Marriage & Divorce - 2 August 2007

My husband and i have been together for one year already, and we trust each other completely. Since we have been together he has completely stopped watching AVs and p o rn and such. We have complet trust in each other. However, only recently he has told me that he is unable to control his urges of fantasizing about other women. What is wrong with him??? He says he still loves me, and i appreciate the trust, is he going to cheat????

2007-08-02 23:41:46 · 31 answers · asked by sweet_candy_1229 1

2007-08-02 21:49:47 · 21 answers · asked by ~*Redbutterfly*~ 1

2007-08-02 21:27:11 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

for talking

2007-08-02 21:23:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

this person who was so good started bahaving badly, he does all the bad things which make his wife hurt.he used all the bad words to scold his wife when they're angry,but not to anyone else.he likes to take drinks,play casino & has started doing all the bad things,he lies to his wife a lot,they've got married recently,but the poor wife has not enjoyed her married life.this person is good looking more than his wife,recently it was caught to his wife that he was making a reletionship with one girl over the phone who has found his number & details to call him saying that he looks very cute like her x-boy friend&she loves him also.. this girl is not that good looking at all, but he has also called her so many times&he was hiding this story from the wife but anyhow she has found the fact & faught with him as she's totally heartbroken as she loved him a lot.he says that he never had a reletionship with that peson,but the wife thinks it's better to heal if he has a problem through hypnotism

2007-08-02 20:27:24 · 11 answers · asked by niki 1

My husband and I are both still friends w/ some of our ex bf/gf. We've even gone to lunch w/ our ex w/o eachother there. We happen to have have complete trust and honesty in our marriage. Just curious what others think of this.

2007-08-02 20:08:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 16 years. The guy I was living with before I was married has been on my mind for quite a while now. I have been thinking about him all the time and have had several dreams about him. I love my husband but can't help but wonder what would have been. The last time I saw him I felt the connection we had was still there and regretted the way we left things. I know he is married now and would just like to know how he is and see if the spark is still there. Any ideas?

2007-08-02 20:05:53 · 10 answers · asked by Snoopystheman! 1

I recently was browsing the home PC and found a load of p*orn movies and pics. The PC is in my niece's room and she spends enormous amount of time on the net. She is just 14 and watching porn??

There were a few photos of her too...taken with her mobile phone. She was alone but was nude and posing in indecent manner. Who took these pics and why? Or did she take them herself?

Her mother doesnt know anything about this. Should I rat her out? Or keep it to myself? Or should I confront her myself?

2007-08-02 20:05:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

On regular basis goes and buys things we can't afford or even need and doesn't even tell me. We had an agreement at the beginning of our relationship that anything over $200 we need to ask each other, but he has NEVER done it. And he always buys stuff only for him, not for the family or things for the house. For example, just this week he decided he wants a boat and he is going to get it this weekend whether "I like it or not". He says " I don't care what you think. I am going to be out on MY boat and you can sit at home with the kids and watch TV". These kind of arguement are continuous. About three months ago we had $6500 set aside to put an addition onto our house and he has spent more than half of it on a new car stereo, gave $1000 to his sister and says he doesn't know what the rest of it went. I don't want to treated like this, I want to leave and file for divorce. The hard thing is he refuse to go to counceling. For me that a deal-braker. Should I leave him?

2007-08-02 19:16:39 · 12 answers · asked by muffin 1

but didnt do it again after a year or so.


It's clear that she's not a virgin anymore. But could men tell or not?

2007-08-02 19:10:22 · 39 answers · asked by . 3

My husband had an affair with a HPD officer that would come around "for a safe place to use the restroom". Husband's response is... everybody does it. It's just the industry and work environment I'm in. I am just curious to know if their truly are upstanding, strong Christian fireman that stand on their faith in the midst of their bretheren at work

2007-08-02 19:08:44 · 12 answers · asked by amberlina906 1

ive been told im cute...

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2007-08-02 19:02:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband & I have been together for 6 years, married for 3. A year into our engagement he started showing some behaviors that conserned me. He was abrassive, rude toward me, my family, his friends and his family and had outbursts of anger at almost anything even the smallest situation would be a big issue for him. I thought it was just stress from planning the wedding but we've been married for 3 years now and it just keeps getting worse. I feel I have to walk on egg shells around him because I don't know what will make him tick that day. We use to have fun and be layed back now he's up tight and blaming me for it. We've been goig to counseling but his attitude has not changed. He says he wants to make this work but his actions are showing the opposite. HELP I'm at the end of my rope.

2007-08-02 18:59:46 · 14 answers · asked by jarosi 2

ok...i love my side of the family..
bfore i met him, i would go over to my families' house all the time and we just show up whenever we want. my house or theirs...we'll do laundrys at each others houses when we visit or whatever..it's all ok with us.
now that i'm married, my hubby(peter) doesn't like it when they come over or anything. he's always giving me excuses that his too tired for company, which i understand at times..but everytime they want to come over? i have children from a preivious marrige..and when they come over he'll give me all this excues too, that he don't want them over too much or blaa, blaa, blaaaa...a few times my kids came over to do laundry and he told them they can't do laundry at our house anymore...i was so mad but i let it go.2 days ago my younger sis came over to ask me to help her with something..he told her he doesn't want her or anyone asking me to do things for them anymore, cuz they should do it themself.i am so frustrt with peter..Help!!

2007-08-02 18:58:13 · 10 answers · asked by sosad 1

I'm 21 and my guy is 31. He has one child from his ex-wife. He says he still want's another child with me. I'm Not sure if I want any at all And if we do...when we do...is he still going to be active enough when he/she is young and stern enough when they are a teenager? should we get started now? or not have any?

2007-08-02 18:56:24 · 14 answers · asked by Nessa 2

I'm 42yrs old woman who came from other country.I hve 2nd marriage & I hve 3children with previous marriage.2 of them're above 18 and 1 is about 15.1st of all when I came to US alone,I met with my 2nd husband who also came from my country.That time he asked me to marry him because he love me and want to help my family.So we're married and I brought my children here.But after 3yrs of our married and 1yr of my childern arrived here,He said "he dont want my children to live with us" and if I don't agree with him he gonna divorce.My children is my life and they're good to him .but he show his bad mind and I have only chance to divorce.But I don't know what should I do .We hve a small bussiness with his name and we also bought a house together last yr but he controls most of our financial.So I like to know if we divorce what should I do with our estate and how can i deal with financial situtation?I can't afford a lot of money for divorce because I don't know how much can I get after that.pl

2007-08-02 18:39:34 · 9 answers · asked by hi2008 1

i asked a question where married women who makes a fool out of there selves at.40.s year.s old and with us fellows . i am.17.years old and this one married woman tried to kill her self this isnt no joke she. had.4. kids and a husband .she thought i loved her what a nut she wasnt even good in bed why do they think we want them she thought i loved her she was nothing but a cheap thing why do they thing a guy would want them like there husbands do we dont not like that nut in.w.va who tried to kill her self over me and she even told her kids .where was her lack of decency. she was no good

2007-08-02 18:33:35 · 11 answers · asked by matthew v 3

2007-08-02 18:21:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

This has been an ongoing pattern throughout my parents marriage. My mother would always get upset over a thing which she considers as 'utterly important to the family.' Over time when things occur, my father is always at fault. I am getting low grades. "Blame the husband! Hes a bad father!" Oh your son lied to me. You are such an irresponsible father. My mother has been such a nuissance ever since my birth which my father never experienced when they were dating. My father has regretted ever since of their marriage. My mom would scream in vain as if 500 speakers were in the room, eyes explode in redness, and even curse and use a powerful word, hate. I've lost my tolerance for my mom's horrible attitude toward me and my father to the point I deem her as a Bipolar disorder statistic. She hates being criticized. I can't even call her a bipolar victim or she will scream at me. Another thing is her mood swings are extreme. A few weeks she is happy followed by rage. This pattern sucks.

2007-08-02 18:03:31 · 13 answers · asked by Mike L 2

im married for 13 years now,and i met this man named bruce,hes my chatmate,i think im falling in love with this man and he says he also falling for me.he wants to get me here in the philippines and lived together.do you think i will believed him and you think what he says are true...........is he really falling for me......

2007-08-02 17:59:04 · 12 answers · asked by reya m 1

What do you do when your wife flirts over the cell phone with a co-worker in front of you? I took off a week on my job and went with her on her job and found out a few things that really upset me and know im thinking of go ahead and getting a devorce...

2007-08-02 17:52:58 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1

I got married to a foreign national from the Philippines. We were married in Japan while I was stationed there. While her investigation was being done for her visa to come here it came to our attention that she was still married to another man by Philippine law. She divorced in Japan and apparently under Philippine law they do not grant divorces, only annulments. My question is, am I still legally married here in the U.S.? Thanks to all who answer.

2007-08-02 17:43:51 · 9 answers · asked by sparky_1627 1

I am 31 yrs old and have been married less than a year. Since i've been married I have become more fit and have lost 20 lbs. My husband on the other hand has become more lazy and has gained a little weight. Not enough that it would effect me wanting him sexually. I have found that he tends to reject me more when initiating intimacy. I don't understand!!! I hve asked him why he doesn't want to have sex, and all he can tell me is that he is tired or he has a headache. Wait a minute!! Did I just wake up in another life? I am not unattractive by far. I feel more confident in my appearance. He says that I complain about my stomach and how I need to lose it. He says that makes him skeptical of groping me or looking at me. I have tried to lessen those comments. I have tried to encourage him to exercise and eat better but he refuses. He used to body build alot and I tried to encourage that. Walking in front of the tv naked isn't working either. Somethin's gotta give!! Help Yahoo!!

2007-08-02 17:43:34 · 21 answers · asked by amithidius 2

2007-08-02 17:37:33 · 14 answers · asked by lilly l 6

I have been wanting to buy a sex swing they sell on ebay.

My sister has one and she says it is the best thing that ever happened to her. She claims the swing helped her want to be with her husband more. He seems happier too but I can't tell him I know why:)
Sis would kick my butt.

The type of swing I want, they are not going to be selling, on ebay anymore. But I will not be able to buy one until next month.
Dose anyone know of a place that sells these swing?? I know they have different colors I was hoping to get a pink swing.
Or has anyone ever used one of these swings, is it worth the extra money???

Here is the link to the swing I want.

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&rd=1&item=330150906554&ssPageName=STRK:MESE:IT&ih=014

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2007-08-02 17:37:13 · 0 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 17:35:58 · 13 answers · asked by Tiftif 2

Hey guyz! Ok so i only want serious answers to this. I have been dating a guy for almost 4 years now and im still young so we havn't goten married or anything but I am kinda at a road block. We wants to move in and get a house together but it's right next door to his parents...that's a prob all in it's self but besides that our relationship is really starting to suffer because he is going on his fourth job. I kno for afact he actully does have those jobs and he is not cheating. Well it just sucks cuz we both work until 4 or 430 and he gets home and goes to his other job....it just depends on the day and I don't even look foreward to fridays anymore cuz he works at a bank then he gets home and has to go set up to be a dj then he don't get home till 3am then he gets up at 7am to work at the back again then he has another wedding to dj after that! Then on sundays he will go to his parents to help them!! I understand he has to make money but come on! i am lonely.

2007-08-02 17:29:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met my husband when I was 18, he was 20. It has been 3 years and now he and I are married with a daughter. We used to be the best of friends. Now when we do spend time together we hardly say anything and we both have an awful time. I used to invite him to come hang out with my friends and vise versa, but we both never enjoyed ourselves, so we both kind of gave up. Even when we hang out with our mutual friends him and I don't interact. Now when we do talk 90% of the time we are fighting. Our "love" life is less then spectacular. I know that our chance's for divorce are high being that we were so young when we got married. I’m not ready for divorce yet. I want to be more connected to him again, but I just don't know how. I also want to try and not fight so much. How can I bring back our friendship and not fight so much?

2007-08-02 17:29:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anj S 2

is it possible to remain happy? even if this woman cheated on you before on you with your friend.

2007-08-02 17:17:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do about a family friends son who is best friend and lover partner
1.when having issues wont talk about it
2.plays silly games which can be figured out by a child
3.shuts of his phone to voicemail checks email wont reply when having issues to talk about
4.wont let to move on or be with someone else has hard time expressing himself through words(can express by actions while making love)
5.Loves very much and has been best friend forever through everything in life the best man

and since meeting after years have noidea about next meeting
being virgin we make love or just have one casual date without physical relationship not knowing when we will meet in future.

2007-08-02 17:14:56 · 7 answers · asked by artofseductionz 1