Marriage & Divorce - 25 October 2007

This question is also for those who are lifetime partners. Also, for the heterosexual couples...who is the older one in your relationship, the guy or the girl? Just wondering.

2007-10-25 15:38:44 · 23 answers · asked by Liesel 5

Later I found out that I had came down with a sexual transmitted disease and I have had sex with only her for the last 2 1/2 years. We have no children together but I will have to recieve medical attention to move on with my life. Besides getting a divorse should I take her to court and make her responsible for the medical bills?

2007-10-25 15:36:34 · 10 answers · asked by gregsimmons001 1

Or is it more about the cut and style?

2007-10-25 15:34:55 · 12 answers · asked by lippy 3

The invisible friend who stands back and ruins what life you have left to live.

2007-10-25 15:25:57 · 6 answers · asked by windmillsarecool 2

should i forgave my husband again? the last time he has the girl pregnant but they abborted it..i'ts been 2 years now we are now separated.. and I meet this guy who is a born again christian also.. I fall in love with him... cause he encourage me that there is still life awaits me inspite of everything.. but is this okey?? I mean he is also separated..IS THIS A CHRISTIAN WAY??and in my place no divorce allowed...PLS! HELP...

2007-10-25 15:23:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been having such horrible days these last couple of days... My boyfriend (who i have been with for the last 4 yrs) has changed in 1 day... sunday he was himself (sweet, caring, there for me) and monday everything just went wrong. he was so distant. he said we needed to talk... and later on that night he told me that he was really stressed, that he hasent been happy at his job for a while, that he needed his space to figure things out, that he felt like he was being pressured into marriage (WHEN IT WAS HIS FREAKING IDEA). and ive been trying to give him his space these couple of days but he is really taking advantage of the situation, he comes home really late, last night he came at 3am! he would never blow me off, or come home so late. he used to always sent me text messages saying i love u through out the day but i dont even get that anymore... i dont know what to do. I love him and i want to work things out, but i cant work things out alone. i need help....

2007-10-25 15:15:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 15:14:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married in December 1994 and divorced in December 2005. I have a son with my ex-husband. We were married by a judge at the courthouse and never had the marriage convalidated. This is because he misled me about how many times he had been married and that he was free to marry in the church (which he was not). Do I need an annulment? Please don't guess. It would be nice if you could quote your source. Thanks in advance.

2007-10-25 15:13:41 · 6 answers · asked by MosesMosesMoses 2

2007-10-25 15:12:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex is sending me e-mail,and making comments on my profile page. Is there anyway I can delete his comments,and block him from contacting me?

2007-10-25 15:07:31 · 12 answers · asked by Pixie 1

I am only 20 years old and already lots of people my age are wanting to get married. What's wrong with getting married in your 30's or later? I think i'd rather just sit it out until i find exactly the right person.

2007-10-25 15:07:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got divorced a few months ago, I carry my ex husband's last name on my state Id, social security card and naturalization certificate, I am getting married in mid november, how is that going to play out? Do I have to use the name that appears on my documents or my name(not his)? If anyone knows from experience I would appreciate if you helped me. Thanks! : )

2007-10-25 15:06:01 · 4 answers · asked by Psychology Young Lady 2

How do i know if he is the right one for me? what questions should i be asking myself? i love him and want things to work out, but i feel very afraid at the same time. My parents are divorced and i'm terrified of having that happen to me. I think another factor in my fear is that although our relatinoship seems to work now, i come from a hispanic background that is different from his american background. our parents are very different...does that matter? any advice is welcomed

2007-10-25 15:04:00 · 12 answers · asked by dontworrybehappy 1

if you ladies married a husband whom was a virgin, never had a kiss or any female interaction. he is 100% straight but he is nervous about having sex, he doesnt tell you that and whenever anything sexual comes up he tries to change the subject. what would be your honest reaction and what would you honestly do?

2007-10-25 15:01:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my gf have been fighting always mainly because she says I don't have time for her and I don't care of how she feels. Unfortunately, even how bad it may sound, I'm really busy with my career, and I'm doing my best to make it up to her. Our houses are much far away that's why it's really hard for us to meet. She had already graduated but is still unemployed, while I'm a graduating student and a president of a student council. To sum it all, it seems like my efforts of making up to her is not enough and to the point that even I'm the one to be blamed, she's the one making the means for us to see each other and talk, i love her so much, but I don't want her to get hurt anymore with my shortcomings, how will I break up with her?

2007-10-25 15:01:21 · 11 answers · asked by mikey 2

i am trying to get a job & have one in progress, however, he says this isn't the reason . i don't know what else to do to make him happy. what should we do? thanks

2007-10-25 14:53:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its been 2 days since he did that--who should start the conversation? we have been married for 7 yrs and never been mad at each other for more than couple oh hours but this time since i was shocked and dissapointed i stopped talking. He said stuff about my family whereas they are really nice to him since day one and treat him as there son. I am really hurt and disappointed... please suggest what should I do? i know I can't make him respect someone but atleast he shouldn't say stuff like that to me coz he knows it hurts since I am really close to my familly.

2007-10-25 14:52:44 · 13 answers · asked by Ak B 1

is spouse allowed to make bad comments about your familly?? when the familly is really nice to them and never done any harm?

2007-10-25 14:39:12 · 18 answers · asked by Ak B 1

one thing leads to another...you get the idea. . Are we just a rare couple or are other people just the same as us?

2007-10-25 14:34:51 · 36 answers · asked by inspector4homes 3

ok, im writing a paper and i would like to know what other peoples opinions are. PLEASE BE RESPECTFUL AND CIVIL. im not looking for a battle or harrasment or insults. im curious to see what other people have to say. backing up your answers would be amazing too. please dont make me regret posting this!

2007-10-25 14:34:24 · 24 answers · asked by cali_rocker_chic102 1

I am divorced, and I want to know how to trust in God that I will get over this and I will be ok. Will I eventually love again? Is that possible? I feel as if I can't do it all over again but I'd hate to live alone because I did like married life, I liked having someone (until he cheated) Does real love really exist? I am full of doubt.

2007-10-25 14:33:59 · 10 answers · asked by Connie D 1

I feel like time alone with your partner is vital after kids come into the picture. I fell that it makes a better marriage and well being in general. I worry about finding quality time for myself and hubby after our baby is born and how our relationship will change. How do you find time for each other and how has your relationship changed once a baby comes into the picture? Just curious if anyone else had this fear when they were pregnant with their first...

2007-10-25 14:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by emmy 4

I'm creating a "newlywed game"

Just a game of questions... that couples could ask eachother (to see what couple knows the most about each other)

What kind of questions could I have?
Obviously the typical "What's your spouse's middle name?" and "What city was your spouse born in?"

But what are some other CREATIVE questions that could be added to the game?

Thanks!

2007-10-25 14:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 13:57:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is a loving person but i seem to be coming in second to everything and everybody. Now don't get me wrong now i don't mind coming in second to my kids but i shouldn't have to come in second to anybody or anything after that. When i ask her to do anything for me it's like it's a chore for her to do and she doesn't really want to do. I'm getting fed up and i don't want to cheat because that will cause more problems. Can someone help me? Please!!

2007-10-25 13:47:54 · 21 answers · asked by Albert W 1

he left last november i look after our 15yr old but he refuses to see his dad. my 20yr old agrees that he shouldnt because he wont see his dad. i have had no help and c.s.a have done nothing even though i have been in touch with them, when my husband found out he packed up work. i work full time.

2007-10-25 13:45:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with a woman 15 yrs ago. I was only 16/17 yrs old but we still lived together. She cheated on Me several times and stole a check from my mom and forged it, so we split up. She took off for awhile and then She showed back up with a 4 mnth old baby and told me she was mine. Because I was under age, and she had cheated, my parents offered to pay for a DNA test. She refused and ran with the baby. 15 yrs later, she's back and says that if I don't buy her daughter a $5 - $6,000.00 car, I need to pay the $50,000.00+ I owe in child support. She still has not had the DNA test done. I've contacted Child Support in all 6 states she lived in and they can't seem to find a case with me. Is this possible? What do I do? My wife and I have 2 children now and My wife makes o.k. money, but I don't make much. We can't afford a lawyer. Is there help out there for us?

2007-10-25 13:43:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or would you wait and let them find out on their own eventually.

There are kids and common so there is pick ups / drop offs/ phone calls etc... only about the kids - nothing personal.

2007-10-25 13:34:05 · 25 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 4

Husband says no affair or not gay but is not intrested in me sexually?

2007-10-25 13:27:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 13:22:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous