We have been marred for 3 years, my wife wants to have a 3some with me and another guy. Well here is the deal, while were were dating her friend joined in with us twice it was awsome!!! Now she feels its her turn to fufill her fantisay have a 3some with a guy with a big package. She wants to go out to the club with me and find some guy to do this with. "not a friend" I am game something diffrent, however i made a deal sometime soon me her another girl. Any of you have been in this situation if so how did it go. My wife is very attractive so finding a guy should not be a problem.
2007-12-20 13:12:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk about sick! To hell with a threesome, you two need a DIVORCE!
2007-12-20 13:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
LOL. It's her turn to fulfill the 3some fantasy after you were able to fulfill yours twice already, and you make a deal in order for her to have one you will get to fulfill yours a third time?
2007-12-20 14:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by littlevivi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are good with this,then plan it right!If or when you two find someone,have a room ready(never take them home) & the safer the better(condoms on hand).But the biggest thing is to make sure the both of you are on the same page,what you & her want and do's & don'ts.
2007-12-20 17:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by pedebeed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not let the closed minded people on here change your thoughts.
when two people are completely committed to each other and are in complete agreement this can be an awesome experience, as you already know. Just be prepared because a guy on your girl may create feelings you have never felt before.
It is easier to take these on with strangers because of things go wrong you never have to talk to them again, but there is a trust value. with a friend at least you will know him well enough not to hurt your wife and listen to her/your needs.
just something to think about. either way use protections because people with std's have friends too!
2007-12-20 13:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by live4logan 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you are going to do it with her and another guy why not form a Conga Line and let her RIp maybe you could be in charge of the Clean Up Crew!!!!
2007-12-20 14:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Ed P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've only been married 3 years and your needing to bring in another player, then you're doomed. I was married for over 15 years and we NEVER had to bring another partner in, but we BROUGHT it.
Giving you a shout out ex-wife! :)
2007-12-20 14:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by BaldTom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have had a threesome too with two guys and I did enjoy myself but as a married woman I would not do it because then it would become a trust issue. If you do do it I would set some boundaries, but i would not recommend it
2007-12-20 13:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by thegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After marriage this is not good. But you guys had 3some when you wer dating current wife. I think after marriage how can you see another man screwing you wife. How can you let this happen...I mean are you not MAN enough for her...this is so sick.
2007-12-20 13:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by Kaaran 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
So you married someone you dont love, its a simple infatuation is all. just wait til your watchin some other guy fluckin your wife. lol lol doesnt matter it isnt forever between you 2.
2007-12-20 13:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're okay watching another guy bang your wife, go for it. Are you sure she won't want to watch you both too?
2007-12-20 13:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by Tim H 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, divorce her. If after 3 years she's already looking for "fresh meat" then what will your life be like after 10 years?
2007-12-20 13:18:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋