Me and my gf have been fighting always mainly because she says I don't have time for her and I don't care of how she feels. Unfortunately, even how bad it may sound, I'm really busy with my career, and I'm doing my best to make it up to her. Our houses are much far away that's why it's really hard for us to meet. She had already graduated but is still unemployed, while I'm a graduating student and a president of a student council. To sum it all, it seems like my efforts of making up to her is not enough and to the point that even I'm the one to be blamed, she's the one making the means for us to see each other and talk, i love her so much, but I don't want her to get hurt anymore with my shortcomings, how will I break up with her?
2007-10-25 15:01:21 · 11 answers · asked by mikey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds to me like it is her shortcomings. She is very immature and selfish.
2007-10-25 15:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by jennniferlea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, When you love someone you'd do whatever it takes just to keep her happy. Maybe your love is just not enough. Why do you think you don't have time for her and make an effort in doing so? She might not be your no.1 priority. That is why it's hard for you to keep her happy. If you think breaking up with her is your last resort then maybe it's much better to put it that way. Just talk to her sincerely and tell her that your relationship doesn't go anywhere and it doesn't grow anymore. That you might as well go on your separate ways. Tell her how you really feel and don't make lame excuses. Any breakup would really hurt no matter how gentle in your words you'd be. So try to be honest as possible.
2007-10-25 22:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by chubbychubz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will have to make compromises and meet u half way and stop being so demanding. first try to talk it out and explain after that there is no good goodbye's when both parties still love each other. maybe nothing will ever be enough for this woman and u should cut your losses and tell her its over with, but first talk to her about how u feel, and what is going to happen if u can't work it out. maybe than she will change her tune, maybe not.
2007-10-25 22:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be truthful, do you really love your girlfriend? Talk to her with honesty and come to an agreement that suits both of you. It doesn't matter how far you live from each other, or how busy your life is, when you truly love someone, you make your best effort to make it work somehow.
2007-10-25 22:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you need some time for yourself and that you have been under a lot of pressure with this relationship. Tell her that she is not married to you to demand that kind of devotion and you are not obligated to do so either. And pull the plug.
2007-10-25 22:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be respectful. Sounds to me like what ever you do or say, you will be and a s s in her eyes. You already are.
Then, move on with life.
Find a woman that appreciates what you have to give, and does not dwell on what you do not have.
2007-10-25 22:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you arent available for dating right now your career is too important,maybe later on when you both get things settled down.
2007-10-25 22:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she doesn't respect your want for more in life and any woman that is mad at you for wanting to do better in your life is dead weight. you should ask if she has a problem with you working hard to better yourself. if she does just tell her its over. you can't save someone from drowning if they are trying to drown you with them.
2007-10-25 22:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to know how to break up with her......
tell her the truth and then leave her alone. do not hang her on a string and lead her on that things will be different because they will not.
2007-10-25 22:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to have the balls to do it yourself. We are not going to do it for you, or give you an easy way to get it done.
Good luck.
2007-10-25 22:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋