Marriage & Divorce - 20 December 2007

I can't get into the xmas spirit. My shopping is not started, and my house is a mess. Anyone eles dragging their feet?

2007-12-20 03:37:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

They had problems. She was jealous. She was overweight and wanted him to accept her no matter what. He has a masters degree. He is very well educated but he worries me with his past. I have a hard time talking to him because he is a perfectionist. I feel the only way to see if he will cheat on me is to set up an fake email in the name of a woman and send it to him to see if he will reply to her. But part of me is scared to see the results and part of me feels as if I am setting my self up for heartache. So what should I do?

2007-12-20 03:29:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

He hasn't said one word to me.

2007-12-20 03:25:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do we have them? unless that was gods idea for if men wanted to be a woman. Yes as you can see, im out of good questions. Merry chrimbo and a happy new year ;-)

2007-12-20 03:24:49 · 18 answers · asked by jonathan s 3

My ex-fiance & I were together 4yrs. We had alot of love & affection for each other & for the most part got along well. The one major issue we had was his alcohol addiction & caused alot of arguments. It started getting worse at the end & after a very heated argument he walked. Its been two mths. He continued playing head games & gave me hope. About a mth ago he started seeing a married woman so I figured Id leave him alone (I still love him) so he could see that the grass is not always greener but, now I hear that as soon as this woman gets divorced she wants my ex to marry her. He has not said yes to her but, I am devestated. First of all, how can he be in-love with someone in a mth time where he would consider marriage especially with a woman who is cheating on her husband. Its obvious that he has an addiction so why would she want to jump from one marriage into one with an alcoholic. Can this possibly work out & could he still come to his senses & realize what he has given up?

2007-12-20 03:23:33 · 11 answers · asked by Mary B 4

So my sister in-law came into town. We went out partying and got drunk. We ended up doing it in the car on the way home.

Since then we have been emailing each other and having phone sex. Is this wrong?

2007-12-20 03:13:28 · 92 answers · asked by Darius S 1

since my wife left me she prevents contacts with my children , a concerted effort might make her understand she is not the only person in my childrens life .Yes she did leave me for someone else. but thats not the point. THANKS in anticipation . Alan .

2007-12-20 03:12:30 · 7 answers · asked by katrinasfather 3

I mean $ex

2007-12-20 03:02:27 · 20 answers · asked by ME 1

2007-12-20 03:00:04 · 15 answers · asked by i cant think of a nickname 1

OK perhaps silly but I don't know.

How does a mans output change after a vasectomy. Is it more liquidy? Is there less volume? Does it taste different? Any noticable change to the women in their lives?

2007-12-20 03:00:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

iam a lesbian and we have 3 children between us i have found the perfect partner but she does not want any more as she feels we have 3 healthy and well behaved boys but i desperatly want a baby girl

2007-12-20 02:56:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 26 yr old mother of 2 a daughter age 6 and a baby son who is just about 6.5 months old.My daughters father and i were college sweethearts.We got married right out of college and had a wonderful life together for almost 5 yrs till he passed away.He was hit by a drunk driver went into a comma and passed 3 months later.Shortly afterward my ex.bf from highschool who had been my first everything contacted me as usual because we had kept in contact once or twice a year as old aquantances over the years(nothing more).He wanted to advertise to me about his new business an auto body shop.I told him what was going on in my life and he really listened to me unlike other family/friends who seemed disintrested.We became friends again remebering the good times all the fun we had and the very bad/sad times dumb fights,when i got pregnant had miscarriage,and we broke up 3 times.We dated on/off from 16/17 yrs of age-19/20.He told me his marital problems ..continued

2007-12-20 02:52:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm feeling a bit sad about this. Holiday shopping, decorating, watching xmas movies, seeing displays, parades, etc. I've done it all without my hubby because he says he's got better things to do. It makes the holidays feel very lonely.

I always dreamed of having cozy, family holidays - with the fire, and hot chocolate, and xmas cookies, and all that good stuff. Instead it's me, alone, wrapping gifts and listening to xmas music.

I don't want the rest of my xmases to be this way. What can I do to change things around? I've told him that it would mean a lot to me if he did some of these things with me, but he says that he's "too busy" (too busy usually means there is a football game of some sort on tv).

2007-12-20 02:44:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-20 02:37:51 · 35 answers · asked by laydenirvine 4

Okay, here's the question. Suppose your husband and your oldest (or only) child were drowning. You can save one of them. Which is it, and why?

You HAVE to choose one and only one.

2007-12-20 02:36:54 · 18 answers · asked by TexasBubba 2

I just want to walk away...cut all ties...be done with it all.

2007-12-20 02:30:30 · 9 answers · asked by orange c 4

I've been with my fiance for 2 years now, She won't tell me what she likes sexually, Whenever I ask she always says that she doesn't know what she likes because she never experimented with herself besides using a bullet ( vibrator ).
I myself have experience in the area and with other women have been successful in helping the lady reach her climax, So I have no idea what to do with this, I've tried foreplay and oral stimulation and since she birthed our child she doesn't even like the thought of that anymore.
I have not once been able to give her an orgasm during intercourse, But would always get her to climax during oral.
Is there any advice anyone could give me, the most i know is that she likes it when i do it at a slower pace more on the sensual side.
It's creating a heavy ware on our sex life which is impacting our relationship because she never wants sex.....ever.
And I believe she would want it more if i could get her to orgasm on a regular basis during intercourse.
HELP!

2007-12-20 02:25:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

The only time I feel like I have peace is when he is aleep. Then he can't hurt me.

2007-12-20 02:20:30 · 9 answers · asked by orange c 4

Alright so I've been dating this guy who I thought was divorced. He told me back in Sept that he had sent the papers in, started paying child support, and moved out. He called me yesterday very upset saying that he just got a letter saying that his wife did not sign the divorce papers or there was some disagreement or something. I didn't fully understand it.

My question is..can this actually happen? I'm thinking that once he sent the divorce papers in he thought *that was that*, and didn't think much of it. He's from Puerto Rico..and still has trouble understanding english, so maybe he got something mixed up. Also, he and his wife have children together. Can this slow down the divorce process? Does divorce take THIS long?? It's been a few months now. I know why his wife doesn't want the divorce..because then she will actually have to get a job & wont be supported.

2007-12-20 02:16:58 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3

He does not want to pick me up after work to take me to the company x-mas party on Friday. He says it's nothing, just a bunch of painters getting drunk at the boss' house. Do you think something is up?

2007-12-20 02:16:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

any steps to boost the proposal?

2007-12-20 02:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by clair2285 1

How about Fred Thompson's trophy wife who is 24 years younger than him. How about her for a first lady?

2007-12-20 02:11:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently got back in touch with an old friend on Facebook, she has a child with her partner but they are getting divorced. When they met he had his own house which she moved into and has been raising their child in whilst he works. She has only just filed for divorce, and is worried that her and her child will end up with nothing as she spent her time being the main care giver and housewife rather than contributing financially to the household. What WILL she be entitled to?

2007-12-20 02:08:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my GF has accused me of having an affair becase of misinformation from others. this centers around a bar that we both frequent and the gossip stopping going there won't help because the damage has been done. What do I do now

2007-12-20 02:06:29 · 19 answers · asked by Ralph a 1

My Husband ( we have now beenseperated 2 years ) lives in Turkey. When he was deported he took a copy of our marriage certificate and my daughters birth certificate. Can he legally gegister her birth and get her regisered as a Turkish citizen without myconsent ? He has also registered our marriage in Turkey. Am I going to have problems getting a divorce now ? Also how has he done this without my consent ?
An help would be greatly appreciated...

2007-12-20 02:05:01 · 1 answers · asked by The sex Dr 4

My in laws live on the West Coast, my husband and I live on
the East Coast. In our marriage of 3 years, I've always felt that my MIL does not really like me because of subtle things that she has said/done since I've known her, but I've always tried to be polite to her and do the right thing. 2 christmases ago she sent our (my husband, me and our one year old) our 'gifts' (of the six or so knick knacks, half were USED and one was a book on how to live on less money than you think - the actual title!) in a box, all UNWRAPPED that arrived at our house on Dec. 4th. Told my husband she was 'too busy' to wrap anything. Wrote a thank you note (not snide) despite this. Last year, the ONLY gift to my husband and me was a calendar that she received as one of the 'freebies' you get when you subscribe to a newsletter, and it was wrapped in the 'freebie' xmas paper they provided (had their logo on it), with no tag, just written on the paper 'For John and Elizabeth'. What gives?! How to handle?

2007-12-20 02:02:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't believe in "soul mates", just levels of compatibility.
I find it hard to believe,that out of the 6.5 billion people on Earth, there is only one "right" person for each of us.

2007-12-20 01:59:31 · 11 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

2007-12-20 01:58:19 · 21 answers · asked by A 2

I am having a bit of a breakdown. She has been good to me for a few years now. We have no kids thru choice and we enjoy our home together.

Recently during our loving sessions she has become more frisky. different outfits and stuff like that. I smiled and accepted as I appreciated the change from the lights off & silence. But now she has begun to talk during it. I admit the first few times were very good for me. But now she says things that upset me. She keeps calling me a "big black buck". I am a normal white guy from Kent and i dont get why she is doing this.

She tells me to go faster or give her some medicine, like "go on you big black buck give me your medicine". I find it all very embarrassing. I cant ask her afterwards as i am too ashamed. She never mentions it. I thought maybe i should tell her sister or her friend to talk to her.

I am lost with what to do. Does anyone else have this experience? Thanks

2007-12-20 01:55:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Say, some people like from CA or TX tend to get a last minute urge to get married, make a run for the border and find a quicky marriage office in MX. Is it legal in USA?

2007-12-20 01:55:03 · 2 answers · asked by TexMex74 3