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you didnt know he was like this before you married him??......

2007-10-25 08:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Princess 2 · 5 1

I'm much more interested in hearing how you met, dated, spent quality time with, fell in love with, and married a "grown, unstable child."

2007-10-25 08:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by filthy_crumb 5 · 0 0

Ultimately, it would be a horrific injustice to both of you to stay with him only so that he doesn't experience loss.

Explain to him that you need something else and that he can survive without you and your proof is that he is human and others deal with breakups all the time.

If he still thinks that he can't survive, then there is some other extenuating problem and he should see a therapist.

Once he is in therapy it should be safe to leave him and then its the therapist's problem.

But ... you did not sign up to be his therapist!

(Or you could go the other way and start charging him $250/hr)

2007-10-25 08:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Elana 7 · 0 0

WELL first of all you need to be concerned about yourself and YOUR OWN life!

You know why he thinks life stops without you? Because he knows that he doesnt know how to be an adult....and sorry to say it to you hun but your doing nothing but enableing him to continue to be that way.

Cut your losses and kick him to the curb and let hm experience a little life on his own with out you there.

2007-10-25 08:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0 0

so let life stop for him ......who cares ?do you want life to stop for you just because he needs you to take care of him like a grown child.i wouldn't stop my life for anybody let alone a man whoo uses an excuse that life will stop...even if he was to kill himself is that your fault that his life stopped because he chose too.
just be honest and truthful,one reason to break it off is your tired of taking care of a child.and that he shouldn't use you as a means of keeping you ...i think thats what we call mental abuse and controling.............he is controling you......are you going to let him win?no! why you ask? cause you are a strong women and do not need any man to hold ya back in this world. get out now before ya can't get out at all and are trapped and think back 20 years from now i should have listened to mimi on yahoo. she was right.do you actually think he will think twice about this....NO! ...HE'S A MAN!!!!

2007-10-25 08:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by mimi 2 · 1 0

you have one life to live , don't let him wreck that for you. Move out , move on, if you think he maybe suicidal, call his family, or the cops. If he does him self in.....not your fault at all, just shows everybody had unbalanced he was.

I spent 7 years like you are, finally, i left, best move ever, im so happy now.

2007-10-25 08:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

U might want to wait and serve him divorce papers on thanksgiving day, that way he'll have family to stop him from committing suicide. Nah child, whatever u do, make sure family is with u at all times, please.

2007-10-25 08:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by crystal g 2 · 0 0

tolk to him honestly and tell him that u can't go on like this after get ur devorce or see his reaction and do the right thing

2007-10-25 08:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Tetyana M 2 · 0 0

Get a divorce and move on with yourlife. if he decides he cant live without you...so be it and it would suck to be him...but that is NOT your problem.

2007-10-25 08:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0 0

Divorce and then he will have to learn to be an adult while living on his own!

2007-10-25 08:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by megp 5 · 0 0

Marriage Counseling. If that doesn't work, divorce.

2007-10-25 08:04:01 · answer #11 · answered by Fokas 2 · 2 0

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