2007-10-25 08:33:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men are definately more vulnerable than women. I use that tactic all the time. It works to finally get some of the household chores done. Meanwhile, I also think he holds out on them so I do bribe him.
2007-10-25 08:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Guinness L♥ver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men are more vulnerable because they have convinced themselves they can't make it without sex. However, I think it's a dangerous game for a woman to play because "what one won't do, someone else will".
2007-10-25 15:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using the threat of not meeting the partner's primary needs is not only wrong, it is extremely immature and selfish.
Even married couples use not meeting the other's needs as a form of bribary, manipulation or leverage.
It is among the most destructive behaviours in a relationship.
2007-10-25 15:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by splashdesign238 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, turning sex into a commodity changes any relationship. If sex is viewed as such, you cannot blame the other person for responding to a better offer from someone else.
2007-10-25 16:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my marriage it doesn't happen. I learned that, if she tries it, I go the opposite way. No matter how much I want it.
No one will ever blackmail me.
Men are certainly more vulnerable. Most of them think with their *****. It's a woman's number 1 tool to get what she wants.
2007-10-25 15:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Vulnerable to what? Manipulation? Hell yes! But you will need to grow up before you experience this for yourself. Don't worry. You will succumb to the power of the pink side soon enough my friend. It is your destiny!
2007-10-25 15:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ok. It's mean. Men are usually more vurnerable to this however there are some woman would not like for a man to do that.
2007-10-25 21:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by Goddess Enzeru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should never be used as a weapon or as leverage...and yes I have used it but I know better (smile)
2007-10-25 15:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women withholding sex to get something they want is nothing new. I wouldn't say men are more vulnerable, but they can't live without sex, so women get what they want. Or the men will just cheat, and they'll get what they want.
2007-10-25 15:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I wish my woman would use sex as a bargaining chip. Then at least I would know when I could expect it.
2007-10-25 15:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by joezen777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋