I am miserable and all I can think of is her she is everything to me so how does one stop the hurt? how does one move on ? I cant get her out of my heart mind and soul I have been this way since may when she ended it and when I try to move on I get an email or a phone call. and all of it comes back.
2007-10-25 08:41:26 · 11 answers · asked by bubbac308 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it's over and she won't be friends, what reason does she have for contacting you?
If she knows how you feel and continues to contact you periodically, that's cruel and insensitive. (My guess is that you haven't told her to stop because you still hold out hope.)
Gypsy G has the right idea. Don't enable her to contact you, and you'll be able to heal faster and find someone who will love and appreciate you.
2007-10-25 08:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she keeps emailing you and calls you then this indicates she is either messy with your emotions or she wants you back. Have you tried asking her back? Why not give it a try? If she rejects you then at least you will let go of the hope. We all have gone through a broken heart at one time or another in our lives, sometimes several times. This is the risk we take when we fall in love. It is sort of the pitfalls we bump into as we go through life going from one love to another in order to find the true love of our life. You will find yours. Right now your pain is still fresh, give yourself some time to move on. And if your ex does not want to get back together you might want to change your number or email address so that she will not be allowed to pull your emotions back into her. I know you will be fine, you will see. Best of luck to you!
2007-10-25 08:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be asured you you will get over her,it sounds as though she is playing with your feelings,she knows she can have you whenever she wants,stop running and it will make her think,then if she wants you she will do the running,dont make it so easy for her,it hurts but once you know for sure she dosnt want you,you will move on,you cant put your life on hold waiting.it dose hurt forever if it dont work out then you will find someone that does care,and she will have lost out,if she is phoneing and sending emails she is either playing with your mind or playing hard to get,if she dosnt want to be friends why is she phoneing you?try ignoring her let her wonder what you are thinking and wait for her reaction
all the best
2007-10-25 09:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by meg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks!!! I have a friend who is getting ready to leave and be homeless and doesn't have too. What do you do with that? He will act one day like he cares and the next like I don't matter.
Try to avoid her. Try to make new friends.
Why does she email or call if it's over?
I'm guessing it hasn't been too long-give it some time.
Try hanging out at some new places and meeting new people. Or keep hanging out on yahoo.
2007-10-25 08:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get and email/phone call from whom? If it's her, you need to tell her to stop coming in and out of your life if she doesn't want to be friends. Hard to get over a relationship when you were in love and sometimes you never do; however, the best way to heal is to NEVER communicate with that person again and allow yourself to meet new people, develop new hobbies, refresh old hobbies and keep yourself busy until bedtime. Before you know it, days turn into weeks, weeks turn into months, and months turn into years.
2007-10-25 08:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. I met someone recently whom I cannot stop thinking about too. Kind of surprising the effect she has had on me. Can't stop thinking about her.
She's always nice to me and I think maybe she wants more from me but for some reason she is holding back. Hurts like hell, too since she won't even give me a chance to be friends with her.
But I think she is worried about that very thing. Probably if she gets to know me more she will like me more and maybe fall. Just protecting herself as far as I can see. Can't blame her. And it is her choice too.
I'm flattered enough to understand that she is worried she will really like me and doesn't want to get into that sort of thing right now. It hurts, but I understand and feel okay with it.
Maybe this is your situation too.
2007-10-25 08:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by Avatar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question I ask myself often. I haven't found anything to help yet. Divorced for three years and still hurt almost as much today as I did when it happened. For me, I always felt like it's because we have children and have to see each other often. Hang in there, eventually it has to get better, right?
2007-10-25 08:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard my husband left almost two years ago.. I love him still to this day and it feels like it just happend. Feels like someone ripped my heart out of my chest and I can't breath I guess it takes a very long time to get over someone that you really and trully believed was meant to be with you. We will both get through it. Time is key.
2007-10-25 08:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone# and email.
2007-10-25 08:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the boy is mine ....its not hard to see the boy is mine ....the boy is perfect w/out a doublt ...hes a special place within my heart ....Im so sorry that you ....seem to be confused ..... he belongs to me ...the boy is mine.... wish youd give it up..... hes in love with me not you.... Im so sorry that you ....seem to be confused ...... he belongs to me ....think we got it straight .... you need to see..... keep on actin like a fool ...hes a part of my life .... what we have you cannot take .... and its sure not fake ...... Im so sorry that you seem to be confused .... he belongs to me..... a boy is mine.... its not hard to see ......the boy is mine....
2007-10-25 09:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by quen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋