The day i give birth to my husband's son he leaves me in the hospital to recover by myself and while im recovering for 3 days in the hospital he packs my belongings and drops my things off at my parents house. Take a look at my other questions i asked to know the situation please. How cowardly is he?
2007-10-25 09:17:53 · 24 answers · asked by pchristine84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh my gosh...you poor thing. What a turd doing that to you. I cannot believe that someone would actually stoop to that level. At some point in his life, he will have to pay. I hate to say this, but I think in this instance it is deserving...take him for every penny that he has. You may not feel like going through all of that right now, but you will be stronger soon.
I am very sorry that all of this is going on in your life. I will keep you and your child in my prayers.
2007-10-25 09:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Slipped Halo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing happens over night. The things might have fallen off for you two a long time ago and you should know that.
As much as I feel really sorry for you, it was inevitable and it would have happened anyway. At least he waited until you gave a birth because otherwise, his actions could have complicated and hurt your unborn baby. Why did you get pregnant? Was it a mutual decision or was it an accident? I am pretty sure that he didn't want this baby or at least he changed his mind. Although it is not something that you can change mind over, some people are just immature and don't know how to deal with it without running away.
I cannot feel sympathy for you because you must have known. There is no way that you didn't know that your marriage is not working out. Your husband wasn't a loving father until the day of the birth and then he changed over night, so you knew what you are getting into when you got pregnant. Your parents will help you to raise the baby. You will be okay. It's time to move on.
You discussed the DIVORCE in your previous questions. You also mentioned that you will give up your child for adoption. You should be embarrased of yourself trying to get sympathy from the readers who have no clue about your situation. I don't feel sorry for you. I feel sorry for the innocent baby who came to this world having a mother and father like you two!!! Why would you get pregnant if you cannot afford this child? How can a mother give up a baby for an adoption? You are not 16 anymore. No excuse for you. Shame on you!
2007-10-25 09:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by terliuke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This appears to me to be a very good case for people wanting kids to have to go through strict counseling and then obtain certification to be "allowed" to have children.
I don't mean to sound mean or uncaring, but I tend to sort of agree with leonard S. I read your other questions, and I'm thinking all you have to do is sit at the computer and ask strange questions.
From what I can gather, you planned to adopt out the child you had together. Sounds to me like you already have a houseful of kids, yours, his, & now "ours", and neither of you want the baby you just had. So why did you even conceive it?
I'm sorry...but there are many ways to avoid getting pregnant. I would suggest both of you are a brick shy of a full load. He should have a vasectomy, you should have your tubes tied, and BOTH of you could use counseling.
Good luck with your life, especially if you don't seek some kind of help. I think you both have serious issues. By the way, is anyone taking care of the kids you already have? Or will you auction them off if they become problems, too? Geez....
2007-10-25 10:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Barbi T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a real beat off....I read your other stuff to and think you should not put the baby up for adoption and I think you need to stand on your own two feet .......Get yourself a good lawyer and get as much as you can in child support... And also a protection order...He sounds like a loon.....protect your self..... Also I think that you may have some issues with low self esteem and he likes to pray on girls like that... So here's what you do .... Get some counseling and get your head straight....Then you take the F@#$er to court for support and protection order.... Then take your happy fanny and enroll in school and get an education then get a good job and live well... So when the next creep comes along you will have the smarts and the self esteem to tell him to go pound...Sorry to be so harsh but Iv been there done that...All this stuff I told you worked for me and I am happy healthy and make a good living....Good luck to you...And keep your head up....
2007-10-25 09:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by diva102288 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extremely cowardly. As much as this is hurting you now, trust me, you will be better off. He is the one loosing here. You will have ur baby, and that is soooo much and love he clearly doesn't know how to have. It's hard being a single parent, but trust me, it is worth every min, and you are way better off, its better now then later. You will find happiness, enjoy ur baby, and don't let him ruin that for you. Screw him, he is weak and coward, also pathetic. Be strong for u and baby!!!!!
2007-10-25 09:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an a hole....
This will come back and bite him in the a s s big time.
Write him off. Get a divorce, get his a s s for child support and raise your baby. You will find another man - a REAL man later on. Ditch this idiot!
2007-10-25 09:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, as awful as this situation is, you are probably better off being OUT now, than you would be somewhere down the road.
Take him for everything you can.. I'm serious... don't walk away empty handed.
He's a low life.
2007-10-25 09:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...just wow.
The word "callous" comes to mind along with "cowardly" and "irresponsible".
I wish you and your son the best. Your husband can go sit on a tack.
2007-10-25 10:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a dirt bag he is !!!!!!! He will never be a good father for his child if he could do such a low down thing.I would never have a thing to do with him and see to it that you get him for abandonment you and your child.Mabe he won't get visitation rights and still have to pay support ,Poor kid and this is it's father.He doesn't deserve the honors
2007-10-25 09:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by mamaw2305 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is pretty cold blooded! Why are you even bothering with him? File for child support and never look back! Even girls with purple hair deserve some respect!
2007-10-25 09:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by Smooth Lyrics II 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋