Or would you wait and let them find out on their own eventually.
There are kids and common so there is pick ups / drop offs/ phone calls etc... only about the kids - nothing personal.
2007-10-25 13:34:05 · 25 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is my ex-HUSBAND .... not just an ex-boyfriend.
We were together 15 years.
2007-10-25 13:37:37 · update #1
It is NOT his baby... It is another man's baby.
2007-10-25 13:38:15 · update #2
He didn't take the divorce well....
2007-10-25 13:57:49 · update #3
That is complicated. I think it depends on what kind of "relationship" you have with your ex, like if there is any jealousy or hostility between you. I also have an "ex husband" and we have two children together but he is pretty hostile toward me ever since we broke up. If I was in your shoes I wouldn't want to tell him b/c I know he would react badly. However, if your ex is understanding and you are friendly or civil with eachother you might as well tell him about the baby.
2007-10-25 13:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by babygirla718 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you are pregnant with your ex-husband's child and you have had other children with him, then this child also deserves the love of BOTH parents, and sooner or later you will start to show, so why make liars out of your other children, because I am almost sure, that you would or already had told them" don't tell daddy" this is not right, or fair. If you can make yourself have sex with him after the marriage is over, then be a grown up and own up.
2007-10-25 20:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by judyrobins14 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how close you are, who the daddy is, how awkward it is going to be, How the daddy feels , how private you want to keep the early days,
ultimately you will probably find out the kids have spilled the beans already.......
and unless he is blind he will probably notice before the birthing.....
2007-10-25 20:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by Judy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not unless there is a reason. it is not his child. You say he didn't take the divorce well. I would use caution in all my dealings with him; divorce can be very destabilizing for even the strongest man.
2007-10-25 21:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the relationship you have with him as of now...if you rarely talk to him but he would call to say happy birthday then yes you should, he will probably be very happy for you, you should think of some conversation starters before the talk-to session but yes go for it, what do u have to loose right?
2007-10-25 20:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by carrie1231 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are pregnant with his biological kid, then yes you need to tell him that he has a child about to come into the world, and he is going to need to be paying child support!
If it's not his kid, then it's not his business.
Cheers
2007-10-25 20:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by Daft One 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it is not his, it is not really his business. The kids in common will let him know when they know, even if you don't tell them to. You don't need to personnally tell him about it.
2007-10-25 20:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by lirpalynn39 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's not his child why would you tell him? Trying to rub salt into the wound? The only you NEED to tell is the biological father.
2007-10-25 22:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you see him a lot, I'd call him up and tell him about it rather than having him find out by himself. That might be awkward if you see him...
2007-10-25 20:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by Rain 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes when it comes up no hurry. Soon or later he will figure it out.
2007-10-25 20:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by got_ip 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋