I just got married in June & now he's starting to delete his phone calls out of his phone. what should i think

Answer 1

I got married 2 weeks ago and I'm discovering all kinds of problems too. You guys never lived together before did you? same problems here. Things are terrrible, I can't believe it! I just want to cry and sleep for days. I don't know, maybe you can grab the phone bill before he gets to it. I'm sorry you're so miserable too. I can't believe marriage is so bad

Answer 2

Do you mean he is deleting the incoming and outgoing calls?

Did you ask him why he was doing that? or did you pretend like you didn't notice?

It might be he is trying to hide something from you..

I would ask him first and if the doesn't give you an answer that you think is logical, then play detective.

Does he hide the cell phone bill records from you too? if not, then I wouldn't pay any attention to him deleting the calls from the phone..

If he is keeping the bill away from you too, then I would start to worry.

I would see if i could get a duplicate of the bill either on-line(if that option is offered thru our provider) or I'd see if I could go in to the cellular company and get a copy that way.

If things don't look right after that, then you have to decide what will be your next move,

Good luck and i hope that it works out for you

Answer 3

If you asked him why? Well if you want to play detective while he's in the shower to sleeping check his phone and write the number down. Then call the number but block your number. What I would do is call the number from his phone and see who answer's. The best idea would be 2 get one of your guy friends and to follow him for like a day. But make sure that your hubby dont know what kind of car he has. Best bet it should be a guy that he dont know. Once you get the number you could always go to switchboard.com and type in the number and it will give you a listing.

Answer 4

Take a look at the cell phone bill and find out who he is calling and who is calling him by looking the numbers up online or calling them from a pay phone not too close to your house.

Answer 5

You should think it would be a good idea to check the phone bill when it comes in and see what calls were deleted!

Answer 6

He should have no problem leaving his phone around the house if he isn't hiding anything. If there was something bad going on, he would not even let you see his phone. why dont you try this: tell him something is wrong with your phone and you really need to borrow his and see what he says. How do you know he isn't just cleaning it out?

Answer 7

Think this: those calls are not important enough to save.

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Maybe it's becasue you're snooping in his place. You'd only know he's deleting them if you knew they were there, which means you were trying to catch him. Maybe you ask too many questions about every number that is in there so to avoid this he deletes them.

Does anyone really have any faith in the realtionships anymore? everyone is so quick to jump to the "he's cheating!" conclusion.

What are his specific excuses for deleting these numbers?

Answer 8

Sounds like after only 2 months of marriage you are over reacting. How are you going to make it through a life time if you are suspicious of phone calls all ready? You should still be enjoying your honeymoon. Best thing to do is ASK him if you have anything to worry about.

Answer 9

I do not know what you should think. I think you should mind your own business and not look for trouble. I delete calls out of my phone as soon as they are done. I use the damn thing for business and don't need it cluttered up with stuff I am finished with.

Answer 10

And he never did this before? Why not ask him about it? Do you have any reason to suspect that he is behaving inappropriately? Did you ever suspect him before? People don't usually change in this respect. So if you thought he was honorable enough to marry two months ago, then why would you not think so now?