Marriage & Divorce - 7 August 2007

My brother was caught cheating on his wife. She had proof that he has been cheating, and he refuses to admit it. She threw him out of the house. I am very close to her, and I understand that she has to do this. How can I help them sort this out so they can at least be good parents to their two children even if they are not married? I offered her to move in with me, I have a spare room. Is this going against my brother? I am thinking about my nice and nephew.

2007-08-07 04:57:19 · 17 answers · asked by ACE Tx 1

i am newly married & do not want children for 1 year for that what i have to do & i need clear explanation plz help me

2007-08-07 04:51:04 · 15 answers · asked by pkg_sriram 1

when my wife gets dressed up and goes out with her sister(s) or her sister in law, even if I Know that she is a faithfull and respectful. But, I know that she attracts the view of men, shes is petite 5 2, 160 lbs, with a killer *** and beautiful face. WE've been married for 20 years, but I still kind of jealous, WHAT CAN IT BE OR HOW CAN I not Be Jealous.?

2007-08-07 04:50:32 · 13 answers · asked by margarito r 1

So I'll be divorsed tomorrow and my bro is throwing me a party to celebrate that I won't be married to a complete a**. So I met this guy and I know its wrong b/c I was still married and just separated, but I was wondering I think it would be tacky to bring him, but how do I tell him he isn't invited. He understands everything and has been really good about dealing with it all. I think he will be fine but I'm just not sure how to say it nicely. Or should I just bring him b/c I'll be single and just tell everyone that its our first date?

2007-08-07 04:50:10 · 9 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 27 5

I threw him a b-day party at my house. Everyone was fine except his 28yr old dghtr & his 29yr old neice - his son (21) - ok. The neice's son got injured when him & my son collided playing football - even the nephew said it was an accident. However the daghtr & neice decided to inform my byf & guests that due to my son's behavior they just wanted to do cake & leave - so my byf came to me, said this and asked if I would please do the cake so they could leave. The next day I got very upset & told my byf that in no way was I going to accpet this as anything but an excuse because they didn't want to come to "my" house in the 1st place & my child was being USED as an excuse & it HURT! My byf agreed & apologized, but don't they owe me an apology - at a minimum to him - or am I way off base here. We've been together 10 mo now, but the "grown" up children won't stop manipulating him & he says he'll put his foot down - but has yet to do so. What now? I've told him our relationship is at risk.

2007-08-07 04:43:25 · 14 answers · asked by martiek7 3

it's vital.anyone answer me sooner and ofcourse compeletly.i definitly choose him

2007-08-07 04:39:34 · 15 answers · asked by david 1

I have been with my husband for five years. We have one child and one on the way. Over the years we have basically turned into roomates and have no sparks left in our marriage. We have been through many things over the years, infidenlity on his part, him feeling inferior due to my salary from my job. What can I do to bring back that "spark" and make our marriage last?

2007-08-07 04:38:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband used to have a bad porn habit. We got married and I decided that it needed to stop. I hate it. Since then, I've busted him numerous times watching it and I always got rid of the movies. He was going very well with it and I told him that I was proud of him for it yesterday. Last night, I catch him again.

I understand needing/wanting to spank the monkey, but does he really need to look at naked girls that aren't me while he does it?!? It makes me feel unattractive and not good enough for him.

I never confronted him about it last night... I was too tired to deal with it. What should I do? Should I talk to him about it or should I just let it go?

2007-08-07 04:36:05 · 51 answers · asked by TwinMommy 5

2007-08-07 04:26:49 · 18 answers · asked by bella-d46 3

2007-08-07 04:14:28 · 49 answers · asked by JJ 2

A few months ago I found out that my husband was not only chatting online wiht a girl but was talking to her on the phone also. He was away at school for two months and one of the weekends he said he was going to come home to see me he told me he was swamped with work to get done and could not make it home. I saw on the cell phone bill later that he spent the whole weekend hour after hour talking this girl. from around 11 pm up until 5 am. How could he have gotten any of his so called SWAMPED WORK down? When confronted he said he did not know why he did it and he doesnt even know what they talked about. He talked to her for two weeks and can not rememebr what they talked about? Do I trust him when he says he hasn't called her since? He has a government cell phone now that I can not see calls on! I do not even know the # to it! I found a notebook with her phone number written in it yesterday. He obviously liked something about her to keep it Should I contact her for the truth

2007-08-07 03:58:13 · 27 answers · asked by April R 1

It has been a week that my boyfriend has told me he doesn't want any kids mind you he already has two in another state that he pays child support to his exwife for. He is a great father. He is 30 and I will be 25 next week. I want a family one day at least one child in my life of my own. We even talked about it and he understands if I don't want to be with him anymore but I just couldn't make him move out. Like i said it has been over a week now and It is still killing me inside. I had the chance and I didn't break up with him. I don't know just how to say I can't be with you anymore. I guess it is because I keep hoping he will change his mind. What would you do in my situation????

2007-08-07 03:53:28 · 27 answers · asked by smd131313 2

ok so if you acused your husband of having an affair with the old lady that he is taking to and from work just because she lives about four streets over. he is in training and has three more days left which means 3more days of taking her to and from work. my husband is 30 and he told me that she is 57. i dont like him taking her to work and still have doubts. i dont like it because he never told me he was until i actually followed him one morning after i found her name address on the fridge. he told me he is not, laughed it off saying she is an old granny & he is just doing her a favour. we have been agruing for a week and a half about this. do you think if he was having an affair with her would he say that i could meet her? because he did. do you think that us fighting if he was having an affair with her would be the perfect opportunity to leave for awhile & then that way us fighting is an excuse to leave. we are always togther apart from him working. what do you think?

2007-08-07 03:52:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife wants a divorce but she hasnt been with another man. she doesnt want another man either.... in the Bible it says that if any man or woman puts away(divorces) their spouse then sleeps with another it is adultry and that is like the only way for a person to be able to remarry without sinning by committing adultry because their spouse already has. If my wife doesn't sleep with someone else yet doesn't want any thing to do with me, would it be religiously sound to remarry after the divorce? Marriage is once and forever according to the Bible.... so as long as she doesnt sleep with someone else after the divorce should i still try to pursue her? answers please.

2007-08-07 03:52:31 · 11 answers · asked by AmericanPatriot 3

During my divorce and other court proceedings involving child abuse why did the judge have no ordered visitation. He said to mediate on the visits?

2007-08-07 03:48:33 · 5 answers · asked by Sumoneconcerned 2

Since been divorced, the girlfriend is supposedly dating someone else...of which Im completely over. I've moved on and I feel great that all the lying, cheating and bs is over. My stress level has dissapeared and I'm working on myself for once. I haven't emailed, her, called her, anything in over 2 months...and I've found someone else...Guess we all get what we deserve. I found someone that is light years ahead of this waste of my time girlfriend that basically screwed up my marriage. She's beautiful, smart, fun, etc...etc. I haven't been happier in years. So there is hope, for us so called "Men who leave their wives for their girlfriends" and are kicked to the curb by the girlfriend. Funny thing is, I have no ill will towards the ex-girlfriend, if it wasn't for her, I would have never left my pathetic marriage and I would have never been able to meet my new girlfriend...I just want to say THANK YOU, to my ex-mistress!

2007-08-07 03:42:03 · 36 answers · asked by ilosthernyc 1

Last night i got into an argument with my mother and my husband called to say he was coming home from work. i waited for him and the min he came in, i said i need to speak to you i am in so much pain, all he could say to me was, he was hungry and doesnt have time to listen to me. mind you i am 5 months pregnant and helping him get his greencard.
what do you think i should do here? i have been married less than a year.

2007-08-07 03:39:35 · 26 answers · asked by bluez 1

I sure wish it would. Its times like this that I wish atheism wasnt real.

2007-08-07 03:33:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let's say the man is in his late 40's and the woman in her late 20's. Just wondering what the chances are....

2007-08-07 03:33:17 · 11 answers · asked by qatar qid 2

I've unfortunatly (for her) come to the realization that I no longer love my wife. I used to smoke pot almost everyday, which put me in a haze on how she treated me. Now that I am sober, I no longer wish to be her slave. She doesn't love me, she loves the situation. We have not been intimate in almost a year. We have the same agurments over and over just with different themes. He point of view is right, and mine are either always wrong or ridiculed. She is currently gone on vacation with her family for 2 weeks, and I have been left alone. Should I pack my stuff or wait. If I leave should I write her a letter or talk to her. The talking aspect is a tough bit due to us temporarly living at her parents house. So this makes talking in private a no go.

2007-08-07 03:32:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm trying to gear up for divorce. my ex was one that would run away from the marriage instead of facing problems. she did this on multiple occassions for me to chase her. Last time she left, i sent her an email and she said too many things have happened and that it's over but she wanted basically everything in the house. i protected myself and changed the locks until we could agree on things. i moved most of her things in the garage for her to pick up. when she moved she ripped up wedding pictures, and cut my head off of the family photo. she's mad. why? who knows. she was one that needed her ego fed constantly. i finally quit chasing her after she kept leaving after the slightest marital spat. now in the divorce she's angry. why? i don't know. we had no children together and this is what she wanted. i haven't heard from her in 3 months accept for nasty divorce stuff. in you all's experience what should i expect next? she's having a great time not working and being free this summer.

2007-08-07 03:25:04 · 14 answers · asked by survivor 1

2007-08-07 03:23:12 · 15 answers · asked by netty007force 1

2007-08-07 03:16:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife placed a restraining order on me. It was not necessary. I have filed for divorce. No kids , just real estate issues. My lawyer is incompetent.Can I use my wife's lawyer to help us in the divorce settlement. I want to avoid paying legal fees for two lawyers. The are draining our hard earned resource by making unnecessary corespondences and delays.

2007-08-07 03:16:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's one of those guys that has everything!

2007-08-07 03:14:07 · 18 answers · asked by girlnextdoor409 5

couple put some question similar to this. Its been few me and gf broken up. Since than i ususally feel very sad, cant help it not to loss tears you know its very hard broken up. Sometimes i sit in my room alone and listen love song it turns me to crazy feel going killing her.Im not serious killing just phase as I cant taken it anymore......really affects me to get on another stuff. what can i do. I know i have ignored her couple when she asked me go out with her dad, friends and last week she said come to my university offer u lunch but i do not go for some reason.

2007-08-07 03:12:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

itch due to you using a gel you bought from an adult store, and then you guy went down on you, is that considered a yeast infection or just get some cream for an external itch. The itch is only on the outside, and I can rub it with my hand to sooth it a little, but then it comes back. I have also bought some vagsil, but it's not working fast enough for me so I was wondering if it is best that I go out and get some monostat.

2007-08-07 03:10:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

emails me telling me how it is not working out. What a C-word.
Would you email her back?

2007-08-07 03:02:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Meet her in college. age 19
Get Doctors Degree in Meteorology. age 27
Get Married(age 27)
Get a Job(age 27)
Have two-three children(after working the first 5-7 years)

2007-08-07 03:00:53 · 8 answers · asked by novapri39 2

I heard recently of a new law that may entitle unmarried couples to receive the same rights as married couples do (i.e sahre of house, earnings etc. What a joke - if they want these rights then they should get married then? Surely some men dont get married in the first place cuz they dont want some woman taking all their well earned wealth. They obviously dont love them enough in the first place.

2007-08-07 02:57:36 · 21 answers · asked by GG 3