I'm 29 I like to watch porn sometimes,.. Amateur porn My wife of 6yrs she said than that is wrong and I shouldn't
Please Answer Mature Adults Only! thank you
2007-12-20 13:48:14 · 26 answers · asked by Sergio 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you so much Guys I understand that Porn is ok to watch and for I think that is normal, now another point the reason she don't like it is because she said that! that she feels that I like more the Girl on the movie than her and that's Not true I love my wife If I could do it with her like 4 times daily I'll but ofcorse the another reason she was abuse when she was younger and of corse she doesn't do oral or "out of the ordinary" and I understand that I don't force to do anything and I wouldn't
2007-12-20 14:51:36 · update #1
TO MY WIFE:
I SEE THAT I WAS WRONG I MAKE YOU FEEL BAD I HURT YOUR FEELINGS BIG TIME SO I'M SORRY AND I'M GETTING RID OF IT, AND I promises to honor you, cherish you AND be more respectful. I LOVE YOU
PS: THANK YOU TO YOU ALL....
2007-12-20 16:10:32 · update #2
I think you are a normal male. Maybe she's a little jealous of you looking at other naked women.
2007-12-20 13:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-16 21:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it's something that your wife doesn't like then I'd suggest getting rid of it. Not only that, but in watching these people have sex you are thinking about sex without regard to your wife. This is like mental cheating. You can get in a serious trap where you depend on porn for sexual gratification while your relationship with your wife disintegrates into nothing. You are probably hurting her feelings in a big way.
2007-12-20 14:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rockit 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You didn't ask a question, so what are we to answer? I assume you meant to ask if we think porn is okay or not...right?
Yeah, porn is fine as long as you aren't neglecting your wife in favor of watching it. A lot of women feel insecure when their men watch porn because they think it means they aren't enough for you, or that you are more attracted to the women in the flicks or pics. They have a hard time realizing that usually neither of those things is true, and it's just about visual stimuation (just as a lot of women read erotic/bodice-ripping novels for mental erotic stimulation).
You're fine, as long as it doesn't get out of hand...and all the players in your porn are of legal age. Why not invite her to watch it with you, and act out some of the scenes? Maybe she'd be less threatened by it then...
2007-12-20 13:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that porn can be interesting and I am sure my husband looks at it from time to time, even I look at it sometimes, but, in most marriages women are afraid that the porn is being viewed by their husbands because she is inadequate in some way.
You may need to convince her otherwise, by any mean you have. I think that guys naturally have a more need to see it because they operate more visually. If she feels that the porn is her competition, she will never embrace it, but if you can somehow draw her attention to something in it that is of interest to both of you, perhaps that is the ticket! Good luck.
2007-12-20 13:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mz. X 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course you do. Your wife doesn't understand that they aren't women, but pixels. Every now and again my hubby tells me he's giving up his porn habits. It never lasts more than 3 weeks :) I personally feel better knowing he has his pixels to look after him when I'd rather sleep. There have been times when I've caught him out, and he's been more than happy to come back to bed with me! If I'm not in the mood, I just leave him to it. I do look through his collection now and then, to see what he's watching. I'm not into porn myself, but I'm curious to see what he's interested in. The first time I looked I expected to see something a bit kinkier, but it was all pretty boring!
2007-12-20 14:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
as long as by "sometimes" you mean, less than 3 days a week its probably just the stuff you like to watch, but if you're talking about everyday 2-4 hours a night, that could be a problem.
but you're only 29, you're wife betta get on the job, and perform her wifely duties. If she did, I'm sure you'd watch a lot less.
2007-12-20 13:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Big Ed 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, porn is just an expression of human sexuality.
Human sexuality is normal and natural.
If porn is replacing your wife, then you have a problem.
If you and your wife can feel romance and love together while watching porn, that is better!
So really, it depends on what and WHY.
2007-12-20 13:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think it's pretty much normal especially for guys.
but you're married and have you ever thought what your wife must be thinking about you.
she may feel like you're using her, watching porn and then have sex with her.
whatever you do, just don't make it a daily habit. it really does ruin the bond.
2007-12-20 13:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by throat 666 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am 32, personall used to think that porn was my replacement. i fel that he was watcing the women on pron instead of actually being attracted to me. i have grown to like certain porn. i used it to help bring us together, maybe you could explain to her that you are just takin notes, getting ideas. whatever you do,don't have your wife feelin as if you are not attracted to her, tell her how you fell,even lay off for a while. and maybe she will come around. after being with my husband for 9 years, and kids, we both enjoy porn, maybe i enjoy it more than he does! good luck.
2007-12-20 14:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by ~tina~ 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Watching porn is wrong .. and addictive.
It is also demeaning to a wife who thinks it is wrong for her husband to do that.
2007-12-20 13:58:34 · answer #11 · answered by Tara 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋