Marriage & Divorce - 25 October 2007

2007-10-25 08:27:20 · 29 answers · asked by Terri A 1

How can a person deal with living with others. They were so used to having their own place. They are two adults. They have three children. The wife is ready to move. ASAP! The wife has to stay with the husband's 2nd cousin. How can she deal with this situation? They are seeking their own place. She has lived with her mil for five years and now this. She is very uncomfortable. What can she do? Her other family is crazy and there is no hope in staying with other people. She has no choice but to stay with other people.

2007-10-25 08:26:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and my husband and I had a fight about 7 months ago and we split, now he is with another girl who has a lil boy thats not his... Him and his g/f are haveing problems and I am wanting to be in a realationship with my guy friend who is an ex of mine that I still have feelings for but he wants me to get a divorce he says thats whats holding him and I from being together right now, now my husband wants to get back together with me after leaving me in the first place what should I do? In my heart I'm done with my marriage, my friends/ family say if I take him back they wont ever talk to me again!

2007-10-25 08:20:36 · 28 answers · asked by Bigginz 1

been seperated for 7 months now and my husband does want a divorce but he has not filed for one, so what do u think i do not believe in divorce its my belief and he hasnt filed yet ty for your input jewels

2007-10-25 08:17:44 · 12 answers · asked by jewels 2

I ve been divoriced for 10 years and there are 2 children in there teens and I think it would be best that maybe I use the same last name as them. So we dont loose contact! is this legall to do? Or do I need to go through the courts again to do so? During the divorice I had requested my maiden name be restored.

2007-10-25 08:16:57 · 10 answers · asked by toenail 2

okay girls help me out here....i'm divorced and single NOW! but i'm afraid of hooking up with guys.....i'm not saying that i'm going to sleep with all these guys but eventually i will end up with one ..so my question is how do i get over the fact that my body is not so perfect...i guess i'm just thinking that the guy might reject me beacuse ..you know "stretch marks"....i mean i'm not fat and i don't think i'm ugly but i don't know i guess this is all new to me...any advise!!!

2007-10-25 08:16:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend just got married this past May and she and her husband are already experiencing serious Marriage Issues. Such as his daily drinking, smoking ciggerates (and saying he quit), making insulting and imberrising jokes about her in front of her friends, etc. My best friend is extremely easy going and isnt the type of person to let little things upset her, but she is very disturbed. She tells him how much it upsets her and he dismisses the complaint every time. This guy is really hard headed and stubborn. She fully admits they got married to soon, but now that its said and done what should she do? I told her to see someone, a Doctor.

2007-10-25 08:16:36 · 26 answers · asked by GFAVA 1

My husband who is in the Millitary, is working in another state, over the phone, he has been threatening me, always in a sexual way, and does not care about what pain he will cause me, when he returns, or what I don't want to do, I know I should of left him a long time ago, last time I saw him, he would tell me to do things, or he would take my kids, and I know he doesn't really want them, but uses that to scare me, and it has! I love them, what should I do while he is away, I'm building the streangth to get away from this abuse! and I do fear him greatly! I fear the children ever being with him, if I file for divorce!

2007-10-25 08:16:33 · 32 answers · asked by l 2

2007-10-25 08:11:22 · 23 answers · asked by Lean on Me 4

when you meet a girl...and she tells you that she has kids...do you right away shine her off?? ...or is not that big of a deal??? ..........just wondering???....and be honest!

2007-10-25 08:11:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Say your spouse got badly burned in car accident, and now they are disfigured and have to use a wheelchair. Would you bail or would you stay? Does it depend on whose fault the accident was?

Why or why not? Would you stay because you'd feel guilty if you left, or because you loved them? Would you leave because you weren't attracted anymore or because they can't support you?

I'd very much appreciate you HONEST input. Thanks in advance.

2007-10-25 08:10:01 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just being curious to see what ages people really are married and happy with (gaps or not)

2007-10-25 08:07:57 · 17 answers · asked by Jess T 1

2007-10-25 08:01:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

He told me he ran into a couple of old friends from school. A guy and a girl. He then blurted out that he had a big crush on this girl back 10 yrs ago in college. I lost my temper telling him how great she must have looked and how he would probably want to cheat on me now. I think I over reacted and acted like a fool. I have a bad self esteem because I gained 20 pounds in 2 years after having my last child and look like crap all the time. Does anyone else think I over reacted or is this feeling normal?

2007-10-25 08:01:03 · 52 answers · asked by cocoa 4

2007-10-25 07:56:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance's "ex fling" so to speak, was calling me private all night talking crap to me leaving me messages and I did not answer the phone for her. She said in the message along with other things that has beem talking my fiance and that he went to her house last Friday & the Friday before that. I cant see this coming from him at this point as we have been doing really well in our relationship, we are ALWAYS together but I cant remember what was going on the day she said he came over. I asked him and he is telling my "HELL NO" he didnt go there and she is trying to start stuff as usual & that he would never do anything liek that to me.She does have a history of lying, b/c she has lied to him about me and she has lied to the cops to get us in trouble-she lies all the time. However, he has a past of cheating on me and did with her at one time-they now have two kid and so do we. I dont know what to believe and I want to trust my man, but how do I know?

2007-10-25 07:55:40 · 12 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

Speaking of my wife. she had a procedure performed to somehow widen the opening a bit, which helped some, but it's still uncomfortable for her. I am 8.5" and 6" around.

2007-10-25 07:51:56 · 20 answers · asked by TB28 2

a woman:
I hope to never know someone as ugly and lowlife as that in my life.
She is a country bumpkin!
She is a weak *** punk coward!
She is strange and stupid and a liar!
She is someone who will never be satisfied!
She is POS!
She is someone who has no compassion for people especially my children!

2007-10-25 07:47:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is for those of you who have kids, especially older kids, like in their teens now. In other words, you've been at this a while and know what it's all about. If you could start over at the point before you had kids, KNOWING WHAT YOU KNOW NOW, would you have kids again?

I'm asking this because there was a poll taken in some women's magazine (Women's Day or Good Housekeeping or something) that asked that same question, and over 80% of the women who responded said NO, if they knew then what they know now, they wouldn't have kids. They cited things like the financial drain, the emotional drain, the time drain, the drain on their very life energy, etc. as reasons why they would not.

When the results came back, people were truly shocked that THAT many women wouldn't have kids if they could go back and do it all again, knowing what they know now.

So, would you?
Why, or why not?

2007-10-25 07:46:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

In March my Dad was diagnosed with terminal cancer. I tried to call my husband, who had been at a concert the night before, all day long from the hospital. My brother had stopped at my house, woke my husband up and told him the news and that I needed him and wanted him to come up there (2 hours away.) Well, he went back to bed and slept all day with his ringer off. He finally called after 5 pm. When I was talking to him about it he said, "that's life, people get cancer and die everyday. Your dad is not the first one. It's sad but its life." Then when I came home the next day he ended up going to 2 more concerts through the course of the weekend, spending no time with me. It got worse, I completely with drew myself and he did his own thing which was being drunk all of the time. Now he feels threatended because I have a myspace page and get tons of requests from men, and now wants to work on our marriage and says he is so sorry he hurt me so deeply. Do I forgive and how?

2007-10-25 07:40:27 · 28 answers · asked by Amber D 1

I've would like your opinion about living together vs. not living together before marriage. I've been reading yahoo answers about the pros and cons of living together before you are married and how it could fail, but I don't hear about marriages when they don't live together their marriage failed. I've also read all the statistics about living together and marriage failure, but I notice that it is coming from a religions point of view and they really don't tell you about the fail marriages when following religious doctrine. I would like to know if you are divorced now, was it because that you lived with your spouse first before you got married and now you're getting a divorced or do you wish that you could of lived with your spouse prior to you getting married so you can know more about your spouse before you married them? Do you regret living together or not living together first?

2007-10-25 07:39:27 · 13 answers · asked by bitterly_sweetness 3

My friend, we'll call him D had a physical fight with his wife while drunk. They both didn't really hurt each other, but both definitely lost control in the heat of the moment. (she is bigger than him, so I know it was an equal fight)

He says this is the only time they have ever hurt each other, and both apologized profusely after things calmed down. In looking up signs of a healthy relationship, they seem to hit all the marks. When looking up signs of an abusive relationships, codependency was the only thing that seemed to fit. (D disappeared off the face of the earth when he met his wife because he was so in love w/ her)

However, being outside of the situation, I can't see the entire picture. They both acknowledge what they did wrong and have forgiven each other. But do you think they need outside help like counseling? I just want my friend to be okay and wanted some insight on extreme arguments vs abusive relationships.

2007-10-25 07:38:13 · 15 answers · asked by rorybuns 5

2007-10-25 07:32:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive tried rubbing her shoulders..she says "ouch"..i leave notes on fridge everyday."no response"..as if no notes were not there..ill call her at work and just say "i love you ".nothin...shes even mean to her older kids..i'm trying but im getting exhausted and frustrated..doesnt seem to be an affair on her end..but dang if i aint needin some lovin..can yall help me out with some advice?

2007-10-25 07:26:44 · 15 answers · asked by bojack 1

2007-10-25 07:20:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has 2 children with his ex wife. Report cards recently were issued. My husband was pretty upset that he didn't get a copy of the report card sent to our house because he thought he had taken care of all of that at the beginning of the year.
He works nights and sleeps during the day, this morning when he came home, around 5:00 a.m. I had just gotten up to get ready for work and he asked me if I would call the school and straighten it out.
I called the school, they said that they didn't have anything on file for my step son's father- only his mother. I gave the info and requested a copy be sent to our house as well- his ex isn't very trust worthy and lied about the grades (she said they were all excellent, and they weren't).
She is a teacher at the high school- all 3 schools are on the same campus- so she goes over to have lunch with my stepson on occasion and speaks with his teacher. I guess the teacher told her that I called and now she is pissed. Was I wrong?

2007-10-25 07:19:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have two kids and i am not happy with my husband anymore. He treats me like one of his employees. I feel like i am being abused when he craves for sex. i am not comfortable with him anymore. i dont feel being loved. gradually, i fell out of love with him and wanted to get out of this relationship. Should i leave without personally telling him the problem? should i leave him a letter? or call when i am away? Knowing his rage of emotions, i am afraid he'd get mad at whoever is left with him in the house. ( i am planning not to take the kids with me, for i am nowhere to go)

2007-10-25 07:11:44 · 13 answers · asked by wena000143 1

We love our family because they're our family, but what made you love your SO?

Was it just a normal infatuation that turned out okay because you both got along together?

2007-10-25 07:03:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do and say!?

2007-10-25 07:03:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 07:02:58 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous