I do not want to be clingy. I know I need to let him make his own decisions. It is not easy. I go and do my own thing but I still come back to a house all by myself. What things have others done to help them through this awkward time?
2007-10-25 01:11:01 · 9 answers · asked by Marge S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
U know as a female, I'm going through something very similar right now. The interesting thing about guys is that when you back off they want you more. When you are in their face and constantly calling they don't want you. So my advice is to play it cool. But also come to a realization within yourself that if he does want this separation that you have to move on. Get a couple of new friends, but I don't recommend trying to be serious with them, tell them that you only want to be friends and allow them to help you get your mind off the fact that you are separating, go shopping, hang out with other female friends and if you are spiritual mediate and pray. Good Luck!
2007-10-25 01:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by litagrad04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marge, it is part oflife now which you cannot change. Be proud about youself heads up. Make new friends, engross yursel;f in new things that makes you happy which you might have missed you all these days. I did the same thing now I am o.k. alone. Time will heal the fracture. There is always love around the corner you have to locate it.
2007-10-25 01:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a difficult thing to accept the fact that it takes two to make a relationship but only one to end it. It took me a long time to recover but in the meantime, just keep asking yourself why you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. Perhaps you still love who you wish he could be instead of who he really is.
2007-10-25 01:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's is not ready to live with you,in that condition you'll not surviving too.So its had better think your own.Look marriage life has two wheel onces one got punchred (fail,burst) other one can't handle for much distance,e1 there is no balance on road.So same theory for marriage life.
2007-10-25 01:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by MS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make friends with another dude. Keep that dude close but don't cross the line. He will either come flying back to you or be off.....at least you will push a decision.
2007-10-25 01:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
By accepting the fact that your husband doesn't love you and wants to be rid of you. Your clinginess or desire to still be with him won't make him feel anything for you. In his heart, he wants to be rid of you!
2007-10-25 02:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends and family keep your head up and walk around proud my biggest help through my hard times was my mom. she reminded me that love is out there you just have to find it. guess what i found her.
2007-10-25 01:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by monizk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY BROTHER IS GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING. LIKE I TOLD HIM. GIVE YOUR SPOUSE SPACE, YOU WOULDN'T WANT HIM TO TAKE YOU BACK OUT OF PITY WOULD YOU.. ? YOU NEED TO STAY BUSY, MAKE FRIENDS, GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE..
2007-10-25 01:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to keep yourself occupied with stuff.. get along with friends & family have fun your single again.. ;)
2007-10-25 01:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by [275] 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋