Marriage & Divorce - 25 October 2007

My husband has a habit of saying mean things when he's upset (things I would never say). Then when he actually apologizes it fells like a slap in the face because I think he feels like he can say whatever, however he wants and a simple word will make it all better. But it doesn't. He doesn't get it and when I tell him this, it's all of a sudden my fault. Anyone else deal with this type of immaturity?

2007-10-25 09:53:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

What am I thinking

2007-10-25 09:44:33 · 15 answers · asked by pimple 2

I think one should not divorce a women who can't give her a child but one must divorce a women who won't give a child.

2007-10-25 09:39:51 · 26 answers · asked by little girl 1

i have had this friend since high school, about 10 years now, he is a mutual friend of mine and my boyfriend and he has been around us and our (now) 9 year old daughter since she was born. he even visited her in the hospital. he loves her.
not unusual that 1 day he offered to watch her while me and her dad went out for a while and the next day, the friends mom called me, frantic that he was with her that late at night. she said that i have to be more careful who i have around my young daughter, which i 100% agree but he is like "uncle" to her. she said i dont know what goes through his head and i shouldnt trust him. no grown man should spend all night with a young girl like that.

when i came home, they were asleep, he was on the couch and she was laying on the side of him right next to him. i feel confident that he would never do that but since then i have been having nightmares about her being molested.

should i keep him away, does she know something i dont know about him???

2007-10-25 09:38:55 · 19 answers · asked by not the usual.. 1

She hasnt been able to forget him all these years and could not love me all these years but I was totally unaware of this. Suddenly when I was on tour I come to know that for past two months she has started talking to someone over phone and after investgating found out that it was his ex-lover. She now wants to go back to him and break this marraige. We have a 5 yr old kid and she is even ready to let the child with me to go to him.
She says she never loved me and can no longer stay with me. Her relation with my house members were never good. Only I know about the current situation. I always loved her truly and still love her. If i break the news to all my family members and her parents I can imagine the blast that she will face and I cannot see her getting disgraced. On the other hand I cannot live without her and my son coz I know my son cannot live without her too.
I cannot imagine life without them. I also understand that she never loved me and cannot stay with me.What do I do?

2007-10-25 09:38:21 · 35 answers · asked by Sabby 1

I filed for divorce last November. My first attorney was not good so I fired him and hired another. I have made it clear what I want in the settlement. Both of us still live in the house we own. My attorney says I should stay in the house until it is sold or the divorce is final. This is dragging on too long now.
I am presently looking for a job that will pay me well enough to cover childcare for our child and housing. As for the house I think we should leave as soon as we can and request that my spouse pay off two accounts of mine. That would be better than getting half of tlhe proceeds from the sale of our house. This way he can stall all he wants at least I can move on. What do you say?

2007-10-25 09:37:25 · 2 answers · asked by psi2006 4

It seems that marriage is dying and men and women don't care, anymore.

2007-10-25 09:36:07 · 16 answers · asked by Bobbi 2

he gave me his home residence and his cell number, we have spoke, we know each other for a week, can i trust that he is honest because he gave me all this info?

2007-10-25 09:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by smart girl 2

I would prefer answers from people who had tried the swinging lifestyle and can give me an honest opinion of both pros and cons of swinging.

Thanks.

Tony

2007-10-25 09:30:24 · 15 answers · asked by cho4o 2

My future husband and I are building a new home and everytime we check on the progress our married neighbors come over to chat. The female neighbor smiles, stares,stands close and touches my futrue husband plus she is doing this while she is with her husband. Do I talk to her or what? I hate to start a war before we move in but I can not tolerate this much longer. Thanks for any help.

2007-10-25 09:28:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

But I'd go psycho if it ever really happened. How the hell can my fantasy/reality be so contradictory??

2007-10-25 09:26:11 · 17 answers · asked by High Fructose Corn Syrup 2

2007-10-25 09:25:31 · 14 answers · asked by casey308 2

The day i give birth to my husband's son he leaves me in the hospital to recover by myself and while im recovering for 3 days in the hospital he packs my belongings and drops my things off at my parents house. Take a look at my other questions i asked to know the situation please. How cowardly is he?

2007-10-25 09:17:53 · 24 answers · asked by pchristine84 1

It seems IMO that people have become so preoccupied with sex that they have forgotten what is most important, the relationship.

Do u think that people in this generation seem to choose partners based on a sexual encounter rather than true companionship? If so then do u think that maybe this idea of "lust" rather than love has lead to our high divorce rate?

2007-10-25 09:12:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going through a divorce and need to know how to tell my "husband" how his actions have impacted me. In order for me to move on and get the closure that I need, he needs to listen to me. I can't even get one sentense out of "you did something wrong" before he blows up and yells at me. How do I start a conversation along those lines so that he will actually listen to me and allow me to finish my sentence?

2007-10-25 09:03:12 · 28 answers · asked by alibobbryce 1

I am very unhappy with the way that I am. I can be very anal at times and I tend to over-analyze everything. I allow the smallest thing to get under my skin. If my husband and I get into an argument, it is me who can’t seem to drop it and let it go. I am very high-strung and I always have ten different thoughts running through my mind. In my opinion, I am not normal and I think my personality has the potential to destroy my marriage.

My husband on the other hand is very laid back and non-chalant. Nothing seems to bother him, but I think that’s what’s eating at me. I do all the worrying about bills, making payment arrangements if necessary, etc. He refuses to deal with it and if I try to talk to him about any issue or involve him in anything he gets very frustrated and becomes withdrawn. Also, he cheated on me almost a year ago and I think that has really made me worse than what I was.

2007-10-25 09:03:05 · 15 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

what finger do women wear their engagement and marriage ring on? and any specific hand?

2007-10-25 09:02:55 · 12 answers · asked by mephisto 5

How often is normal...

in a year?
a decade?
a lifetime?

2007-10-25 08:58:16 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4

If you think its not personal you can answer,
1-]. If he/she cooks realy bad will you still eat ?
2-]. At your birthday you like to have, a gift or a kiss ?
3-]. Do you fell angry while pressing his/her clothes ?
4-]. Do you respect his/her mother as same as your's ?
5-]. Had you ever wash his/her dirity socks or underwear ?
6-]. Do you guys exchange body fluids ? [ detail please ]
7-]. Did you lock your bathroom while you are taking bath ?
8-]. Would you sacrifice your desires to make him/her happy ?
9-]. Do you feel comfertable to change clothes infront of him/her ?
for how long you have been together ?
please put some details.

2007-10-25 08:53:46 · 28 answers · asked by little girl 1

Do you make it a requirement for sex? Personnally I LOVE doing it to my wife and needless to say, she is very satisfied!

2007-10-25 08:46:30 · 22 answers · asked by Smooth Lyrics II 2

If someone wanted to do something Very nice for you, in your minds what would be nice? ( This is for a girl friend that I have been with for a long time. Ive run out of ideas and want "The spark" we use to have.) I think she may be stuck in a depresion or something, but I need HELP!

2007-10-25 08:45:12 · 17 answers · asked by True 2

so tell me the sweetest thing he has every done for you...

2007-10-25 08:42:18 · 14 answers · asked by Truth Hurts 3

How do you become a PI who specializes in catching cheating spouses?
Do you need degree's etc...?

2007-10-25 08:42:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am miserable and all I can think of is her she is everything to me so how does one stop the hurt? how does one move on ? I cant get her out of my heart mind and soul I have been this way since may when she ended it and when I try to move on I get an email or a phone call. and all of it comes back.

2007-10-25 08:41:26 · 11 answers · asked by bubbac308 1

I'm starting to show a little, so I don't really feel sexy in something that's skin-tight, but I still want to surprise my husband with a sexy costume for Halloween. He absolutely loves my belly, so he wouldn't care either way. So, any suggestions are welcomed! By the way, we're newlyweds--married August 4th--if that helps somehow...Thanks!

2007-10-25 08:40:39 · 11 answers · asked by Shorty1185 1

2007-10-25 08:37:57 · 23 answers · asked by brutus 1

If they are not your spouse of if your single.

2007-10-25 08:36:18 · 40 answers · asked by Shorty 3

2007-10-25 08:33:38 · 12 answers · asked by captive101 1

2007-10-25 08:33:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I happen to see my ex a few minutes ago, he saw me too. He called me and told me to turn around so he could see me. This jerk left me 3 weeks ago for his co-worker, they life together.
I had been with him for 61/2 years until he shaked up with his so called lesbian girlfriend (them 2 been roommates for 1 year now) she got ride of her girlfriend and them 2 hooked up.
I am so confused, he talking about want to see me to turn around, that's all i need. We talked on the phone for a while, there wasn't that much to say, I still love him, however, he is in love with his new girl. He came back to me to stay for 5 weeks to write a dera john letter that he tried to love me again, but it wasn't the same. Why you want me to turn around so he could see me?
What a jerk, I am glad now i did not turn around.
Do you guys think he wants to keep a door open in case his s... doesn't work out?

2007-10-25 08:27:28 · 10 answers · asked by maria s 2