Later I found out that I had came down with a sexual transmitted disease and I have had sex with only her for the last 2 1/2 years. We have no children together but I will have to recieve medical attention to move on with my life. Besides getting a divorse should I take her to court and make her responsible for the medical bills?
2007-10-25 15:36:34 · 10 answers · asked by gregsimmons001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well while your in divorce court maybe you can get the judge to make her pay those bills that you would not of gotten if she had been faithful. thats what i would do.. good luck
2007-10-25 15:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1St off I'm glad i don't have your pastor! It's his job to save a family not ruin it! He should have gotten together with the 2 of you for some heart to heart. He neede to see what led your wife to do what she was doing. I don't blame you for getting a divorce if thats what you truly feel you want.
Yes you could sue her for the medical bills and also for mental anguish,but when you go to court make sure your house is clean.
what I mean by that is make sure you have no skeletons in your closet!
You and your wife need to talk about what is or was really going on betwen the two of you!!! You said for the last 2 1\2 yrs shes the only one u were with,how long have you guys been married? So think before you leap you guys maybe able to get passed this.Think of the good and the bad and decide from there
2007-10-25 15:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by mousey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can try and see if the judge will.How can you prove you have been faithful.See that is the way the judge will probably look at it.Unless she comes out and says she gave you the disease.Then how can you prove it?I think she should.
2007-10-25 15:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No court. You put it in her. That's a chance you take. Even with your wife. Your health is your responsibility.
2007-10-25 16:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why! Move on, the less you see of her the better you can heal.
2007-10-25 15:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by warjo2611 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you could write a very successful drama...
try it! you could make million$.
2007-10-25 15:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes she should pay your medical bill's.
2007-10-25 15:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure this is for real, you can't spell, you do have a spell check at your disposal, but you didn't use it, Why?
God bless.
2007-10-25 15:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by luvspace 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES! She gave it to you, she should have to pay!
2007-10-25 15:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes if she was in your place you can bet she would do it to you . my opion?
2007-10-25 15:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋