How many times in your marriage has divorce been mentioned or hinted at?

Question

How often is normal...

in a year?
a decade?
a lifetime?

Answer 1

ummm never if we have any issue we can work it out their is no need to threaten divorce

Answer 2

Well, I have been married to the same wonderful man for 15 years now, and we had our problems like any newleywed, when we first got married, I would say the first seven years were hard, and I would say we had our problems and they were getting worse and worser, and we were not communicating, and he would not go to counseling, no matter how hard I tried, so I threatened divorce for years!!!!

Until one year, I finally had it and did it, I left him, and moved upstate to be with family with our daughter, and filed for a legal seperation and then we gradually started talking over time, and that gave us time to re-think our marriage and if we still loved eachother, or if we just wanted it to end, we talked about the impact a divorce would have on our daughter, we talked with family and we talked with our daughter, and then we had some alone time to talk about our marriage and then we had alone time from eachother to think about our marriage.

Then we kept talking and it really helped, we talked, had alone time, had time by ourselves to think and re-think the marriage, and eventually, we got back together, and reconcilled our marriage and now we have been married for 15 years going on 16 years in February!! :)

I guess in some marriages it is a year, a decade, or a lifetime, but in mine, it was about a year!

Answer 3

hi, i'm sorry to hearken to that your marriage is in this state. according to what you have written i do no longer think of that that is your fault. analyzing between the lines there does seem greater in touch right here, which I of course have not got any clue on. that is regrettable that your spouse won't flow to narrate with you and that she seems resolute in this divorce. although making issues up such as you being an inebriated etc will of course no longer help every physique. i understand a pair the place the lady is likewise spending "outdoors" of the marriage and advance incredibly a lot of debt because it sort of feels your spouse is. You heavily would desire to get some felony suggestion and a framework in place now incredibly than later bearing directly to funds, as at present you're collectively to blame to your spouse's debt. I even have my suspicions approximately your spouse (maximum persons on right here will too i'm valuable!) yet with out understanding for valuable that is purely hypothesis, which i'm valuable you have already got. in the absence of actual and significant verbal replace your in uncomplicated terms genuine determination right here is felony suggestion. Wishing you the applicable and which you are not getting taken to the cleaners.

Answer 4

None. I married my first husband when he joined the Army, and he still was doing me wrong. My second husband who knew the bible from From to back, he was sycophantic< i didn't know until he woke up up trying to kill me, Neither one of this marriages was of God. I now know what I would have wanted and deserved out of a marriage, the thing is I'm lonely but not alone..I don't think I want to get married. Right the devil wants me to believe I'm in love with a married man, and I know not to give into what Satan is trying to have me do.

Answer 5

Divorce is the easy way out when you get fed up with whatever may be going on. I know at first ours was mentioned at just about every huge fight, but at that time everything seemed like such big issues.... In reality, they weren't... It is just the being fed up when one thing piles on another. You know, that straw that finally broke the camels back. LOL

Answer 6

My first marriage - it started the day after the wedding and ended shortly before appearing in court to sign the papers.

This marriage - it's never been mentioned. (The only way outta this marriage is in a body bag !)

Answer 7

a couple times in the last few yrs.
I might do that if things don't get better real soon with present spouse, but kids are what keeps me there now I really want to go and be WITH my HER forever , but how can I , she needs to do the same thing WE both are in the same boat and want each other so much but are still tied legally to our spouses HELP HELP I need some advice How to I break it ...with current... and not hurt kids..or present spouse to bad..

Answer 8

I've been married almost 8 years and it has been seriously talked about 2 times (where we actually seperated) and I threatened it once (not being serious) just to prove how serious I was about something.

Answer 9

My husband said it once and apologized and told me he didn't mean in within minutes. We promised to never say it again unless we really meant it.

In five years of marriage...one time. That was enough. It hurt me alot.

Answer 10

haha, all couples do this when they are super angry. I guess its never a good thing, any more than once or twice every six months would be too much I think.