Marriage & Divorce - 4 August 2007

2007-08-04 23:13:43 · 2 answers · asked by santos t 1

Im 25 female studying to be dr coming from well off family
Hes 35 male working dr coming from well off family

1.When does a man decide he wants to marry a girl hes with and what makes him very badly want to get married soon.

2.Do men usually become real after being physically intimate since this guy family friend from years we are in love we are in touch only through online chat email phone for now is playing games he does have sense of humor we are to meet up next month or just nervous about meeting for first time.

3.If a man is in gang is a good idea to marry him if hes gone away from gang to settle in another country.

4.After marriage what keeps a man interested in marriage apart from physical intimacy interested enough not to cheat.

5.If couple is trying to have kids go in for adoption or biological child by sex or through modern means of science.

2007-08-04 23:09:28 · 9 answers · asked by fairytaleofmylife 1

we have sex twice a year for the last five years when i try and talk to him about are sexual problems. he says i never try which
isn't true he sleeps on the couch.for about two years now,he says because he want's to watch t.v. but we have a t.v. in our
bedroom. i'am feeling unwanted unattractive i can't get any
solutions to our problems.

2007-08-04 22:46:56 · 44 answers · asked by jeanne p 1

what you think , if they both love eachother, would she be able to adjust the differences of culture, language and tradition in other country to be happy with her hubby?

2007-08-04 22:45:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do all the houseold chores (cook, clean, laundry, etc.) and work outside the home (part time) and go to school (on-line), but my husband says things and does stuff like he thinks I just sit on my rear all day watching TV. He has yelled at me more than once because he couldn't find clean underwear--I hadn't folded yet, or the pair he wanted was only recently put in the laundry, or he'd made such a wreck of his dresser drawers that he didn't immediately see the clean pairs. I offer to cook breakfast for him almost every day (even though I rarely eat breakfast myself) and he comes back with "That'd be nice" all nasty like I've never offered before. We have a 10 year old son and I feel like I'm raising this kid on my own because my husband won't be more than a fair-weather parent. Now I'm being criticized by my husband because the boy is rebelling against my authority. I am so frustrated with all this that I feel like packing up my son and leaving for good. Am I really a lazy wife?

2007-08-04 21:42:06 · 35 answers · asked by Bama Mom 1

But then get bent....or won't allow their men the same pleasures?

What gives wemen?

Thanks,

Flavio

2007-08-04 21:30:48 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

My husband is interested in us swinging. We have done it a couple of times, and I dont mind when it is just other men, but I am too jealous to include women. I have discussed this with him, and he said he is fine if we just include men only. (He is straight). I guess I am just feeling guilty because it seems like I am the only one having all the fun. Is this right? I dont have a problem with the whole swinging thing, but am I being too selfish?

2007-08-04 21:14:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i have been together for 6 years (married for 1 1/2). since we've been married he's had an urge to clear his concence about our dating years. i'm now, 3 or 4 years later finding out about certain truths and lies. now this pisses me off but my husband says i'm making too much of it, it was in the past, it doesn't affect now, ect.

what do you think should i just let this go, "water under the bridge" or am i right to be mad at him?

2007-08-04 21:05:17 · 6 answers · asked by randa 2

now really ,can a man love 2 women,how do you feel if you keep a woman for marraige and kids (social life in your state) and another to travel and have fun with (freedom with no commitment) how would you feel and both are in love with you and treats great and have sex with both and every one feels you adore her the most in the world who would you choose and how would you feel about yourself????

2007-08-04 20:37:16 · 6 answers · asked by mony y 2

2007-08-04 20:33:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Back in 1995 ,I married my boyfriend in county jail. The ceremony was soo sad .We got married through a glass window.I would go visit him everyday, But when it came time for him to get transferred out, He called me collect..to tell me to go down to the station to pick up his property, When I did I had noticed some letters from his ex gf..very graphic letters I may add..but this girl lives out of my town..Anyways..the next day when he was about to leave I wanted to confront him about this girl, afterall he is my husband!!! The officer at the visiting window told me that .he had all his visits of the day..so I went home confused and heartbroken..waiting for him to call ...no call..I went the day after to see if he still was there and they told me he had been transferred out the night before..The officers did not realease any info to me, I called his P.O...he told me that he didn't want to act as a 3rd party.To this day I havn't heard from him. i run into inlaws, but they don't talk 2 me.

2007-08-04 20:08:07 · 20 answers · asked by I <3 Joe 2

2007-08-04 20:03:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

recap
i ask him would he consider being in a relationship with me to see where this go since he told me that i could be his fiance well he answer and said maybe i will consider us being in a relationship one day......
he said maybe means maybe
doesnt mean a yes or no
So should i move on with a maybe i will one day or keep trying...we both live in different states and im going to be seeing him alot starting in september...would a man waste his money on you ..buying plane tickets and hotel and everything else if he wasnt somewhat hoping that maybe one day i will be his women/fiance?

2007-08-04 18:57:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-04 18:40:54 · 6 answers · asked by Bright Shadow 5

i ask him would he consider being in a relationship with me to see where this can go since he told me that i could be his fiance right? well he answer and said maybe i will one day......
he said maybe means maybe
doesnt mean a yes or no
So should i move on with a maybe i will one day or keep trying...we both live in different states and im going to be seeing him alot starting in september...would a man waste his money on you ..buying plane tickets and hotel and everything else if he wasnt somewhat hoping that maybe one day i will be his?

2007-08-04 18:27:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-04 18:13:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

was wrong with him? He has done the on again off again relationship with his kids mom for years, but said he knew when he was with her he was not going to marry her. We have only been dating for a few months, but I don't want to waste mt time with someone who will never settle down. I was kinda hoping that his kids mom taught him the do's and the don'ts when it comes to making a relationship work, and now he knows where he wants to be. My gf said if a man is almost 40-years-old, and he has either never been married or he don't have kids, that something is wrong with him. What do you think.

2007-08-04 17:34:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

petition for support.(income execution standard 17% in NY) A few months later we reconciled & we ammended the order to direct pay at $100. Off & on we would brake up. I would always give her cash. This brings us to 2007. We had a break up & she is a scorned woman. She filed a petition stating I never gave her any support for our child since the inception of the order in 03. (Which is a fabrication).I appeared after being serverd and was given an chance to bring evidence to refute her. We were ajourned to the next week. I was unable to appear and a default order insued. The CSMS# that was on the petition was now changed to another number. After filing a motion to vacate a defaulted order. I had my day in court. She did not appear & the mag.defaulted against her. Ordering income execution removed & zeroed out the arears. he closed the original csms# .but the new # was not closed & SCU says I still owe and threatening my Drivers liscense. How to I get the SCU off my back?

2007-08-04 17:07:07 · 9 answers · asked by lenhugh 1

my husband seems to think i need to hang out with a bunch of girls but i really dont feel the need for it .im not a real girlly girl i dont like to shop or have my toe nails painted by a person i hardly know. i also dont like diamonds or gold.some of the girls i do hang around just drain me with their drama and all of their life problems.i feel bad for them ,but damn,how do they breath between words?How do I explain to him that im happy with the friends i have,and i dont want to be miss popularity?

2007-08-04 17:03:33 · 9 answers · asked by Jeng 3

When I tell him, just in case he is sort of uneasy about the idea, how can I try and get him familliar and comfortable with the idea? I'd be bringing up me stimulating him, not visa versa, although that is already a territory that has been explored.
Any advice on how to talk to him about this, just in case he decides to bring up that male anal stimulation is for homosexuals?
I just want the conversation to go well, if he's not up for it, I won't try and put pressure on him, but I'll just try to give him my counter opinions on the matter.

No comedy answers please.

2007-08-04 17:02:58 · 18 answers · asked by megan 2

My wife and I have been married for over 5 years now. We often have brutal verbal agruments where we say horrible things to each other to prove how mad we are. I feel that this is some immature way of trying to be right on both of our parts. When we finally work things out, things are great until we butt heads again and then the "pissing match" begins all over.

This was easier to deal with before we had kids but now we have a 1 & 2 year old. I love these kids more than life itself. She knows this and constantly threatens to take them away which infuriates me to unspeakable levels.

Why do women present an image (that deserves an Emmy) when you are "wooing" us in the dating stage? Why do women change when you slip that wedding ring on? And why do they abandon all things pleasant when they finally have you in their grasp when kids come into the picture?

I am deploying soon and worry about what will be left of our relationship when I get back. Help me please. I really do love her.

2007-08-04 16:56:46 · 16 answers · asked by Romantic at heart 1

2007-08-04 16:48:00 · 20 answers · asked by tazzybeer06 7

one way i make money is to clean other peoples private body parts. how should i tell my husband?

2007-08-04 16:39:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been on the downlow with a guy for six years. We have been on and off, mostly on. He got married and had a kid but we have recently began kicking it again. I love him with all my heart. He says he's serious about leaving her, but I am not so sure.

2007-08-04 16:39:07 · 39 answers · asked by joebloe 2

2007-08-04 16:29:32 · 11 answers · asked by precious1 1

I have always heard that 50% of all marraiges end in divorce. But are there and statistics on the percentages of first marrages that end in divorce?? Wouldn't the statistics be higher??

2007-08-04 16:20:33 · 6 answers · asked by jessie 2

My husband knows I love white roses. He bought red, and he signed our card just before we were leaving to go out for dinner. He isn't very romantic anymore, and maybe I expected too much. I have 3 children, ages 23, 19, 13. I told my oldest I was disappointed that he didn't even wish us a Happy Anniversary. He told me that he was getting us a card and gift on Sunday August 5th, when WE take everyone out for dinner. I don't even want to go. I didn't expect gifts, because I know my kids are paying for their University education, but just some sort of acknowledgement would have been nice. When it is everyone's birthdays I make their favourite dinner, buy them something nice. If they ever need something they know they can count on me. This is really upsetting me, I feel if it wasn't important enough to even say anything why should I make a big deal out of it to take everyone out to celebrate. Do I go out for dinner, I don't feel appreciated at all - time to move on?

2007-08-04 16:17:29 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-04 16:16:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby is deployed. Since he's been gone, his friends check on me to see how i am doing. His bestfriend misses him just about as much as me. He calls the most and gets updates about my hubby. Since my hubby's been gone we've got alot closer. We talk all the time. THERE IS NOTHING GOING ON BTWN US AT ALL! so please don't assume that. He is w/ 1 of my bestfriends & he doesn't want her to know how much we talk bc she REALLY is the jealous type. My hubby knows we talk, but not how much. Us talking is like therapy for us both bc it is so nice to talk w/ someone who is so close to my hubby. Again there is nothing going on, we just don't want them to worry when there is no reason to. It helps me and him both to talk to each other and get through this deployment. I'm willing to tell my hubby about it when he comes home. i just don't want him to worry while he is gone. I hate keeping this from them, but it helps so much. Is this wrong??

2007-08-04 16:05:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

cuz i have no life and hubby is working stinks being me lol

2007-08-04 15:34:18 · 49 answers · asked by LOLO 3