Marriage & Divorce - 7 August 2007

My life is a little complicated, I have a husband who I love with all of my heart. The problem is he has a tendency to be mental and physically abusive. I also have a child who hates how he treats me, but is also jealous of my husband. He feels my huband takes time away from him. The problem is I feel torn between my child, family and husband. Everybody has an opinion ,let me figure this one out for myself. I feel I'am being squeezed to death and nobody cares.

2007-08-07 08:02:31 · 9 answers · asked by Melody H 1

I got genital wart, nothingh serious and allready taken care of, but still on treatment. It was acquired not by sexual penetration but it was by skin to skin contact. She hasn't been infected yet (maybe never). It was just a rub body massage with a naked woman. What to tell to my wife? truth or there is some believable explanation I can give to avoid fight or divorce? I mean it is not an affair where you meet always a friend or someone else, it was just a sexual massage and I never thought it was going to have that sort of consequences. Men and women's point of view welcome.

2007-08-07 08:01:04 · 28 answers · asked by tequila_cheers 2

Is it normal for a woman not to shower on a daily basis? Is it normal for a wife to buy intimate under garments and not show them or wear them around husband?

2007-08-07 08:00:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

WHY do men think WE are being NAGS when we just ask for a little contribution with the house cleaning? I am NOT a housewife, and he has FOUR days off a week to clean, but CHOOSES not to. I want everything equal. When I do the cleaning, I expect him to do it next time (dishes, vaccuming, bathroom cleaning, sweeping, etc). But he doesn't. It gets to the point where I have to demand that he does the dishes, and when I demand things, he gets even LAZIER!! WHAT DO I DO? Things are so bad with this (to me) that I want to dump him! We have been together for 7 years! Wouldn't he know that little things like doing dishes would make me happy? Does he not want me to be happy?

2007-08-07 07:55:34 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

How did you view the relationship?

2007-08-07 07:52:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-07 07:51:06 · 9 answers · asked by mk2007 1

I fully trust my wife now but didn't for a while, she was going out most nights drinking while I was overseas. My fears were unfounded, mutual friends told me she was only out with friends. Has anyone else not trusted their partner but found out they had nothing to worry about?

We now have a much stonger relationship because of this.

2007-08-07 07:33:07 · 26 answers · asked by PokerPlayer 2

My husband's ex-wife has custody of the 17 year old, with support payments, but the boy lives with us. Who does the paperwork, including ending paying the support?

2007-08-07 07:26:11 · 16 answers · asked by kjfuqua 1

I've been married for a year and a half. It has progressively gotten worse. I feel like I'm to the point where I want to leave, but I don't. He's emotionally abusive, plays tricks/games with me. I guess I'm scared of having to start all over. Any pointers on getting the balls to start over? Or how to decide when you've been pushed too far?

2007-08-07 07:16:48 · 32 answers · asked by Hick Chick 2

2007-08-07 07:11:06 · 30 answers · asked by lil bee 1

ive got a huge dilemma with my parents and my boyfreind.im of indian origin and my boyfreind is arab but he's complection is dark like as in black i hope i dont sound racist.my parents dont want me to get married to this person and i love him with all my heart. they say its shameful, bad name for the family. i really dont know what to do i really do love him and i love my parents but my parents are really unfair. its like i have no choice. if i go with him i loose my family and if i stay with my family i loose him.ive been with him nearly two years now and in these two years ive got to know,respect and love this man. I reallly dont know what to do,we are looking to get married in two years when i finish my degree but at this rate i wouldnt know what to do.im so confused hope someone can help, another issue is that he is muslim and im christian thats another problem with my family, he hasnt got a problem with that he is happy for me to practice my faith when we get married.sooo confused

2007-08-07 06:57:04 · 5 answers · asked by alayna 1

When your wife gets pregnant most of the time it goes without saying that she will be out of work (if she was working) when the baby comes. She'll be home for a least a few weeks all the way up to a few years. How does it make you feel that men don't get this luxury? They are expected to work non-stop and its never appropriate for a father to quit working while he has a family. What are your thoughts on this? Do you think this would cause you to resent your wife?

2007-08-07 06:44:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am happily married, have been for almost 4 years but I have this undying attraction to my husband's coworker who is also a good friend ofours. he comes over for dinners or to hang out and I am sooo attracted to him. This is the first time this has ever happened...I have never been attracted to any other man every since I have been married until now...what do I do? and how does this attraction go away?!

2007-08-07 06:23:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you consider it to be cheating? If you did it they would know about it and therefore be condoning it, so would it be cheating?
My friend says yes. What do you think???

2007-08-07 06:12:58 · 33 answers · asked by suzie 7

would you consider it to be cheating? If you did it they would know about it and therefore be condoning it, so would it be cheating?
My friend says yes. What do you think???

2007-08-07 06:11:56 · 6 answers · asked by suzie 7

I have three sons and they are workaholics. Their wives also work outside the home. My problem is that my sons don't shop. My daughter in-laws like me but do not shop for their husbands except for food and clothing. Needless to say there is no correspondence of any kind for me. This is a new age and the sons should pay attention to this but they feel they are still the bread winners and just work and do for the family. I am sad at times that the girls don't pick up a card for him to sign. Living out of state makes it a problem.

2007-08-07 06:10:33 · 9 answers · asked by plyjanney 4

I met this very attractive married blond woman. who doesnt mind cheating on her husband.im married to a beautiful woman who I do love but i want to sleep with this other one. should I do it or stay away from the situation?

2007-08-07 05:51:37 · 34 answers · asked by Jason C 1

If a man is passive, meaning he doesn't chase you, i.e. he goes along with things you plan and asks you to go places also and you go together, but he doesn't chase you and you end up doing at least half the work and may be even more-- does he love you or is he just friendly? What if you were married to him, would it get on your nerves if he didn't have the initiative to plan couple-things or he wasn't romantic?
If he were honest, positive, financially secure, healthy, nice person and you two got along, will you marry him if he proposed? Is it worth not having that fire, that passion-- is it worth not being chased and not knowing if he HAS TO have you and be with you or he was just ok with being with you? would you date him? Marry him?
If you did marry to someone like him, what happened next?
Gentlemen -- what do you think?

2007-08-07 05:48:53 · 10 answers · asked by supergirl 5

2007-08-07 05:48:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-07 05:41:49 · 28 answers · asked by Reo 5

We were having a conversation about our relationship and I mentioned something about my tatoos and he said, "That's another thing, I said I would never marry a woman who smokes or has tatoos." Ditto with the smoking. My tatoos are not gaudy, and are only visible if I so choose and two of them I got after we got together. He only found out about the first one after he saw me naked. I made the statement that it is silly to say you won't be with someone because they have tatoos. I asked him if he would have left me or not even approached me had he known I had a tatoo and he said its different with me. How is it any different? Would it not be the same with anyone you are dating and getting to know? If you don't like it you just don't like it no matter what the circumstances?

2007-08-07 05:39:06 · 25 answers · asked by MeMe 2

Ok. I'm trying to get divorced. My ex lied on our marriage license about their madin name, so we wouldn't have to show a death cer. Since she lied are we even legaly married?

2007-08-07 05:38:43 · 7 answers · asked by for_runner0 2

They Say: "if all a man wants to do is take you to bed, he has NO interest in you personally”.
Why would he do this to me?He married to someone else .He told I was too cheap since I slept with him .He himself asked me to sleep with him. I feel awful! I slept with him too soon because I loved him.He said the reason he married another woman is that I was cheap and not classy.Why are men like this?

2007-08-07 05:34:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says that he doesn't like kissing, he can go 3 or 4 days without sex, and I know for a fact he is not cheating. He does alot around the house and with the kids, its just me he seems so distance, and I've asked him about it and asked if he wants to leave me and he says no he loves me. Please help I just feel so distance from him.

2007-08-07 05:31:32 · 6 answers · asked by shorte716 6

when in a arguement, why do they just sit there and look at you, and say nothing. i dont understand. dont even try to defend themselves and actions, just sit and stare. what is that?

2007-08-07 05:28:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to hear from people who are in an open relationship about how it works and if they recommend it.

2007-08-07 05:23:37 · 9 answers · asked by badgoodgirl06 2

I have read from articles that your spouse does not want to hear that "you love them" or they don't want to hear how you are going to improve the marriage. What are some other techniques that can be used? Should you never plead with your partner or do whatever your partner wishes? What are you supose to do? Please no silly answers like, "just leave her"

2007-08-07 05:17:49 · 47 answers · asked by Mike 4

This other person has been around for about 3 months, doing construction jobs on our house, since the death of her mother. The affair lasted 3 weeks. And it was premeditated. They went out together and each got an AIDS test before having sex for the first time. (There was no reason for her to do so, she did it for him.)

I found out a week ago today. My first instinct was divorce and I immediately sought out an attorney. We saw a marriage counselor and it seemed their might be a hope for reconciliation. Then she back out and said it was over. She couldn't leave him.

That night she had a change of heart and called off the affair and said she was home to stay. But then latter said that she still loved him and would need to see him as a friend. I said, "no way", walked out, and set my mind on divorce again.

Then she apparently had another change of heart and said she didn't need to see him again. It was over. But how will I ever know if it's really over?

2007-08-07 05:14:02 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together for 3 years and have a 10 month old baby and now he's asking for a threesome with a guy. He's really getting persistent about it. I think that I will enjoy it although I am nervous and have a bit of a moral objection to it now that I am a mother and I don't know why? What do you think? Am I unjustified in my hesitancy or is he asking for something he shouldn't. I want to give him what he wants, I love him, and I do think it will be fun. But again, I don't know if it's right for me or the kind of relationship I want to have with him.

2007-08-07 05:02:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know how to tell him, I know he still loves me, but I no longer love him. I know it will crush him. I will always care about him. But, I don't love him anymore and it's NOT because I love someone there is no one else involved. I'm just not happy with him any more.

2007-08-07 05:01:13 · 35 answers · asked by Jade N 1