2007-12-20 15:53:59 · 15 answers · asked by eddiez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont think so. love is unconditional. if you love someone, then wouldnt you forgive them?
there is no use being with someone that cant give you unconditional love.
2007-12-20 16:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by dianna_lenger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think so. I mean, if my husband cheated on me, I couldn't forgive him and would divorce him, but it would take me a long time to get over it because I would still love him (on some level). It's not the same, but those feelings and memories would still be there, and it would take a long time to get over. Would I love him the same way to continue the relationship? No. It would hurt, but I would end it.
2007-12-21 00:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Student Doctor House 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can't forgive the relationship is doomed. Love is not just a word but an emotion that sustains the soul. Choose wisely Grasshopper....
2007-12-21 00:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by lenzix5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they can still Love you but is it truly worth it to either of you to have that kind of relationship. I have been IN situation similar and held a grudge against my husband for really long time. IT ended up with me treating hm coldly and being angry at him. did love him but was always worried he was doing something wrong and it was just worse on the both of us, so yes you can still have love without trust but it can be overpowered by feelings of pain and resentment
2007-12-21 00:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your spouse cant forgive you, i think they may still love you but not BE IN LOVE with you anymore. Love = trust +honesty If you cant trust there is no room there for love...
2007-12-21 00:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by deerlady2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are all kinds and degrees of love, mixed with any and every other emotion. It is possible to continue to love someone no matter if they betray you and you can't forgive them.
2007-12-21 00:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they can. You don't just stop loving someone if they hurt you, that is why it hurts. It may take time to get over them but you still love them until you get them out of your system and still some people never get over people.
2007-12-21 00:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your spouse could still love you ... and never forgive you.
2007-12-21 00:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOVE AND FORGIVENESS ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS. YEAH THEY CAN GO TOGETHER BUT I BELIEVE I CAN LOVE SOMEONE AND NOT FORGIVE THEM. THE LOVE IS JUST NOT AS WHOLE AS IT SHOULD BE.
2007-12-21 00:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by KING AND ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can still love you .... there is a difference in loving someone and ...being in love with them ....loving someone in a caring way and being in Love with them in a passionate way...LOVE has lots of meanings...
2007-12-21 00:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by just bored 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋