if your seperated for about 3 months and your husband says that he wants to come back home but is afarid that things well be the same but you know they have changed how can you show him things have changed.for the better.but you are now haveing second thoughts of him comeing back.and if he does you cnt stop him because you live with his mom. and she doesnt want you to move. i know god have mercey on me
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2007-12-20 13:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by babyblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get out of that woman's house and get a life of your own. He really don't want to be with you. How blind can you be. God always have mercy on you. It's time you have some on your self. And stop being a dependent.
2007-12-20 13:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first, counseling.
second, try things on for size. go on dates regularly, maybe begin with once a month, then work towards once a week. if and when that feels comfortable, try being with each other for a whole weekend.
only time is going to prove whether or not things have changed, and for the better. just it bit by bit, become reacquainted with one another while remaining cautiously aware that things may in fact never changed, nor ever will.
2007-12-20 21:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by celticbuddha 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to your heart. It was my experience that after the seperation, there was no going back. How can you trust they were faithful after being free for 3 months?
2007-12-20 21:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to move out of his mommies house. be a women on your own, forget this clown. not many people can say that after the first split everything worked out and was forever.
2007-12-20 21:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
See a marital therapist before you make any decisions. KJL
2007-12-20 21:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by KathieJo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd do what I want. I'd move and tell hubby he can prove to me that he's worth taking back.
2007-12-20 21:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a family councelor, or you know those people that help you stay together or make the right choice
2007-12-20 21:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by (-.-) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guy need counseling. Maybe together and individual
2007-12-20 21:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
PRAY,PRAY,PRAY!!!
2007-12-20 21:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by SKINNIJLE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋