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i ask him would he consider being in a relationship with me to see where this go since he told me that i could be his fiance well he answer and said maybe i will consider us being in a relationship one day......
he said maybe means maybe
doesnt mean a yes or no
So should i move on with a maybe i will one day or keep trying...we both live in different states and im going to be seeing him alot starting in september...would a man waste his money on you ..buying plane tickets and hotel and everything else if he wasnt somewhat hoping that maybe one day i will be his women/fiance?
2007-08-04 18:57:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been in a similiar situation with a guy I dated before...not to try and be personal,but have you two been intimate? If so it could be possible that he is stringing you along for the benefits of sex..But then again I might be wrong..My best advice I can give you is maybe telling him to give you a straight answer because you can't wait for him forever.If a man has the money to waste it's most likely he would.Do you know if he is seeing someone else?Anyway, like I said just talk to him and ask him to be straight forward in his answer and maybe it would be good for you to continue dating other people and keep your options open.If he waits too long someone might come along who treats you the way you want to be treated and he would be too late.Good Luck!
2007-08-04 19:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by tiffyb9784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life. Hang out with your friends. Don't let your happiness depend on him. Don't wait for his calls. In fact, go a few days before returning them. Be friendly and happy to him. Don't be bitchy, but Be Confident! Find a hobby. Go jogging. Be beautiful. Date other people. Don't ask him another question about your relationship. Be yourself. DO NOT MAKE EXCUSES FOR HIM. Don't jump into bed with him as soon as he calls. Be Strong!!! He will then begin to realize that you are the one. You are beautiful, independent and you don't NEED him. This is when he will want you most. Take my word for it; it's true,
2007-08-05 02:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by anniehank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait on him... you can still keep the communication open with him but don't wait for him... a maybe isn't a yes or a no, but it will turn into one of those two.
tell him that you are not going to wait any longer and maybe you will still be around if he is ever ready.
but only do this if you are really going not wait. otherwise you will look like a fool.
2007-08-05 02:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by Twizzle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wants you for one thing. Don't get your hopes up. Don't go to see him. If he really cared about you he'd tell you so.He wouldn't play these games where he's telling you that MAYBE he'll be in a relationship with you. Wake up!!!! Before you get really hurt.
2007-08-05 02:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up on him. a man so unsure of himself shouldn't waste this much of your time and shouldn't cause this much anxiety and stress for you. dont hope on a man who only "considers" being in a relationship with you.
2007-08-05 02:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by manovelli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON !!!!! Matter of fact run away the guys just a player an you are his latest victim.
2007-08-05 06:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by MR Obvious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to know to dump him OK
2007-08-05 02:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by hoopy girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seriously, are you my ex-gf? this was our same situation...
simple answer: move on. you found him, you can find another
2007-08-05 02:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by tony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋