Marriage & Divorce - 31 July 2007

My wife's lezb?
dont ask me how i know!
since the past two years, I've noticed changes and they all tend towards her homosexuality, I love her and dont want to loose her but on the other side I know that she will always lack 'something' that I will never be able to give her. We have a little girl together and it will really hurt to let my wife go away.
I know that she'll 'never' express herself on that subject, nor will she leave her married life.... But I know she will feel like umcomplete.
I am the one who might give her freedom, but am scared of loosing her.
I know am being selfish.

give comments/advices

2007-07-31 23:17:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

we had an argument and he denies the child i'm carrying. This baby is his the other 2 children he has is not his but he claims they are he wants a divorce but I'm 7 months pregnant and can't get a job yet any help would be appreciated to get over him.

2007-07-31 23:04:55 · 10 answers · asked by stormieford 2

My fiance is a lovely man and he is a very gentle soul. He's a gentle person and rather quiet too. I also try my best to be a good person, but also believe that in life you have to be strong, be ambitious and be able to stand your ground. He says sometimes he feels not good enough for me and lacking in confidence. I keep telling him, no don't say that and try to boast his confidence as much as possible. However, I often feel frustrated and think 'why can't you just be a man!'. He also cries when he misses his family or if we have a disagreement. I am also worried about the kind of role model he would be if we ever had a child. Can anyone help or advise?

2007-07-31 21:53:42 · 17 answers · asked by Fluffy ♥ 4

We have lived together for 6yrs. We had a big arguement over a car and she moved out and now lives in her moms second house. We patched things up over a 5 month period and I finally ask her to marry me!! She asked me can she have time to think about it. How long should I wait?? (She has in the past asked are we ever going to end up married and I replied "when we are both ready and finished with school.) I'm in my early 30's and she is in her late 20's.

2007-07-31 19:54:55 · 6 answers · asked by help101 1

2007-07-31 19:50:58 · 15 answers · asked by wishfulthinking 2

sometimes i hear these voices in my head....i try to make them stop but sometimes they get really really loud. they tell me to do theses things that i know are wrong. i try to fight them but sometimes they over ride me. then they go away for a couple days. then sometimes i black out for a couple hours and dont rember what happened or how i got somewhere. i guess my question is this normal?

2007-07-31 19:46:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am curious to hear from other stepmom's to multiple kids, how you adjusted, and your thoughts.

I am 24 years old, I have a son who is 5 years old. Last August I married a wonderful man who is 36, and he has 4 kids, ages 14, 12, 11, 8. Out of our Motley Crew of 5 there are 4 boys and 1 girl, all very different personalities. From oldest to youngest we have The Basketball Star, The Skater, The Loner, The Princess, and the Whiz Kid.

I personally love the big family life. I had to have a hysterectomy at age 21, due to cervical pre-cancer cells, and I thought my dream of having the big family was crushed. Then along comes this great guy with 4 great kids. I will admit it took quite a bit of adjustment, to learn their personalities and most of all to learn how to run a household with that many kids. I am a full time stay at home mom/stepmom, full time jobs are not compatible with this many kids!

Now for YOUR story and thoughts about being a stepmom to multiples.........

2007-07-31 19:35:47 · 8 answers · asked by Domestic Diva 2

I'm a single mother of two who has been divorced for some time now. Since the divorce i have been very depressed and can exibit "manic" like behavior (like being very high strung, talking and walking real fast) then i feel very low and don't even feel like getting out of bed. After a year i finally saw a counsler and was told i was Bipolar and given meds for it. Now i'm locked in a bitter custody battle with my ex husband who wants sole custody of our son and daughter. He claims my manic depression is harmful for our kids and is trying to say i'm unfit because of my behavior. I feel this is a money issue. I make more money than him with my job plus i'm getting an inheritance from my parents( about 20,000 dollars) He is currently unemployed and if he gets sole custody i will have to pay him child support. I don't think he's fit beacuse he smoked weed around our kids when we were married a year ago and i know for a fact that he still does. But back to my being biploar will this make a

2007-07-31 19:31:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

why would i have sexual fantasies about him or think of even kissing him when I'm completely satisfied at home and extremely attracted to my husband. The only thing I can think of going on between my husband and I is .. me trusting him, because of lies financially and catching him on porn sites or trying to meet someone which he claims he was curious and never went through with. This happened a year ago, but I still find my self doubting him.

2007-07-31 19:20:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

can i collect alimony and child support for our daughter,married 13 years is alimony hard to get?

2007-07-31 19:19:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-31 19:05:08 · 13 answers · asked by mal m 1

I have been married for three years, I am the type of person that see's life with the glass half full, and my husband always see's it as half empty. I try to remain bubbly and positive but some days he just wears me down... and I start to wonder why do I even try to make him see the lighter and brighter side to life. HOW do you handle people like this in your life? Am I tyring to hard? Do I need to just let him be a grump butt all the time? I don't think it's fair for him to mistreat me when he is grumpy. Any advice or thoughts would be much apperciated.

2007-07-31 18:48:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel ready to leave my husband i'm tired of his crap the only problem is i don't have my own job,i feel like he's robbed my life away from me and i want it back do i get my **** together then drop him or do i drop him now,what do you think?

2007-07-31 18:21:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

they happy?

2007-07-31 18:07:13 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

a while ago my husband cheated on me with a "friend" of mine twice before and denied it at first then came clean. now this "friend" has come to me again claiming that last weekend he tried to kiss her but she turned him down. But my husband swears to me that he didn't try to kiss her. i don't know who to beleive if she is telling the truth then obviously i will leave him but what if he is telling the truth?! Please help

2007-07-31 18:06:32 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I seperated a month ago. To take a break and see how things would end up. I text messaged him tonight to see how he was doing. Some woman started text messaging me back from his phone saying that that he is fine but he cant talk to me because they are eating. More and More text's came. What am I supposed to do about this? Why would he disrespect me like this? We talk nearly everyday. And then he pulls this!

2007-07-31 18:06:29 · 26 answers · asked by who knows 3

It's just to simple to call it quits now these days.. So why bother? If a guy could have kids, home, love, intimacy, companionship, clean clothes, cooked meals, clean house and sex regularly(not like most marriages) without having to get married. If he does, then if it goes sour, all he owns goes to community property. so he ends up with 1/2.

2007-07-31 18:05:09 · 13 answers · asked by Bone Daddy 2

My husband and I have been having some problems to begin with because he pratically convinced me to lie to our neighbor that I had not hit his car(my neighbor's car), which I did do.My husband was afraid that my neighbor would make me pay for the whole damage.Since I listened to him, I never did tell him and my neighbor still found out because he saw that every measurement and proof was correct with what he suspected.Now that he knows that I was the one he came to talk to me and I had to tell him that I was planning on telling him the truth but my husband convinced me not to tell him.Now the neighbor is a really nice guy and has agreed to pay for the main part of the damage and for me to pay the other part.But my husband betrayed me because I found out that he told my neighbor that he did not know what had happened because I always lied to him and he did not trust me.Since I found that out I have been upset because a husband should never talk bad about his wife with anyone.Then, over..

2007-07-31 17:55:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do when you dont want to sleep in same bed as you hubby?
since he cheated i dont want him to touch me are sleep in the same bed. i forgave hin yet i cant let him touch me
it been since dec and we talked about it alot. but i cant over. he was overseas meet her om the internet had her come down when he got back. on the days for me and are kids. but he told me got no time but was with her. i want to make it work but i still truly feel he wants her not me.

2007-07-31 17:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by ctaylor1229702000 1

i went thru the history on our computer and my husband has been getting on porn alot,should i have confronted him when i was so angry or should i have waited for a better time?he's making it look like i'm the bad guy and he's the onr that's on the f'n porn sites i feel very hurt and angry should i feel this way,is him looking at porn concidered cheating,should i end my marriage?please help if you ever been in this situation.married 13 years help!?thanks

2007-07-31 17:47:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son's mother is holding him from me due to differences between her and my present wife. We have a court agreement that i get my son every other weekend.(which is already not nearly enough time to spend with your child) Even with police present will admit to not letting me have my son, which is a documented (police report) refusal to comply with the court order given by the court of common please of Philadelphia county. Besides get an attorney, what will happen when we go to court for this? Will they punish her by giving my son to me full time?
Thank You for Listening, answering,
a Concered Father

2007-07-31 17:44:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for 15 years now, but he doesn't love me anymore, I feel like he needs me to do his bed, food, laundry, he treats me bad. I loved him a lot, but it seems that he did all the possible so I moved away of him. The thing is I want to be loved, I am still young and pretty, I never want to get married again, but I want to feel special like I felt from him time a go.
Do I have to cheat him?

2007-07-31 17:43:34 · 10 answers · asked by Drew 2

sex is great know its wrong but hes really sexy n the sex is great wat should i do?? he also has a 2 year old daughter with her

2007-07-31 17:41:12 · 13 answers · asked by thatsexynurse18 2

..so when she was 3 years I finally managed to get her registered under my last name so that she could be in the public system, get access to healthcare, an education and all. She is 6 now. 4 years ago I got married to a wonderful man and we have a son together. We would want to get our kids under the same last name.do you know how we can do it..I am from Zambia, that's where my 6 year old was born and obtained her birth certificate..we are all in the US now..
Thanks

2007-07-31 17:40:48 · 8 answers · asked by mumof2 1

This year has been the hardest year for my husband and I and many people are telling me that it is the 7yr itch but I don't really believe in that stuff. Besides what is the 7yr itch?

2007-07-31 17:40:33 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1

My in laws and us started living together last month. somhow, i am not able to adjust to so many people in the house. I feel my husband and i don't have time together, etc. Nothing in the house feels like my own except for my wardrobe. i am working and it is actually a boon for me to be away from household stuff. But all the same, the fact that the 2 of us are far from being the 2 of us just keeps bothering me.small things irritate me.This has even started affecting how i feel about my husband. Don't feel like talking to him anymore.In fact,now i just can't wait to rush to work and drown myself in it.I have got into a mode where i feel my husband doesn't have me on his priority list and cannot care less about me.Deep down inside i know i am wrong, but am not able to block the thought out of my head.Am depressed, angry, sad, everything.My inlaws are nice people and have also noticed the change in me.am quiet at home,don't talk much to anyone. But yes,am polite &nice to everyone

2007-07-31 17:38:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

since he cheated i dont want him to touch me are sleep in the same bed. i forgave hin yet i cant let him touch me

2007-07-31 17:33:26 · 15 answers · asked by ctaylor1229702000 1

She also doesn't want me to ride my motorcycle, spend time with my daughter, even accused me of having sex with my daughter thats 22, doesn't want me to go anywhere except church with her, doesn't want me to smoke pot even though I rarely do, doesn't want me to have any friends, I feel l am in prison at home she sneaks up on me all the time to see what I'm doing. I don't like this.

2007-07-31 17:29:02 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is a sexoffender which i did not know till i was married

2007-07-31 17:28:11 · 10 answers · asked by jesable 1

been married several times .

2007-07-31 17:25:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous