2007-12-20 14:41:43 · 13 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I was younger, an immature reaction would be to get mad, hurt, angry,etc. etc. if my boyfriend wanted to spend time with his family over me. But, those reactions come from being insecure, feeling unloved, and not being confident in myself. As a mature adult, I would hope that my boyfriend would make a point to call me on Christmas, but if he wanted to spend time with his family, I would fully support it. I know that he loves me, respects me and cares for me. But, his first allegiance should be to his family. Once we decided to get married, then I would expect him to carve out some time for me on Christmas.
2007-12-20 14:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation - on whether you are not able to be with him and his family, or you are not invitited., or you refuse. Unless it is the last, I would be very upset but I wouldn't let him / her know it. I would act as thought I didn't care and not let him / her know what I was going to do but pretend I would be doing something I would really enjoy without him / her. And I would start looking around for a more suitable significant other
2007-12-20 14:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how long u have been together if it has been a while then very hurt. Why would you spend such a family oriented holiday from someone you love. Why could he not take you? Maybe there is more to this then you realize. sorry merry xmas
2007-12-20 14:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by redstake69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.i became into as quickly as in an identical shoes, and that i'm tellin ya if I had to do it yet returned i does no longer have caught around. It took him 6 years to start putting me first in front of his pals and booze. I merely caught around through fact I had merely had slightly one by ability of him. it somewhat is a protracted tough highway and that's quite demanding to get down. i ultimately had sufficient and that i left for a month. He got here decrease back and he cried first time doing that. He begged me to come again decrease back, and that i instructed him i'd supply him one final substitute he tousled as quickly as i became into long gone for good. It have been merely approximately 4 years and we've a stunning relationship. So in case you're prepared to do it then decide for it yet be reliable once you may desire to be. do no longer merely communicate phrases out of anger, Do what you communicate he will study which you're unlikely to take his **** and if he loves you he will straighten up.
2016-10-09 00:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know if I did something to make him feel like that, then I would let him go spend time with his family and me with mine, I already have different places I go on christmas without have to worry about other drama from everyone else.
2007-12-20 16:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas is for family. I didn't spend Christmas with my significant other until they WERE family.
2007-12-20 15:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by looneybin90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you aren't TOO significant. But we dont know the situation. Maybe he only got to see them at this time, could be a million things.
2007-12-20 14:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You been watching Del Boy
2007-12-20 14:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by grd_jck(AU) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a big deal - you aren't a family member yet
2007-12-20 14:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would respect his decision and then go and see my own family.
2007-12-20 14:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie p 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋