he gave me his home residence and his cell number, we have spoke, we know each other for a week, can i trust that he is honest because he gave me all this info?
2007-10-25 09:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by smart girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your id doesn't fit..... do it.....
2007-10-25 09:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily...could be a nice guy or could be a stalker.
This just means the person wants contact...arrange to have a chaperon/friend on your first few "in person" meetings...in a VERY public place...definitely NOT at your house or some place that you frequent. Keep mental notes and check out the facts later...personally, I would want references, work, landlords etc...notice I didn't say family....mommy is usually going to say, "he's a good boy"..even if he has not been acting like one.
Dangers? Call him from a pay phone..caller ID will give him your phone # when you call him. Do not give him your address...and check to see if his is a legitimate address that he lives at.
You said you've "known" each other....actually the truth is you've only corresponded for the last week ...he might be great or he might be a predator...be cautious and be safe...and take a friend (preferably well armed.. lol) with you.
2007-10-25 09:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you cannot. He can change his numbers anytime.
Whoever says that you should never talk to any stranger online or on the phone, they are being too paranoiac. I met my fiance online, we went on the date (nothing crazy just to have a dinner and watch a movie) and a year later we got engaged. I would have never met him, if I didn't talk to him online and then finally met him. Just don't do anything crazy. Meet him in person, don't go to his house or get into his car! Always stay in the public places and if your intuition is saying that is something wrong with him, make an excuse and leave him. I would recommend not giving any personal information until you get to know him very well. So no address, no home phone number (he could track your address with your home line number), no name of the workplace and so on. It's okay to give him your cell phone number. You can always change it, if he starts calling you non-stop.
When you go on the date with him, leave his phone number to your best friend. Also you should agree that your friend would call you in the middle of the date to check on you. If you want to get away, you can use it as an excuse.
2007-10-25 09:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by terliuke 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You get to know a person over time. You've only known him for a week via email, regardless of his home number and cell number.
So, yes, you can be fooled on email, people can lie like anything. It takes a minute to fake a perfect relationship/personality, but a person shows their true colours over time.
Meet in public and trust your gut instincts. They are there for a reason, however charming the man appears to be.
2007-10-25 09:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are a "Smart Girl" you will know that this isnt enough..................... Meet in a public place and take it from there, he may be honest and he may not be.... use those instincts and listen to any warning signals you may get... they are ususally right, take it slowly.
There is honest and terribly dishonest people over the internet and in real life.
When i was single, and used the internet, i was chatting to a man, we spoke on the phone a lot, he sent me pic's of him and so on.... we decided to meet...... when we did,,,, i was horrifed to find his pics must have been 20 years old.... lol.... we live and learn, and boy did i learn!
2007-10-25 12:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by smileyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you can't trust him just on that alone. take your time and get to know him and if he is sincere then it will all come out as you get to know him better. when you decide that you are ready to meet him then you should definitely do it in a public place or have a friend to go with you.
2007-10-25 09:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshyne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-04 10:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not necessarily. As with any time when meeting someone new you should do so publicly and not be alone with them until you feel that you can trust them. Use common sense.
And realize, you can know someone for years and never really know who they really are. I didn't know my husband was an abuser until 3 years into our marriage. So you just never know.
2007-10-25 09:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hello no!! Don't trust the Internet to meet people and don't go meet this person is public...meet them in real life and get to know them that way..it's too dangerous these days
2007-10-25 09:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Meet in public place.
2007-10-25 09:36:54 · answer #10 · answered by Opps 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
please don't meet this person, or telephone him NEVER. do not give him your address or phone number.
have you ever watched MSNBC's "To Catch A Preditor"? there are more weirdos walking around than you can shake a stick at, and most are looking for nothing but sex.
2007-10-25 09:40:04 · answer #11 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋