2007-10-25 08:33:38 · 12 answers · asked by captive101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
rebel try getting him divorced
2007-10-25 08:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's natural for a teenage girl to develop feelings for a teacher or some other figure of authority, especially if that teacher encourages those feelings by being more of a "friend" than an authority figure. He should not be just shooting the breeze with you about topics outside of the subject he teaches. He definitely should not be telling you he wished it were just you and him playing a game instead of the entire class, and, unless there was an organized gift exchange, he should have politely turned down your gift if it was anything more than a bag of homemade cookies or a 5-10 dollar gift typical of a student to a teacher. You aren't doing anything "wrong," he is being unprofessional here. The other person who has not necessarily done anything wrong is his fiance. No woman wants the man she's in a serious relationship with to come into regular contact with someone who is hitting on her man, and her feelings of jealousy are valid, too. I know there's a big push these days towards 100% honesty and telling everyone "how you feel," but in some cases, that's just not appropriate or necessary. If you do tell him how you feel, what would you hope to accomplish by doing that? He's not going to leave his adult relationship on the advice of a teenager with a crush on him. He'll probably handle the conversation as politely as possible, tell you he's flattered but that you are the student and he is the teacher and you need to find a boy your age to focus on. I speak from experience when I say that is one mortifying conversation to have with a teacher you have a crush on. If you've been invited to the wedding, and you can be mature and civil, it might be good for you to go. Whether you enjoy seeing it or not, watching him proclaim his love for the woman he's asked to marry him just may be the push you need to get over your crush. If you go, don't sulk the entire time, and PLEASE don't attempt to have a nice rom-com happy ending for yourself by revealing your feelings for him at the wedding in the hopes that he'll call it off. Trust me, that only happens in a Julia Roberts or Hugh Grant movie.
2016-04-10 05:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on what's important. Realize how important getting your grades and going to school are to your future.
Your teacher already has a future. Don't harm this person with your crush.
2007-10-25 08:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not be foolish. You want something you know you cant have, even if you get it, you will grow tired of it. Its not fair to you or the other two people involved. Get your mind on school and making something out of yourself. Find a single man.
2007-10-25 08:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by leapfrog44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that it would be wrong to be the other woman and find a single man for yourself who is not your teacher.
2007-10-25 08:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just continue on with the growing up process. This too shall pass.
Good luck.
2007-10-25 08:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its probably infatuation, not love. Try to keep your distance and/or withdraw from the class.
2007-10-25 10:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by Sophiesmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
withdraw from the class
2007-10-25 08:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by Brittney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a teracher you are probably infatuated with them and not true love just stopit
2007-10-25 08:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think it would matter if she/he wasnt married?
2007-10-25 08:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋