Marriage & Divorce - 25 October 2007

I do not want to be clingy. I know I need to let him make his own decisions. It is not easy. I go and do my own thing but I still come back to a house all by myself. What things have others done to help them through this awkward time?

2007-10-25 01:11:01 · 9 answers · asked by Marge S 2

His wife accused him of abusing her emotionally which ended in divorce, he abused me also making false promise of marriage,abusing me and took advantage of me.
He has got married recently. Do you think that he is ging to abuse her too?

2007-10-25 01:10:02 · 17 answers · asked by Amina L 1

Long story short, my husband cheated and then assaulted me when I confronted him. We are now seperated with a protective order...oh did I mention I'm 8 months pregnant. Money is tight and I want out ASAP. Any help would be appreciated.

2007-10-25 00:57:22 · 5 answers · asked by kimandnaomi 2

This morning I was driving on base with my husband (we were on a military base in Germany) It's cold out you know Germany it's frickn cold! This baby caught my eye around the age 1-2 years old outside in only a diaper. I made my husband turn the car around and drive back cause the kid was alone. I jumped out of the car, and met up with another girl that was standing watching in aww, like what is going on. A kid by himself not far from traffic, in a diaper. We started walking up to the kid and the mother walked around the corner, she was walking the dog, she just yelled at her kid. What would you do?

2007-10-25 00:50:40 · 14 answers · asked by ♫ASH♫ 2

I'll make this as brief as possible. Here are the facts:
We've been married a few years

3 children

My Husband is an alchoholic who is supposed to have quit drinking but numerous occasions he has drank and lied to me about it. Even swearing on my and my childrens lives once that he hadnt been drinking and then days later admitting that he actually had.

He has been physically abusive with me once about a year ago but not ever again since.( i was pregnant at the time)

He is super strict and harsh on the kids, especially the oldest, who's 5. Once he spanked him so hard that his butt was black and blue and welted.

He has lied and been caught on several occasions about things other than drinking (drugs, where he really was, etc..)

I know this sounds simple enough "he is no good leave him. But I do love him..I DONT KNOW WHY and the kids do too.
Dont know what to do. Any advise?? Thanks

2007-10-25 00:48:01 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi there, i have been married for 5 yrs and am now 33..will be 34 in July next year. I want to start a family soon as i will become too old but my husband does not earn a decent wage. His montyly wage just covers our monthly mortgage. Right now we are comfortable, but if i stop working we will not be able to survive...i dont know what to do..pls help.?? I'd love to work from home but all those work from home ideas dont seem to work..

2007-10-25 00:43:26 · 8 answers · asked by Natty K 1

we went out for a meal with his brother n wife..he asks them wat they are ordeing not me until i placed order n he goes wat did u order?do u nott think thats wrong or is it me?
he forgets i am there wen others are there.wen its us too we choose together.y does he do this?i feel hes nice only coz no1 else is there...how do i stop getting hurt over it over n over again?

but he does it with everything...y does he change wen others are there

i feel like am not there...i hate it
34 minutes ago

i told him n he goes thers nothing wrong init n he wont stop being that way with me...


\ he does feel that but he hasnt won my heart by the way i always feel excluded...it doesnt hurt to be nice..suggested counciling he said no...we r having problems n wen he does this i just hate him more n more...i asked for a hug he said how can i wen ure like this..which just pulls me away even more

2007-10-25 00:28:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married for three years and there is this lady at my work that is attractive. She is also married, and I feel like we are kind of passing vibes back and forth. I feel as though I have feelings. What do I do, and how can I know exactly what is going on???

2007-10-25 00:25:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

So how should I go about finding someone and all that deal? I'm 23 and I promised myself I would be married by my 26th birthday. Time is running out.

2007-10-25 00:25:21 · 17 answers · asked by bovinotarian 2

Oprah, I have been married for 15 years.He is emotionally, verbally & sometimes physically abusive.I want out but have no means to do this. I live in a small town where everyone knows your business.I am an avid fan of yours & I know you had a hard childhood and you made it, thank goodness!I felt like if anyone could help me or steer me in the right direction it would be you.I know you can't personally answer all emails but I sure hope this is one you can help with.I know there are many other people out there that have problems much worse than mine.Locally, I cannot find any help at all & this is why I have turned to you.If you have any suggestions as to how I can get monetary help please let me know.I am actually afraid for my life but the law cannot do anything unless he does something, & I fear that would be to late other than to bury me.If I could just find out where I could get monetary donations or help I would be forever grateful.He is a controlling type person. Please help.

2007-10-25 00:23:20 · 5 answers · asked by Wanda W 1

*I want to give more information. I am a stay at home mom with four children. I have not worked full time in 7 years. I do part time consulting once in a while. My husband is a great guy, but he considers his money "his". The credit cards are in both names and they were mostly used for groceries, phone bill, clothes, etc. He tends to treat my $100 a week consulting job as the equivalent of a full time job and thinks I should be able to buy groceries, gas and pay the phone bill with it. It is not possible. When he would not give me money for food, gas, etc I would use the card. Now I am having trouble keeping the payments up and I want to tell him. He has more than enough money in the bank to pay it off. But I love him and I guess I was hoping I could keep trying to pay the payments.....

2007-10-25 00:02:09 · 19 answers · asked by kk 1