives in a different state and has a child. The flying back and forth was stressful and I have always wanted to marry someone who doesn't have any kids, not because I don't love children but becasue when it's time for me to have kids I want it to be special and a first for both of us. And his daugther's mom is a nightmare!!! However, he is so kind to me and really respects me as a person. Are these "roadblocks" things that I should ignore? Anyone had similar situations?

2007-12-20 14:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by grace 4

I just became a granny again. 8 pound girl 1 day before my anniversary!!!!!

2007-12-20 14:15:50 · 8 answers · asked by Neescousin 5

I have met several men via the internet and carried on cybersex relationships that I plan to break off as soon as my husband returns. Am I being unfaithful??

2007-12-20 14:09:03 · 28 answers · asked by kirlael 2

I'm 29 married for 6yrs Do is wrong for me tell a friend that she looks Sexy?
My wife thinks that I shouldn't I just want clearfication

2007-12-20 13:50:44 · 19 answers · asked by Sergio 3

I'm 29 I like to watch porn sometimes,.. Amateur porn My wife of 6yrs she said than that is wrong and I shouldn't
Please Answer Mature Adults Only! thank you

2007-12-20 13:48:14 · 26 answers · asked by Sergio 3

My boyfriend's wife keeps asking whether he wants to see the kids for Christmas and he doesn't reply. Won't she get the hint?
Doesn't she get it, he only wants to spend Christmas with me?
Is this another red flag for me?
How will it affect his custody rights? They are still married but he only saw the kids once this year when I told him it was a red flag to me that he didn't see them.

2007-12-20 13:31:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been marred for 3 years, my wife wants to have a 3some with me and another guy. Well here is the deal, while were were dating her friend joined in with us twice it was awsome!!! Now she feels its her turn to fufill her fantisay have a 3some with a guy with a big package. She wants to go out to the club with me and find some guy to do this with. "not a friend" I am game something diffrent, however i made a deal sometime soon me her another girl. Any of you have been in this situation if so how did it go. My wife is very attractive so finding a guy should not be a problem.

2007-12-20 13:12:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or can we file both as single and seperate since we were only married 2.5 months in 2007.

2007-12-20 13:08:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

if your seperated for about 3 months and your husband says that he wants to come back home but is afarid that things well be the same but you know they have changed how can you show him things have changed.for the better.but you are now haveing second thoughts of him comeing back.and if he does you cnt stop him because you live with his mom. and she doesnt want you to move. i know god have mercey on me
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2007-12-20 13:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by babyblue 1

what you will do ? Please assume that you don't want to get divorce, we are talking long time married (15 years) and has kid

2007-12-20 13:02:53 · 26 answers · asked by harry 2

ok so like i said. i'm just not intested in sex and this is starting to affect my marriage to say the least. any ideas/suggestions a bout how to get things hot and heavy again???? be as detailed as possible but please serious answers only.
thanks.

2007-12-20 13:01:41 · 40 answers · asked by crystala_14 2

How many of you are in an Interracial Marriage, and what are some of the problems you face.

I'm in and interracial marriage myself and my husband and I haven't really come across anything really negative yet, when been married for a year and a half now, but we been together for four and a half. When we lived in his home town, a very small town, we would get looks but no one would come up to us and be rude, just the looks.

2007-12-20 13:01:05 · 15 answers · asked by sammy1on1 3

if a married man in the military going through a divorce legally seperated hooks up with a female who is in the same situation would that be considered adultery punishable by the ucmj. either way the answer and reference it would be great

2007-12-20 12:55:38 · 9 answers · asked by uniquename10 1

i have recently recovered from surgery on my heart, my wife never cared to visit me in the hospital or call, im not even sure what she was doing home (we dont have kids) well a friend of mine did visit me (female) and she would visit me almost everyday and spend about 2 hours with me, she would bring me many things, flowers, a laptop and ipod (so i wasn't bored) and we would talk often. the closest thing that came to a kiss was a kiss on a cheek, after i recovered i decided to file for divorce but my wife is saying i had an affair did i?

2007-12-20 12:51:08 · 18 answers · asked by Hi T 1

i have been married for 5 yrs and i'll start trusting my husband and then something happens and the trust issue pops back up, just recently i bought him a gold necklace and today we were out and he told me he had to get his necklace out of pawn and i flipped out and asked him what do you mean, he told me he gave it to his brother to pawn for drugs and his brother was supose to give the money back to him to get it out, the problem lies in the fact that my husband use to be a drug abuser and a alcholic. and why it hurts so damned much is i have been through this before with him and it really ****** hurts because it meant nothing to him and i mean nothing to him, his words to me were "i'm sure you had worse things done to you", what does that mean its ok for him to hurt me anytime, where does the love and the vows and the promises come into play or do they at all on his part. am i wrong for feeling this way, someone please tell me,tell me what you think, please give me some input.

2007-12-20 12:49:46 · 3 answers · asked by kathy m 2

The restaurant is for a steak restaurant, but my husband works for a very popular steak restaurant, and has no desire to go there, and I don't eat steak. We just bought a house, and a Home Depot card would have been a much better choice, but I'm pretty sure that my MIL's new husband, received the card as his xmas bonus and they regifted. I want to return it, with a nice note, explaining that it is just not a good fit for us, but thank you. Our other option is to try to sell it for less than it is worth. The kicker is she asked us what we wanted for x-mas and then we receive this! My husband keeps saying he's sorry, and I keep telling him it's not his fault, no need to apologize. Any ideas on what to do with this gift card?
TIA

2007-12-20 12:34:50 · 23 answers · asked by Ellcee 2

he is in iraq now.we have this LDR relationship.he said if i will work he will have a hard time 2 get ahold of me coz i'll be busy.just wanted me 2 stay in the house.but he said all i have to do is 2 tell him if i need something for the kids and he will take care of it.and i thinked its not right coz they are not his kids.its my own responsibilty to raise them.and i have my parent who's taking all the obligation and responsiblity to me and 2 my kids.i get so embarassed and can not say a single word that i need his help esp.in financial issues.what will i do?i am in the middle of 2 mountains.

2007-12-20 12:09:01 · 25 answers · asked by Lhizz 1