i am newly married & do not want children for 1 year for that what i have to do & i need clear explanation plz help me
2007-08-07 04:51:04 · 15 answers · asked by pkg_sriram 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No sex at all or LOTS of birth control just in case one method fails. Condoms, spermicide, birth control pills or the Depo shot for your wife.
2007-08-07 04:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not really sure about what you are asking. But maybe you should talk with your new spouse and explain what ever your situation is with her. chances are she probably doesnt want any right now either, with the 2 of you just getting married. You need time for just the 2 of you anyways before you start bringing children into the picture.
2007-08-07 11:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by mom of 3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Birth control, wear a condom. Also spend that year getting to know your wife better and spending time with her so that your relationship is very strong before children are brought into it. Do not spend that year partying while 'the little woman' keeps your house.
2007-08-07 11:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by Saphira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife that you want to spend the first year of marriage with only her and it is important that the two of you have some time to spend together before the children come. Lots of couples do this, even longer than a year!!
2007-08-07 12:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy the good condoms, not the cheap ones made in India.
You don’t have to explain your, and your wfies' plans to anyone. I am never having children, by choice. When I was married people bugged me all the time about when we were having children. I told them we are not. They just went on and on. That was years ago, I am told people are not so mean about it today.
BTW: Did you know, that you don't have to have children at all, ever. I know it sounds silly, but most people don't know that you do have a choice. You don't have to give in to peer pressure, or family pressure.
2007-08-07 14:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Marvin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife to make an appointment with a doctor and get a prescription for the birth control pill. If this is not an option, then use condoms.
2007-08-07 11:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
clear explanation?! from us .. or to give to your wife... from us .. protection, safe sex: condoms and birth control.
to your wife... Its simple just be open with her. Tell her that you want to share your life with just her for the time being .. save up finically so you guys kids will have a good life... bc once a child is present ... they are there for at least 18 years if not more.. So she should respect you for wanting just one year of you and her time.
2007-08-07 11:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Life is simply beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use condoms and have your wife get on birth control (pills, patch, shot, ring, etc.). That's the only way to protect yourself against pregnancy besides abstinence.
2007-08-07 12:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by NYCLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you want to spend some time with her and her only before committing yourself into parenting and in the meantime you can go ahead and do some research on raising a child
2007-08-07 12:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by urhomiesid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Birthcontrol?
2007-08-07 11:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋